#1891 You'll Get Used to It - Part 1
Part two: after years coded as type 2 — fighting for a pump, scary lows, lasting damage — she takes charge, turns her numbers around, and makes her case for antibody testing.
You’ll Get Used to It
Cold Open & Sponsors 0:00
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Hi. My name is Mary. I just turned 37. I live in Arizona. I am a marketing executive.
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Hi. My name is Mary. I just turned 37. I live in Arizona. I am a marketing executive.
I'm in school earning my MBA. My wife and I are raising our two young kids, and I am a type one diabetic diagnosed coming up on five years.
How young are the kids?
Five and nine.
Oh, did you get one of them as a diabetes gift?
Two Moms, Two Kids & “All Out of Sperm” 2:34
Per well, one of them might have triggered my diabetes. I don't know. Oh. We're gonna talk about that.
Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. Listen to me.
Okay. We're gonna figure it all out. This is nice. Yeah. '32 when you were diagnosed.
Prior to that, how was your health?
So I can't actually tell you when I became a type one. I could tell you it was sometime between 2019 and 2021, between 30 and 32 years old. But the day somebody told me, oh, actually, you have type one diabetes was December 2021.
Okay.
Before that, health was okay. I've had Hashimoto's since my, gosh, early twenties, maybe, like, '22 or '23.
Mhmm.
So I've got that going for me. But, yeah, I never really had any major health issues.
Yeah. And did you intimate a moment ago that you cooked that younger baby inside of you?
Yeah. Mhmm. Yes. My wife, carried and gave birth to our son. He's nine, and I carried and gave birth to our daughter, and she's five and a half.
And she was born in September 2020, and then I was finally diagnosed extremely late in December 2021.
Okay.
A whole, like, nine months after I was in the ER for the first time with high blood sugar, which is the whole story we'll get into.
Are they, brother and sister through the donor as well?
Yeah. Yeah. We use the same donor.
Nice. Well, that's fun. Mhmm. Did you guys decide ahead of time that it's, like, you'll do one, then I'll do one?
Yeah. Oh, we sure did. Okay. So my wife, she's eight years older than me. She actually turns 45 on Thursday this week.
So it was just the obvious choice that she would go first and I'd go second.
Yeah. To get going. Yeah. Did you feel like afterwards, were you like, oh, I wish she was younger because she could've done the other one too. I'm I'm good not doing this, or were you excited to do it?
I always wanted kids. I was never super excited about pregnancy, but it was kind of like, it was something she really wanted to experience. And I was like, well, if you're gonna do it, I have to do it. Like, you know what I mean? And she Yeah.
She has a lot of health challenges herself. Her pregnancy was pretty horrible, and her delivery was pretty horrible. Like, you could not pay her to get pregnant again. So I was like, okay. Well, I'll do it next.
And then I was like, oh, hold my beer. Like, I'll have an even worse pregnancy and delivery than you. So you could not pay me to do it again. So we're quite happy. We're quite happy.
Two two parents, two hands, two kids. We're all out of sperm. We're good to go.
I wish you would have said that twenty minutes from now so we could have called this episode all out of sperm.
All out of sperm. We used all of our vials. That's fun.
Planning a Pregnancy, and a “Type 2” Label 5:12
Okay. Well, I guess let's find the beginning of the story. So you're not sure you're not sure when you started seeing symptoms, or they started going so that you're aware of them now in hindsight but didn't know about them then?
Yes and yes and no. So I have a suspicion that if somebody had tested antibodies, maybe they would have shown up in late twenty nineteen, but but maybe not. So, you know, getting pregnant as as lesbian is like a whole planned thing. Right? So, like, before we had decided, like, okay.
We're ready to have a second kid. So I went and had, you know, labs drawn, and they did some flushing of the plumbing and just different things to prepare my body for pregnancy. And at that time, I was actually I've just this is kind of a separate thing that we'll also talk about. I've lost, oops, sorry. I've lost 80 pounds in the last, like, three years.
So I was at my highest weight at the time, and my lab results came back with an elevated a one c. Mhmm. It was 6.3. And I was asked they were like, hey. So we're gonna go ahead and just classify you as type two.
It's the first time I'd heard that. And would you wait to get pregnant? Like, we'd like you to lose weight and try to get your a one c down. And I was like, well, no. Because when they did all the testing to make sure my body was good to go, they actually found that I had a prematurely low egg count.
And and I was like, fuck you guys. Like, you don't tell straight fat people to, like, wait and not have kids. So, like Wait.
Did you ask her that? Did you ask? Did you say, hey.
Do you do you
say that to straight fat people?
Or Yeah. I'm pretty as I'm pretty assertive. I'm a pretty direct person. So I was like, hell no. We're gonna move we're we're doing this right now.
It'll be fine. So they were like, okay. Well, just so you know, when you do get pregnant, which was a few months later, we're gonna just treat you as gestational from from the get go. So I was treated I was put on metformin before I got pregnant, and then I was treated as gestational throughout my pregnancy. I was given basal insulin.
They gave me a bullshit meal journal and carb restrictions. They never offered me a CGM. My morning glucose was always above a 100, which news flash even to this day. I I'm extremely well controlled now, but to this day, my morning blood sugar is almost never below a 100. There's just something about my body that works that way.
So they kept ramping up my basal really, really, really high despite what I now know were low symptoms in the afternoons and the evenings. So during pregnancy, despite an absolutely massive amount of basal insulin, like, I think I was up to, like, forty units a day at one point. My a one c shot all the way up to 8.4, and I was labeled noncompliant even though I I promise I was compliant. I was doing all the things I was supposed to do. They were like, hey.
You know, you're overweight. We only want you to gain 20 pounds. I've gained exactly 20 pounds through that pregnancy. Yeah. And nobody thought, oh, let's test this lady for antibodies because her a one c keeps shooting up, and she's having, like, a really high blood sugar pregnancy.
And my daughter was big. She was she was almost ten pounds at birth, and and they induced me three weeks early. She was born three weeks early. Well, Mary, they
gave you the notebook. What did you want? You wanted more than that? They gave you the notebook. Yeah.
I did it come with a pen? Did you get, like, a UnitedHealthcare pen or something with it too, or did they not even give you the pen?
Didn't even give me a pen.
We're gonna take great care of you. Here's a notebook. Hey. I'm having trouble. You're noncompliant.
Thanks for all the help. Is that about that's about how it went?
No. That's about how it went. Yeah.
Awesome. Yep. Thanks for all the help, everybody. That's great. So we so my gosh.
Did you did you, like, make go through the whole pregnancy with that eight? Yeah. And you were pushing and pushing and pushing with insulin that you couldn't you obviously, you couldn't make it? Yeah. Yeah.
Wasn't wasn't budging. Mhmm. So yeah. And I had a really terrible birth story, which I won't get into because that's not why we're here. But
Four Days of Labor 9:30
I mean, is it a fun terrible birth story? Because we can take a left turn. Except for the people who listen to it. I mean, they don't like the fluff in the podcast. Let me suggest to you, if you don't like the fluff in the podcast, Mary, you don't like a podcast.
I mean Exactly. Exactly. Well, and this is clearly this is a storytelling episode. So, you know, those are the ones I like. So if you don't, I don't I don't care.
Yeah. Don't listen.
Yeah. Yeah. Tell your story any way you want. And somebody online just said to me the other day, she's like, I know you help people and everything, but I don't like all the fluff. And I was like,
the fluff? Okay.
It's the whole thing. That's my thing. That's what
So don't listen to those. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. There's plenty of, like, you know, tactical episodes.
Yeah. Yeah. Well, that point was made too. I don't wanna get off topic because then people say I was talking about myself. I can't win, Mary.
They'll be also, I like the way I follow the story and I follow what I think is interesting. And someone said to me, like, you sometimes, like, you get away from the main point. And I thought, well, to me, it wasn't the main point. Like, it was it would have been the main point to you if you were interviewing Mary, but you don't have a podcast. So I don't know what to tell you.
Yeah.
No. How however you do what you do works really well for my brain. Thank you,
Mary. I appreciate that.
No. Okay. I wish it was a fun I wish it was a fun first right now. I was I was in labor for four days, natural labor for four days with absolutely zero pain management. I'm extremely stubborn, and I really wanted to see what my body could do.
And I don't know when to quit just in general in general in life. I I don't really
Don't know when to quit.
I really don't ever know when to quit. It it got to a point where, like, the baby was not doing well. I was not doing well. They were like
Mhmm.
I call it an emergency C section, which is easier than explaining what actually happened. It's more, like, semi emergent, but they were like, listen. We can either, like, get you on Pitocin and get you an epidural, and you've got, like, four hours to get this kid out, or we can get you down to surgery in the next hour. Mhmm. And I was like, I have nothing left.
I can't. Yeah. It's been four days of this. I can't imagine my anyway anyway, so I chose the C section. Hang on.
Here we are.
Wouldn't quit. It's hilarious. I'm waiting for you to tell me I'm not actually gay. I just brought it up once, and I'm sticking to it. Yeah.
Yeah.
That's hilarious.
Were you at your at your highest weight during that pregnancy?
Yeah. I was. Yep. So I'm down 80 pounds from my highest pregnancy weight, which I think counts.
I yeah. I would I would
I only gained 20 pounds.
I just wanna tell you. If if I was counting, that's exactly where I would count from. Right.
But Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. But weight an issue your entire life?
Yeah. Weight and eating disorders an issue my entire life.
Okay. And how did you fix that? I mean, you're gonna tell me use the magic juice. Right?
Be well, yes. And I became a type one diabetic. I kinda kinda didn't have a choice. I didn't really have a choice anymore. Yeah.
Well, how did So Go yeah. Go go ahead. I'm sorry. Baby's out and go.
“You Don’t Have Diabetes Anymore” 12:29
Yeah. Okay. So this is break. It's kinda crazy. So I'm in the hospital.
We were in the hospital for seven days. This is during COVID also, by the way, which absolutely sucked. And I got pregnant three months before COVID broke out. So I'm like, oh, wait. Now keep in mind, when I was told that they were gonna call me a type two diabetic, like, that's all anybody said to me.
I never talked to an endocrinologist. I did not know what that meant. I didn't know anybody with any kind of diabetes. So I was like, okay. Like, I don't know what that means.
I don't really care. And then I was treated as gestational. So in the hospital, the first couple days after giving birth, of course, my blood sugars were great. That's what happens. And, they were discharging me, and I was like, oh, wait.
What do I do, like, about my insulin and checking my blood sugar? And they said, oh, well, now that you've given birth, you don't have diabetes anymore. You can go home, and you never have to check your blood sugar again, and you never have to take insulin again.
What was that?
I I didn't know any better, so I said, great.
Knew this wasn't Yeah. Gonna be a Yeah. And I didn't quit on that either, Scott. They said, don't take insulin. I didn't take it.
Yeah. I was like, this is fantastic. I did. Then you hated doing that.
So you have I mean, you have all the knowledge in the world, not all the details, but you have enough knowledge to take good care of yourself. And then somebody has said, you can stop doing that now. Mhmm. And you're gonna tell me you went to DKA at some point. How long did it take?
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Symptoms Mistaken for Breastfeeding 16:23
Six months. Oh, it's
not bad. How much and and you were losing weight, so you thought, oh, the baby weight's coming off.
Oh, yeah. That's exactly how it happened. So Uh-huh. So a month a month postpartum, I did get labs. A one c was part of that.
My a one c was c was down to 6.3, and there were no alarm bells. Like, nobody was concerned about this, and I did not know what it meant. I also healed really, really poorly from my C section. It took months About. Probably because my blood sugar was high.
Yeah.
My doctor had to put two different wound vax on just to get it to seal up. Then also because this is where it's, like, sugar in the egg. Was it before pregnancy, or did pregnancy trigger it? Or was it we had our first of many bouts of the original COVID that December when our daughter was three months old? Okay.
Like, to you know, take your pick. Russian roulette. I'll never know. Doesn't doesn't actually matter. Just interesting to think about.
So December through March, so this is three to six months postpartum, I started having symptoms, which I thought were breastfeeding symptoms. I was exclusively pumping around the clock, like, eight times a day. I lost, like, 40 pounds. I was peeing buckets. Water was the best thing I had ever had in my entire life.
I was exhausted, but, like, those are all symptoms. Again, I don't I don't I don't necessarily know where the line is between normal and not normal. I've never done this with my body before even though I was a parent already. I was like, ah, yay. I'm losing weight.
Like, this is the best diet I've ever been on. And, like, I'm really thirsty. Well, you've gotta, like, double your water intake when you're breastfeeding, and I'm peeing a lot. Well, that happens when you get up in the middle of the night, and I'm tired. I have a toddler and a newborn.
So Yeah. I just thought absolutely nothing of it until I started losing my vision.
Did that by the way, some people, that doesn't even get them. So did you
That's what got me. Okay. That's what got me. Yeah. I and I've worn glasses almost my whole life.
And but this was not just, oh, my prescription has changed. Like, I couldn't see my computer screen. I couldn't see the TV. The floor was blurry, and I I could no longer see at night. Like, I couldn't see lane lines when I was driving at night.
I couldn't drive at night anymore. Mhmm. And we have some family eye stuff, and I was like, oh, shit. It's that thing that happened to my aunt's eyes. Like, I gotta get to the eye doctor.
The Eye Doctor Who Caught It 18:50
So I go so I go to the eye doctor, and this sweet, sweet man, he's doing the exam. I'm telling him everything that's happening. I'm I at at the time, I'm less so now, but at the time, I was still very prickly if anybody brought up, like, weight or diabetes because it was it was pretty triggering. Like, my whole pregnancy
Okay.
Has gestational. It's pretty triggering for me from, like, a eating disorder perspective. So he's like, has anyone ever diagnosed you with diabetes? And I was like, well, I had gestational. But, you know, that was, like, six months ago.
That's over now. Yeah.
Yeah. That's over now. You know, I'm, like, getting defensive. He's like, have you like, when's the last time you checked your blood sugar? I was like, before I gave birth, they told me in the hospital I didn't ever have to check again.
Like, I'm defensive at this point. And he's literally holding my hand, and he's like, can I please he's like, we have a meter here in the office? Can I please check your blood sugar and, like, fully beat red at this point? I'm like, fine. I was over 600.
Five seconds before that, you're like, the patriarchy. And then Yeah.
But, seriously, this eye doctor is a may I still go to this eye doctor. And every time I see him, I'm like, you saved my life.
Yeah. What a thoughtful person. That's awesome.
Yeah. So he was like, I'm gonna need you. He's like, we're not gonna finish this appointment. I need you to go to the ER right now. Would you like me to call an ambulance?
And I was like, what? An ambulance?
What are you talking about?
No. I don't wanna pay for an ambulance. And I was like, I'll take myself to the ER. I have to go home and get my pump, and I need to call my mom and have my mom come and, like, help my wife with the kids because, you know, who knows how long the ER is gonna take. So this is 03/15/2021.
So I went to the ER, and it was the most disappointing experience. Yeah. They didn't run any labs. They didn't give me insulin. They didn't test my ketones.
They didn't test my antibodies. They gave me a bag of fluids, told me to go home, told me to find an endo, and said, you're overweight and you have type two. You need to lose weight and see an endo.
Awesome. Thank you. Awesome. So the at this point, let me just make sure I understand. The eye doctor so far is the most steady
Competent.
Competent medical person involved in this story so far.
Mismanaged for Four Years 21:16
Yeah. Yeah. And so that's by the way, the where we're going with this is I was grossly mismanaged for four years, and it put my life at risk until I so I chose to take charge. So I really kinda only feel like I've had type one for the last, like, year, year and a half because that's how long I've been like, alright. Everybody move out of my way.
I'm I'm gonna figure this out now. I can I just So I
a quick question off of that? Before we started recording, you said you've list you've heard the entire podcast?
Almost. Almost. I've listened to almost every episode just in the last year. I I only discovered you a year ago.
That's what I was gonna ask you. In the last year you did that? Mhmm. Are the kids okay? Did you, like Yeah.
Are there in the closet? Did you quit your job? How did you make so much time?
I I work from home in my home office, so I my favorite places to listen to the podcast are in the shower and when I'm driving. And if I'm having a just a slow day at work where I'm just running a of numbers and reports, I'll just have it on in the background.
Yeah. I listen to YouTube videos in the shower, in case what people are wondering what I'm doing when I'm shower. Nice. Yeah. No.
I I or I talk or I talk to an AI bot to, like, work through my ideas for the day. Yeah? Yeah. I don't know if everybody else is up to that yet, but you guys will be in a couple of years. You'll stop making fun of me a couple years from now.
My wife always my wife always has a an ear ear AirPod.
Mhmm.
I don't know. It's not actually an AirPod. It's such a earbud thing. She always has one in her ear, and she's always listening to a podcast in the background.
Yeah.
But she likes podcasts about serial killers. So, like, I'll get in the car with the kids, and it'll connect to her Bluetooth. And it'll be like and then he stabbed her 500 times. I'm like, shit.
Hey. Hey, guys. Hi, everybody. Every everyone's fine. Everyone's fine.
Yep. Older mommy is not crazy, which is I assume what we call her. And Yeah.
Actually, her name is mommy, and I'm mama. So you got that right.
Mommy mama? Okay. Mhmm. I wish I would've got the pick more. They just call you what they call you, and then you're, like, stuck.
I did
Our son our son actually named us. We we were interchangeable until he turned two, and then he decided she was mommy and I was mama. And that's what I wanted, so I was happy.
Oh, that's nice. You you had your you had your
I wanted to be mama.
Had your kids on mama?
Yep. Wait.
Working Through an Eating Disorder 23:35
I I wanna stop here for a half a second because I feel like we're about to get very sad about what happened to you after the the emergency room. So let's just double down on sad. Where did the eating disorder start, and how did it manifest, and how did you manage through it, all that stuff?
It started when I was 13, anorexia and bulimia. I was in the hospital a couple times, in and out of therapy. And honestly, it continued. It was the most severe. I mean, I'm five I've always been I've been five seven for a long time.
So I'm a fairly tall lady, and I was, like, a hundred pounds at one point in, like, middle school. It was it was the most acute for a few years. Got better in high school, but honestly, it didn't really stop until my, gosh, probably mid twenties, and and it's something I fight even to this day. And then kind of the pendulum swung in the other direction with bingeing and overeating. And, you know, you get married.
You have kids. You start gaining weight. It's what happens. Emotional eater. And something I wanna talk about at at some point is how hard it was to become a diabetic and have to be so hyper focused on my food and my carb counting as somebody who battles
Mhmm.
Eating disorder tendencies. And I've worked my way through that for the most part, but that was one of the most challenging things for me.
Yeah. I can I can I mean, I can imagine? It does obviously
some tricks that I'll share, to kinda
Okay.
Be less triggering to myself.
Okay. We'll get back. We can get back to what you want.
Or Yeah. Yeah. Even being way even being weighed, like, at I started refusing because I saw two doctors every week. I had two doctors appointments every week for my whole pregnancy. I was considered so high risk for for many reasons, and I started just refusing to let them weigh me.
I was like, one of you can weigh me every other week. And you can compare notes, and you're not gonna tell me what number you saw. And, like, keeping the journal was triggering, having them nitpick everything I ate was triggering, kinda The carbs like, it was all so triggering, and then it got 10 times worse when I realized I was I was type one diabetic.
So I employed part of your strategy this weekend when I took my very fashion forward 22 year old daughter out to buy some clothes for summer.
And Mhmm.
I said to the guy ringing it up. I said, listen. Here's what's gonna happen. You're gonna ring all that up, and then I'm gonna hold my credit card over here. Uh-huh.
No one's gonna mention how much this was. Okay? He looks at me, and I went, I don't want you to tell me. I don't want you to show me. I was like, just let me know when it's time to reach out with my hand.
I was like, I don't wanna know.
Yeah. Yeah. No. Totally. So we'll we'll take a little left turn and then and get then get back on track.
But so for me, counting carbs is less triggering than counting calories because the way I would hurt myself in the past was via calorie restriction and calorie counting.
Okay.
So I've just learned when I look at nutrition labels, I just hold my hand over the big number. I just don't I just don't look. I don't look. I don't care. I I don't wanna know.
And I use because I cook a lot. So often, you know, I'm not eating something from a box. I don't know exactly how many carbs it is, and so I use AI
Right.
To describe what I'm eating, and I'll show a picture of my plate with my hand next to it. Oh, a great idea. I have trained it. Don't you ever tell me the calories. All I wanna know are the macros, and it knows that.
How about that? These are my, like, workarounds. Yeah.
Great idea. And Yeah. Did you learn that in therapy? Did you learn that on your own?
Onion.
On your own. Was the therapy valuable ever? Do I mean, do you do you understand the core of where your pain is from, or do you No. Do you and is that like, this is the reason you still struggle, you think, because you haven't been able to affect that as much as necessary, or, like, what do you see as the as the mechanism?
Well, so I'm I'm still in therapy. I'm a big fan of therapy now, but I didn't actually comply with any kind of therapist until I met my current therapist. And she and I have been working together for, gosh, probably eight years now.
Mhmm.
And, yeah, I've done a ton of growing and a ton of healing, and even this diabetes journey has really, like, stretched me in some ways that have ultimately been positive. But, you know, I'm a I'm a typical type triple a perfectionist. That kinda sums it up with with the the history of with a with a history with a history of trauma. So, like, there there you go.
Right. When when my, series comes out on Friday this week with Erica, I'm gonna put out a four part series. You don't no one knows this. I'm telling you right now. But it's on the the paces, and it's kind of an explanation of, like, there's adverse childhood experiences, but there's also positive childhood experiences.
And so will you skip that, or will you No. Or you listen to that?
I wanna listen to that.
Okay. I wasn't sure how the triggering worked exactly. Like No.
I'm a big fan of that.
Okay. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. It's, so if we took that paces that ACES quiz, you'd have a fair amount of, like, childhood trauma?
A fair amount. Yeah. I like to hide behind my wife's. I'm really good at that. Because her her childhood trauma trumps almost anyone I've ever met.
I see.
So I'm really good at hiding behind hers. But yeah. Yeah.
You're like, yeah. I've had problems.
I got plenty of my own. Yeah.
I've had problems, but have you met Shitshow over here? And so Literally.
Yeah. Literally. We we've we engaged in couples therapy when our son was young just to we just had to learn how to fight, really. That's it. And it was actually with who is my therapist now.
We started seeing her for couples therapy. She taught us how to fight, and then I was like, hey. Can you be my just my therapist? And she said, yeah. And literally in those appointments, I would be like, well, yeah, that happened to me, but did you know what's that, like, stuff x y z?
And the therapist would be like, you need you need someone on one health. Like
Hey. Why don't you stay, like, for a year? Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah. Eight years. We'll chat
every once in a while. You'll be fine in 2029. Exactly. But you're saying that prior to meeting that person, you were somebody was taking you to therapy, but it was more mandated, and you weren't really
Yeah.
Down with it. Okay.
Yeah. Even I even I would take myself to therapy and then not not not be open. So you know?
The the lying to
yourself is
is my favorite part of being, a person. I
am yeah. I am so much more I'm a huge fan of learning and growth. Like, that's that's my jam. It's just taken a really long time to get there, and it's it's a lifelong journey.
Yeah. No. For sure. I mean, listen, dude.
I think everyone should be in therapy.
I I think everybody gets thrown in some sort of a hole whether they realize it or not. You know? Yeah. And like you said, if you if you grew up poorly, if she grew up poorly, then you get married. You don't even know how to, like, exist together because you only have, like, you only have your, you know, your examples from growing up.
Exactly. And I and I, like like, it it's weird for me because, like, in a lot of ways, I have a great child. I have great parents. I have great family. It's just there were some acute things.
Like, some big hitters.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Some big some big hitters. So it's not like I had a terrible childhood or upbringing.
I really didn't. And it was, like, night and day different from my wife's. But
Yeah. It's interesting. I mean, my my wife helped me. Like, if it wasn't for her having, like, emotional intelligence when we were younger, like, she was able to redirect me. I'm sure I'm sure she would tell you it took way longer than it should have or something like that.
But I'm sure she'd tell you, I'm not there yet. But but she also has the the ability to, like, point out what's happening to me and ignore the parts about what happened to her. So it's interesting how people Yeah. People people. Anyway, okay.
The Revolving-Door Endo & “You’ll Get Used to It” 31:42
Let's get you back to the hop let's let's jump from that big pile of fun back to the hospital. ER tells you lose weight. You're type two. And then
Yeah. Go home. Yeah. Pass them and lose some weight. So I did actually see an ancho the next day.
So actually, I said, like, I hadn't known anyone with diabetes. That was true. But somewhere along this journey, I have learned that my dad had been diagnosed with type two. And my mom had been diagnosed with Hashimoto's after I had been diagnosed, and both of my brothers also have type two. So at this point, there was, like, a family endocrinologist.
And so my mom made a few phone calls, and I did get in to see an ENDO the next day. And I was with that ENDO's office with the revolving door of providers for four years, and they sucked. So they gave me short acting they gave me basal and and short acting meal insulin. They gave me metformin. They gave me Jardiance, which just gave me yeast infections.
They didn't give me CGM so that makes you pee out sugar. That's a problem when you're a girl.
Mhmm.
I had already thrown away my pregnancy meter, so they gave me a sample, and that's the same, like, finger stick meter that I use today. I was vaguely told to get my blood sugars down. You know? And they and they were like, just come back every three months. We'll run labs every three months.
And, you know, at one point, was like, hey. So I'm trying to trying to prick my finger, and, like, I'm trying to get my blood sugars down. But when I get down to one fifty, I'm like, I am like, I feel like I'm gonna pass out.
Mhmm.
I am sweaty and shaky and dizzy, and, like, I don't like how that feels. And they just said, you'll get used to it. And that to me just felt like more shaming. And so I was like, well, fuck you then. I don't wanna get used to that.
Like, nobody explained. Here's why your body will get used to being lower, and here's how long it will take, and here's why it's safe. And, you know, they it was like when a somebody who's overweight says they're hungry and, you know, that it was that kind of shame to me. So
Yeah. Can I ask a question around that statement? Yeah. Get used to it? Was it Yeah.
Did you take it to mean that, yeah, you'll be dizzy and feel terrible, but you'll you'll get they didn't explain it the way that they meant it, which is your body will get accustomed to that, and you won't get dizzy at one fifty anymore.
Correct. You left the office Exactly.
You left the office thinking, for the rest of my life, I'm gonna be dizzy at a one fifty blood sugar.
Yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Communication working.
I just wanna say.
No. Thanks. Yeah. Yeah. I And love so I and so okay.
A Full Plate: Family, Work & Why She Looked Away 34:25
We're gonna take another little side journey really quickly. So my life is I am not unique. Everyone has is busy, but, like, I've been really busy. Like because I don't know when to quit and quit, and I'm type to blame. I'm a perfectionist on all those things.
Right? So, like, I I'm the sole earner for our family. I work full time. I wasn't in school at the time. I am in school now, earning my MBA.
You know, I had two young kids. My wife is actually disabled, and she's a full time stay at home mom. And so there's some, you know, some extra support that I provide for her sometimes there. And then our son has challenges as well. He's autistic and Oh.
Has ADHD and
Mary, I'm sorry. You cut out. You cut out
for a
second. Mary, can you hear me? Oh. You cut out.
Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. You cut out for a second. He's autistic and?
Oh, and has ADHD, and he's bipolar.
Okay. And he's I'm sorry. He's the older or the younger?
The older. Yeah. He's nine.
Okay. Go ahead.
But at the time when this was all happening, you know, he was, like, so, like, three. And so we hadn't figured all of this out. All I knew was, you know, we have a child who is really violent, really angry, really destructive, really dysregulated, getting kicked out of school. Like like, on my list of top five stressors, this was so far down on the list.
Right.
Yeah. And and and and listen. I take some responsibility for the fact that, like, I could have taken this diagnosis more more seriously even after I was told I was type one, which we're about to get two. But nobody told me I should. Okay.
Yeah. Yeah. Like, nobody made a big deal out of it. Nobody nobody helped me understand what all of this means. And and, like, I have another autoimmune disease, Hashimoto's, and I was like, well, that's easy.
And I just take some pills, and I feel fine. And so this this must be like that. And if I feel great, like, I I mean, I was living life in the six hundreds. So at, like, 300, I felt fantastic. Felt way better than I did.
So I was like, you know what? I don't have time for this. If you're not worried, I'm not worried. I'm gonna just move on
I gotcha.
And bury my head in the sand, which is not something I've ever done in my life with anything. So it's very confounding to me that I just stuck my head in the sand for almost four years with this thing. But I I didn't know Yeah. To take it seriously.
I'm so happy I didn't make my joke about how busy I am because then you started telling me about your son. Was like, oh god. I I would have come off like such an idiot. I was gonna say, did you wake up at 03:30 in the morning and build a type one diabetes and menopause web page for your website? What I did last night.
But I love that.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Well, a couple of ladies hit me online pretty hard. They're like, don't have enough menopause content.
I'm like, I'm sorry. I'll work on it. Touche. Yeah. Yeah.
I'm getting there. I said, we've we've gotten out to the fringes of content now, which is, you know, I started at the core, and I've been building my way up. But I Yeah. You know, I was like, oh, I don't have enough knowledge about this to be, like, valuable. So I did, like, a ton of research and put stuff together to talk to Jenny about.
And then I was like, well, I can build a web page around it so that it's ready to go out when the content goes out. And then I just never fell back asleep. And then at 07:30 in the morning, I was like, I guess I'll just get in the shower now.
Oh. Yeah. So Sorry. No. But then you kind of a similar night.
I couldn't in the middle of the night either, so I got up and worked on one of my final papers. It's due this weekend. Yeah. I know. But I'm also a little tired.
The kids' problems, and I'm like, oh god. Thank god I didn't say that. Yeah. Yeah. I know.
I
It's it's been a I mean, I could do a whole podcast just somewhere that's
been nice.
It's gotta be Be on the parent.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Right?
So Yeah. Yeah.
Oh, okay. I'm sorry. Go ahead. So nobody's nobody's telling you to take it seriously. You're living you like, generally, like, excuse me.
Genuinely, you're in the 6 hundreds a lot?
Like, so I had been, right, when I was sent to the hospital. And since then, I I was averaging I was, like, living life in the two and three hundreds pretty consistently, and I felt great. And I did not like how I felt when I was down at, like, one fifty. And so I was like, I'm just gonna do what I'm gonna do, and, like, I'll come every three months for the labs, which they never walked me through and never explained to me. Now I have a spreadsheet of all my lab results going back to 2016 with, like, definitions and charts.
But back then, I just trusted the doctor would tell me if there's a problem, and they really didn't.
So you did not have an expectation that you were doing anything that was, like, that could have been made better. You were o you were like, I I feel good at 300. Nobody's telling me any differently. That was that. That's kinda how it went?
Yeah. Wow. I was losing weight slowly but surely, and my amnesty was lower than it was when I was pregnant. It was down in the sixes. I've been in the nines, but, you know, it it did come back up to the eights.
I've settled in, the sevens and eights for a few years. Mhmm. But but also just, you know, they'd say, like, well, we'd like to get your a one c down, but they didn't say why. Mhmm.
You and you didn't look? No. No. Did you think were you purposefully not looking?
A little bit. Like I said, I I don't know that I'll ever fully understand why or how I just, like, turned a blind eye. Like, you know what? Mhmm. I'm not dealing with this because that's not actually who I am.
I'm very driven and focused and high achieving and all the things. And with but with that, with my health, I think it was so wrapped up in other triggers and trauma and shame and embarrassment that I was like, I'm just gonna close the book on that. Okay. And I feel fine, and I'm just gonna move on. Understood.
And I don't wanna know. I don't wanna know anymore, and they're not telling me anymore, and, like, I'm just gonna move on. I'm fine. I got you. I was not fine.
I understand that. Totally fine. Yeah. By the way, I've done this long enough now that I completely understand. I you know, there's a there was a time back making this podcast before, like, I would have asked more, like, are you like, how did you miss that?
Like, or why did you not? Or, like but after hearing people discuss themselves long enough, like, I I see what happened to you. So it makes sense to me. You know?
Finally, the Real Diagnosis 40:36
So so it turns out about three months after I was in the hospital, somebody tested my GAD sixty five antibodies. They didn't tell me. They were elevated. They were not crazy. I think they were, like, 13 or something, so just a little high.
Mhmm.
But nobody told me. So three months later, they tested all the antibodies, and three of them came back positive. And they told me so this is December now of 2021. So a whole year after I'd given birth, like, six months after being in the hospital, I was told over a voice mail. Hey, Mary.
So, actually, this antibody came back, and what that means is you're actually type one. They didn't explain anything else. I wasn't given any additional tools or information. I was never connected to a diabetes educator. I was told to just keep doing what I was doing.
But what they did tell me was if you're ever over 200, give yourself 10 units and go on a walk.
Okay.
Which that is not my correction factor.
Wait. What what state do you live in?
Arizona.
Okay. Go ahead. Keep going.
I have a great n o now, by the way. And he actually he knows as much as me, maybe even a little more than me, which is great because this other office, I don't think can do anything about type one. Yeah. So I wasn't given a carb to insulin ratio. I didn't even know what the word goal is was.
I was still not offered a CGM. Nobody talked to me about a pump. I was just given very irresponsible advice. So by February 2022, so almost a year after going to the ER, my AONC was back up to 9.3. Mhmm.
My GAD 65 was up to 19. Less than a year later, it was above two fifty. And to this day, like, my lab results don't even give me a number anymore. It just says greater than two fifty, so I have no idea, what the number actually is. It's just very high.
My fasting glucose in February 2022 is three twenty eight.
And they're still calling you a type two. Right?
Well, no. They're calling me a type one now.
No. They're calling you after the GAD that you started getting type one from them.
Plus two other yeah. Plus two other Okay. I think it was I a two and islet cell
But prior to prior to that, it was all just body it was your body makeup, and you must have type two diabetes because look at this. Okay.
Yep. Yeah. So now in September 2022, so we're two years after my daughter was born, just prob probably when this all started, if I had to guess. So, again, this is me now looking back because I charted, like, ten years of my own labs Mhmm. Once I finally took the bull by the horns.
And so I was looking back, and I could see that in September 2022, I had trace protein in my urine. I had glucose in my urine above a thousand. This all indicates DKA. Nobody told me that. Nobody walked me through those labs.
It was just a routine visit. There are a bunch of other lab levels that indicate things like fluid loss, dehydration, inflammation, and and on Mancharo.
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- Adult-onset type 1 is routinely mistaken for type 2. Mary was labeled type 2 and gestational, handed metformin and a meal journal, and called “noncompliant” while her a1c kept climbing — because no one checked antibodies. When insulin needs keep rising and highs won’t budge, antibody testing (GAD65, IA-2, islet cell) is what tells type 1 apart from type 2.
- “You don’t have diabetes anymore” after birth was dangerously wrong. Being told to stop insulin and never check again post-delivery sent Mary toward a slow-motion crisis. Gestational diabetes resolving doesn’t rule out underlying type 1 — especially when a1c climbed during pregnancy. Postpartum follow-up matters.
- An eye doctor caught what the system missed. Vision changes were the tipping point; a glucose check in his office sent her straight to the ER. New or rapidly changing vision is worth taking seriously, and a simple finger stick can reveal a lot.
- “You’ll get used to it” needed a real explanation. Mary left believing she’d feel shaky at a normal glucose forever, because no one explained that the body re-acclimates as it comes down from chronic highs — gradually and safely. Ask your care team for the why, not just the what; it can change whether someone is able to lower their numbers at all.
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#1890 Wiener Roast
A Canadian mom whose son's type 1 was caught at a celiac follow-up, a husband running a DIY loop, and Scott playing detective on her iron, thyroid, and brain fog.
Wiener Roast
Cold Open & Sponsors 0:00
Friends, we're all back together for the next episode of the juice box podcast. Welcome. K. Hold on a second. Okay.
Just introduce yourself real quick so we can keep talking.
Okay. Hi. I'm Lana, wife and mother to two, one being type one, and celiac. Yeah.
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It's not my fault. I swear.
They would say she she she displays no ability to do the simplest things on her cell phone. I think we have to come take those kids. So let's talk people out of that belief. Okay? Don't you tell me.
Okay. To be fair to be fair, we had to do something different because of the AAPS system that we use because it blocks something. I don't know. So
I don't even care. It's fantastic. We should have recorded the last eighteen minutes and then ended the podcast. It would have been perfect. People would have been like like, they would have been like a little nugget that made them feel better about themselves for the day.
Tech Trouble & the Husband Who Runs the Loop 3:28
They would have spent the whole day going, you know what? It's not going perfectly, but imagine how it's going for Lana right now. Does your whole life go this way, or is this just a technology thing, or what's going on?
This is definitely a technology thing.
Okay. Okay. Well, that'll be interesting when we get to the insulin pump stuff. Tell me how
Oh, yeah. My husband has to do this.
Your husband has to do this
stuff. Yeah.
My wife says to me, she's like, it's you do it because you do it. It's not because I can't. And I go, well, okay.
No. I wouldn't say that. He he set up the AAPS all his own, and I was watching behind. And I'm like, I have no idea how you're doing this right now. And he's like, you could do it.
I'm like, seriously? I don't think so.
Is that
what you're Not at all.
You weren't thinking, oh, I can never leave this guy now. Damn it. Oh my
god. I was I was Yeah. He we're we're stuck together now.
I mean, like, he knows all this. God. What else does he know? What else is happening behind my back that I don't realize is happening? So tell me about how old are your children?
Gabriel, he is eight. He's the one with celiac and type one, and then Olive is seven.
Olive. Very nice. And how long have you guys been married?
Actually, ten years this July.
Oh, actually, you just did that math in your head just now, didn't you? You were like, oh my god. I think it's been ten years. Does that feel like a long time to be?
I just ten years? Yeah. I mean, I haven't had relationships last really more than a year or two. So yeah.
What the like, because that's how you're measuring it. How old are you?
I'm 41.
41. So when you were 31, you were like, this is not gonna work, but I'll marry this guy and see what happens anyway. Is that and then Pretty much. And then two years later, your kid can't eat bread and gets diabetes, or what happened there?
Gabriel’s Celiac Diagnosis 5:26
Yeah. So well, it wasn't two years. It was a little longer than that. But, yeah, he was okay. Some of the story about a celiac diagnosis was kinda like he was losing weight, but we didn't really notice it as much.
It was more so my mom and my family were over there one time, and they were just kinda like, he seems to be a little bit thinner. Like, they just kinda mentioned it to me, not in front of him. But yeah. So I thought, hey. There's been other weird things going on.
Like, we'd go for walks, and he'd be complaining about how tired he was. And John, like, my husband, had to carry him back a few times. And I'm like, this is so weird. Like, what is going on? So we finally I got him in with our my family doctor, and she was kinda like, okay.
All these symptoms kind of could sound like celiac, but let's get his blood work done. So we went and had his blood work done and, like, came back, like, crazy high. Like, I think it's, like, an IgA number is what they Told you. Okay.
Do you remember what it was?
Anyways yeah, it was over 600. So I remember the doctor saying, like, if it's over 20, he's potentially celiac. And we're like, oh, hey. Well, he's definitely celiac. So we actually didn't even have to do the the invasive biopsy.
They're just kinda like, we can definitely just just diagnose him with such a high number like that.
Hey. Are you Canadian?
Was kind of but Are you Canadian? Sorry. I am.
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Learn more and check your eligibility @ablenow.com. That's ablenow.com, ablenow.com. I didn't realize. I wouldn't have made funny about the technology thing if I knew you were Canadian. You can't help it.
I didn't realize that. I'm so sorry. I take the whole thing back.
Why do Canadians have, like
You're doing the best you Lana, you're doing the best you can. That's all. You live in a frozen tundra. I didn't know what
you can do.
Right? Oh my gosh. I mean, jeez. With all the polar bears and everything, how are you even existing? So okay.
We still have snow. That's what I'm saying. You're at a disadvantage. I didn't realize it. I I didn't hear it till I heard you say you said something, and I was like, oh, she's Canadian.
I could hear it in your voice.
Really? Like, my accent or something?
Immediately. Yeah. I I knew five minutes ago. I just didn't wanna break up your story.
Oh, okay.
I forget what you said, but you used the And I was like, oh, I didn't know she was Canadian. That's what I thought in my head. Yeah. That's right. That's nice.
But now I can't blame you for all this stuff. Like, you guys are prob you probably like a crank generator powering your house and everything. Right?
I mean, you're pretty close.
I'm pretty close. If something goes wrong, the mounties come or how how is it policed exactly?
Well, I mean, there is RCMP, Royal Canadian Mounted Police.
Oh my god. You're bringing me back to the RCMP Twitter feed that is so fan I I don't wanna start talking about it again, but it's just it's just a list of stabbings, basically, that are happening. It's like Yeah.
There is actually a lot.
The the RCMP was was called out to a bar in, like, you know, Saskatchewan where three men stabbed each other for no like, it's just it this is so funny. Anyway, if you guys can find it, it's hilarious. Not not not funny that people get stabbed. It's just you get No. You get my point.
No. Yeah. Yes. So definitely celiac. How old is he when that's happening?
That was when he was five. He was diagnosed at five.
Okay.
So, yeah, there was so we went in, had the whole, like, okay. You gotta eat gluten free now and change out your I don't know. Like, I guess we have two toasters now, one for gluten and one for non gluten. Mhmm. So we do that.
And so then we had to go they told us to go back for more blood work in about three to four months because they wanted to see if going gluten free would obviously bring down his numbers. Yeah. So, yeah, we went in we were supposed to go three months, and I think we waited, like, four or five months, which ended up being probably a I don't know. Why can't I think of the word?
Oh, I don't know, but I'm I'm delighted listening to you try to figure it out. A
Some brain fog.
A misstep, a a lucky thing because
A lucky thing because?
I feel like it's what you ever see those books where you get to choose your own story? Yeah. That's what I feel like I'm doing right now.
I love those books.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. We used to have them on records. Do ever you have, like, a storybook that had a record with it?
You'd play like a you're not
old Yep.
For that. Yeah. You
you yeah. I was I'm just old enough, I feel.
Yeah. Oh, anyway, I For those. We have a
record player now. But, anyways Look.
Caught at the Celiac Follow-Up 11:16
May I guess? It was lucky because when you went back, he already had diabetes symptoms, and they caught it then, but he wouldn't have had it two months before if he would have gone back in three months.
Precisely. Yes.
I've been doing this for so long. I already know your story.
Okay. Well, go ahead.
Well, okay. Hold on a second. Your husband couldn't believe it. He said, no. No way.
And you were like, oh my god. He's got diabetes. I called my mom, and no. I'm just gonna go.
No. It wasn't it. But I can remember exactly where we were and everything. It was just we had just actually had a wiener roast because he was diagnosed so, yeah, he was diagnosed September 18. And so we were sitting around.
It was on a Sunday, diagnosed, and we got we went in for blood work. That's the day we went in for blood work to follow-up with celiac. They called us right back that same day saying, like, okay. Your son definitely has type one diabetes. And I remember sitting there being like, okay.
I know this is not good, but I didn't know how bad it was.
Okay. Because Yeah.
You hear that, and you just I just had no idea, like, what this all entailed. I just knew it wasn't good news.
Well, talk about not good news. People who really love the podcast just now thought, why did she say wiener roast in the first ten minutes? That could have been the title if she would have just saved that for a little longer. What a great what a great episode to pop up in your feed tomorrow, wiener roast.
Is that the name of the
This might be the it could be no. You said Weiner. I'm and I'm thinking maybe that's a great title for your episode, but I don't know. I wish people who really listen, I like the titles that come up later because I want you to keep listening to figure out why the hell it's called Weiner Roast. But if you give it
up in the
first yeah. You give it up in the first eight minutes, it's it's too easy. Don't worry. I have high high confidence you're gonna say something else. Probably.
I can't wait till we find out, like, you know, the celiac came, so we just started eating whale blubber. I don't know.
High protein.
I'm sorry. I don't know what's wrong. I had a long day. Actually, I do know what's wrong, but that's not the point.
Okay. I feel like the whole miss, like, technology thing totally threw me off. I felt so prepared, and now I'm just like
Oh, no. No. It's Lana, listen. I had to leave the house like an adult this morning very early, and I'm discombobulated. I have been living a pampered life for so long.
I just want everybody to know that I'm aware of that. That my my son and I had to go into a meeting this morning. We had to be there at nine. It was like an hour drive. So I'm, like, popping out of bed at, like, you know, 06:45, getting in the shower.
I'm like, what? Do people do this? I'm like, just like, whatever. This is horrible. I said to my wife on the phone, I was like, can you imagine if I had to do this every day?
She's like she's like, I do. I was like, I was like, oh, you you set your life up wrong. I was like, this is terrible. So by the middle of the afternoon, I was like sleepy. Was like, what's happening to me?
Oh, yeah. That happens to me too because I'm at home as well. Yeah.
Oh, and yeah. Anyway, it's my fault. I'm discombobulated today, but that that's neither here nor there. I'll I'll take my bad reviews to heart and just get to the point. So there's so much chitchat.
Thanks. It's a podcast.
Yeah.
It's not a Ted
Gong. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah. Like, I'm not supposed to just stand up and blurt everything out, and then it ends, and you go, right on. But nevertheless.
Well, my husband was trying to tell me how you know, just think of it as like a fireside chat.
Like, oh, yeah.
I should turn our fireplace on.
He's right. And it's all you're doing is you're just sitting and talking to people, and how it comes out is how it comes out. So Yeah. Okay. So he's got celiac.
Thrown to the Wolves 14:58
Now he's got type one. You're not really sure what all that means. What's the the process of education like? And what kind of Yes. What what's the start you get with technology or insulin, etcetera?
So yeah. They're telling me that. I think it was the endo August I called. And they're like, is he okay? Because I think his number was 35, which is I don't know what that is in
other talking off that.
600. I think it's, like, 6 or 7, 800 probably.
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So yeah. And he's like the doctor is like, is he okay? I'm like, yeah. Just had a Lira's. He's running around.
He seems fine. They're like, okay. Well, I guess if you're okay with bringing him in tomorrow morning, then we could just do that. I was like, sure. Like, they didn't seem too concerned.
And I was like, is there anything that I should or should not do? And like, well, just don't, like, give him pop or juice or anything sweet. I was like, noted. Okay.
Okay.
So went went to bed normal. I don't know. Like, didn't really know what to be, you know, like, worried about yet. And so went in the next morning, and so that's when we started with the education. So there's, like, there's a peds hospital, which they were pretty pretty good.
Like, it I like how it was just, like, this is his number. He's type one. It was just that was basically how he was diagnosed and just like threw us into the wolves, you know.
Yeah. By the way, a 35 is is 631 for people.
Okay.
Yeah. Using different measurements, just so you know. That is Mhmm. So how long do you think how how almost said how long I almost said how long do you think he was afflicted? But I don't know where that came from since it's not a movie from the thirties.
But, like, how long do you think it had been going on?
Well, I think we caught it pretty quick because his his a one c was 7.8.
Okay.
And at his celiac, like, back, like, four or five months prior, his a one c was normal. Like, it was, like, 4.8 or something, I think, I wanna say.
But they
have really from, like, April to September.
He's probably, like, small bodied at that point. Right? He probably doesn't weigh too much.
No. He was he's very thin. So well, that was a thing. So it was thin from celiac. Then he started kinda feeling better, it seemed.
He wasn't so I don't know. He was just so irritable and just so not himself because he was seriously the most easygoing Mhmm. Human being, like, you'd ever meet. So, yeah, he would just, like, get so angry and just not like not like him. That kinda went away, and then it kinda started up again.
And just like their classic looking back now, drinking lots, going to the bathroom more at night Mhmm. And, I don't know, just the usual. Those are the two things I noticed the most. And I think he was starting to get quite, like, irritable again, being really grouchy and not being himself and just, like
But if it wasn't for the celiac, those aren't enough to make you go to the doctor. Right?
Mhmm. Yeah. Exactly.
Yeah. Yeah.
So, like, honestly, it was just our going in for our blood work for his celiac, and that was how we yeah. I don't even know. So we definitely escaped the whole Gary DKA stories, which we're so thankful for.
Yeah. Of course. So then what do they do? I it depends on what I should say province. Right?
But it depends on what part of Canada you're in about how they start you. So what was the management style getting set up?
So yeah. We went in that morning, 8AM, and I feel like a lot of
it is such a blur.
I do remember sitting there and being like they're telling us how to like, for food. So it was, like, counting carbs and, like, okay. So if he's gonna have some rice, then he'll put this out. And we should want to figure out, like, how much read the labels and how much rice he'll be having or any whatever. All the food.
And I just remember everything was coming at me. And suddenly when they were telling me about how everything he eats needs to be accounted for, I just lost it and just started, like, bawling. Yeah. Like, okay. This this is what I was wondering about when I was like, this is bad, but I don't know how bad, you know, until Until you get it and then
Yeah. And the idea of having to just keep track of so many things and measure medication every time, it hits you all at once.
Yeah. It did. Yeah. So it was so it was that. And then I think, I don't even remember.
I don't even think we had, like, a meal there yet. Oh, it is such a blur. That was trying to think about it.
No. It's it's super interesting. You you your recollection is is cloudy for sure. Like, and and is it that way about other things, or is it just this?
I feel like it has gotten more so like that with the lack of sleep through this whole entire
Uh-huh.
I don't know. It it played a big part in, I feel like, my brain fog and not being able to remember things so well, and, like, words don't come to me as good as they used to. And I don't know. It's crazy. Like, my friends even have noticed that too.
Brain Fog, Sleep & Two Years of MDI 22:53
How how how long has it been now, Anna? Like, three, four years?
It will be me four years, September.
Okay. And you're not Yeah. You're not sleeping well?
Better now that we are on a pump.
Okay.
We did MDI though for, like, two years. And Aaron was always like, why are you doing MDI? Like, how do you just?
And why were you? Hold on a second. I'm gonna This doesn't happen often. Give me one second, Lana. Yeah.
Arden Arden, I'm making the podcast. What's going on?
Okay. Well, I I need you for a second. Mom's old part is on file, not her new one, I don't think. So can you just check to make sure that I have enough to pay for this on my
I'll okay. I'll make sure right now. Okay? Yep. Bye.
Sorry. Hold on everybody Okay. While I take care of some apparently, financial issues by moving some money around. Arden is getting her hair done at the moment. And I guess she's trying to check out, and they're like, this card doesn't work.
Yeah.
See here. Sorry.
No worries.
We'll get back to you in just a second. But the people that hate the fluff are gonna hate the hell out of this. And my bank's making me put in a code so I can log in. That's taking time.
Oh, banking is another problem with me.
Lada. You're awesome. Hold on a second. Turn off this reminder for now. Let's see.
Transfer. A little more Scott's money going to somebody else. That's okay. Part of it here. She's also just texting She's texting me now.
She's like, also, it looks like my card expires next month. I'm like, oh, okay. Well, we'll just worry about all that right now. Hold on a second. And now, of course, I have no idea what she did because when she left there, I was like, so what are you getting done?
She was like, oh, you'll see when I get home. And I'm like, oh, okay. Oh. So Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. I don't know if there's like there could be color in here. There could be a cut in here. I don't exactly know what it is I'm transferring money
Base tattoo.
Oh my gosh. That would be terrible. Hold on a second. Let me tell her the money's in the account. Okay.
Looks like it's taken care of.
Oh, good.
Yeah. Awesome. Imagine technology. Ten years ago, I I would have been like, I have to go now and take and take Arden, you know, money so she can get out of the hairdresser without
I would probably have I probably would have still had to do that. I'm like, okay. Hold on. Well, yeah. Arrive there and
get cash. You're like, I think I could do this, but my phone's never gonna let me. During this setup, Lana kept going, why is this happening to me? I'm like, it's not really happening to you. You just don't understand the details of what's going on.
Sorry. Sorry. Sorry. Sorry. So but but so you said the first two years were MDI.
Why It Took Two Years to Pump 25:55
Yeah. Why did you and you switched over to a pump. What pump did you get?
Omnipod Dash because we had full intentions on going to, like, AAPS because we have Androids.
Okay. And what was I gonna say there? Okay. How why did it take you two years to do it? What not that that's a long time.
Just what was the process?
It is. Well, we had been doing okay because we we were kinda doing the lifestyle just because it felt much easier, like, obviously, with his celiac. And then we're just finding recipes, and I was kinda like, oh, this is keto. I'm like, okay. Well well, let's just try that.
And so it had been going okay. So at school, we would pack, like, lower carb meals, and it just wasn't very difficult to take care of. So he would just get he would get his needle at school, and, like, the EA would do it. They're called, like, educator assistants
Okay.
Here. We don't we don't have school nurses.
I
know. So yeah. And at home, it just seemed to be working out. Like, then he didn't want anything else on him. Like, CGM was enough for him.
And yeah. I don't know. I just felt also intimidated by, you know, more technology.
Yeah. No. I hear you. And But what made the so then what made the change? You just
learned learned more? Because yeah. I think so. And also, the oh, wait a minute. The g seven
Mhmm.
Was starting to work better. So because we were having so many troubles with it. And I don't know. It just started kind of working a little bit better for him.
Okay.
So we decided to try a pump because then we knew because we knew that, like, obviously, the pump goes by what the CGM's numbers are.
Okay.
So, yeah, we're all kinda just ready for it. And I was getting I was so done with the needles at night because that was probably, like, our biggest the biggest hurdle. Hurdle.
Autoimmune, Adoption & a Hashimoto’s Hunch 28:06
Hey. Let's pivot for half a second. Do have other autoimmune stuff in your family, your mom your side or your husband's side?
Well, my husband's side, yes. He his grandpa on his mom's side had MS, and his cousin on that side also has type one diabetes.
Okay. And how about on your side? Does your mom have a thyroid problem?
Well, I'm adopted, so I don't know a whole lot about that. I just know through k. So backstory. Go ahead, please. Through the adoption, we were obviously give my parents were given some papers.
And, oh my gosh, I feel like I am so nervous right now
for something. Don't be nervous. First of all, Lana, I'm adopted too. I don't know if you know that or
Yes. I did know that, actually.
And and I'm I'm sitting here thinking, like, I wonder if you maybe don't have, like, Hashimoto's and you don't know it or something like that. Because, like Me? Yeah. You. Because you've and the the brain fog's for real.
Right? Yes. Is there anything else going on? Is your hair falling out? Have you gained or lost a lot of weight that you can't figure out why?
Well, I've gained weight, and I kind of I guess I am kind of, like, I was losing hair worse before, but I feel like there's also a reason for all of
that. Yeah. I think that reason might be called Hashimoto's. Hold on a second. So, like, do you okay.
Wait. Wait. Wait. Wait. Hold on.
Everybody a lot.
Everybody calm down for a second. Are you fatigued?
I mean, yes. But okay. I have endometriosis, which also has a lot of those same
Okay. Okay. And just brain fog. Do have any cold intolerance?
Not really.
Weight gain? Yes. Hair loss?
Yes. Yes.
Joint pain?
I feel like I have answers for those. They're not what?
You have joint pain? Nope. Okay. Feel weak?
No.
Alright. Depressed, sad, anything like that? Mood all over the place?
Sometimes.
Uh-huh. I'm sorry for this last one. Any sexual dysfunction? No. Okay.
Well, you Not
since the whole endometriosis thing was figured out.
You got that all? Oh, Well, how'd you figure that out?
Well, I had been having quite a bit of pain kind of in my, like, ovary areas.
Right.
And also so also thought maybe I was potentially, like, gluten intolerant or even celiac, but I just never got tested for celiac.
Okay.
So I go in because I had so much pain. I went to the ER, and it was so bad on my one, like, my right side. And they were feeling around on there, and they'd said they could kinda feel like a bump. And they're like, oh, what could potentially be like endometriosis? So they got me in for a ultrasound.
And, yeah, I guess I could see it on there. Like, they did the invasive ultrasound and then also the one, like, outwardly.
Mhmm.
And that's kinda how they found it. And then I went in for surgery and had some cysts removed.
Interesting. Yeah.
Mhmm. So it so I had that. And then
That's recently? Pain
what? Is that recently? Yeah. Like, two years ago?
Yeah. For boys listening, when she says invasive ultrasound, she means giant dildo with a camera on it just so you all know what your ladies are going through. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
That's exactly it. Yeah. Yeah. No. I I've I've heard the stories.
So I haven't been there, but I've heard the stories. And I've seen the face afterwards, by the way. Yep. Yeah. I've seen the I've seen the the, oh, okay.
Well, that happened. Yeah. Look I
mean, after having kids, I feel like nothing
That doesn't matter anymore.
Nothing is that scary anymore.
You think back to when you were 18, you're like, oh, that was so cute of maybe. I'm like, oh, no. Don't look. Yeah. But but okay.
So you had Oh, yeah. So you had endometriosis. So, I mean, you still do. Right? Like, so
Yes. It doesn't go away. Yeah. It's crazy
what it is. Yeah. No. I I know of a fair amount of like, everything you just described, going to the hospital, pain on the right side, they're like, oh, it could be your what do they do? They do they say, first, it could be your appendix, and it's not your appendix.
They say, it might be your gallbladder, and it's not your gallbladder. And then they do the thing, and then they go in and pop out a couple little cysts. You're like, oh my god. The pain's gone. That's crazy.
And and the pain's insane. Right?
The pain is excruciating. And so it's obviously worse when, like, when you're on your period, ovulating. And so I don't know how much TMI. But so yeah. So I was still having a lot of pain, a lot of bleeding.
Hysterectomy, Fibroids & Low Iron 33:17
And so I actually went back in telling them that, and they did more ultrasound. And they found that another one had now grown, and, like, they ended up actually having to get a hysterectomy as well.
Oh gosh. Did they do a full, or would they take the the
They did a like, they took just the uterus. They left my ovaries because they didn't wanna put me into, like, pre
Pre pre menopause. Yeah.
Yeah. Exactly.
Oh, did that help?
Yes. Definitely has. Awesome.
That's good. I And even that I'm sorry. I I don't think I'm you know, I'm just gonna you know what mean? Sometimes I think of something. I'm like, I don't think I should say that.
But my wife has, like, a fibroid inside of her uterus.
And I had that too.
Oh, awesome. And the fibroid is growing a friend. And at this point now, like, you can almost feel it, like, through her stomach. So Oh, wow. She's going in two days for a surgical consult.
I'm pretty sure they're gonna do the same thing to her.
Yeah. Because well, what my what my doctor said is he could either go in there and, like, essentially file it down or and, like, maybe the bleeding wouldn't be so bad and maybe your pain wouldn't be so bad. But I was just like, honestly, just get rid of this uterus. Just take it.
It's horrible thing. So What what are there any downsides to anything you've found?
I mean, obviously, I can't have children anymore.
What? I
was already done with that.
I was gonna say, thanks, captain obvious. I meant other stuff. You and if anyone's listening right now and they just learned that, they're like, oh, she can't have a baby now because they took the uterus out. If that just happened to you, I'm so sorry for you. But but but otherwise, Okay.
So, yeah, there's no, like, other, like I don't know. You didn't grow a horn or a mustache or anything like that. Lana. Lana, are you gone? Shut off her audio.
This happened earlier when we were setting up. She'll figure it out in a second. You're back. There you go.
Here I am.
That's all. I love it. Any any anything weird going on or you're just generally happy you did it? She's gone again. Lana, I can't hear.
Did I actually Yeah. You're back now. Yep. Oh, what the heck?
I know. I think it might be the question. I'll ask it again and see if your voice goes away. Were there any other unwanted side effects after this?
No other unwanted side effects
Mhmm.
At all. Okay. Yeah. Obviously, I had to outweigh what I like, when I was researching, like, to do it or not to do it. And I don't even remember what the things are that could potentially happen because I haven't had to worry about this.
So k. Good to good. And I like, I had to get another sister moved anyway. So I was like, they were gonna go in there anyways. So I was like, why not, you know
Take care of business.
Take that while you're in there.
What what was it minimally invasive? Did they go through, like, they open
My belly button. They go through your belly button.
What was the recovery like?
Well, for the hysterectomy, it was, like, six to eight weeks where you can't, like, lift or do anything. I was kind of, like, probably in bed for about a week. Obviously, you're supposed to, like, get up and move around and stuff, but, yeah, I think it was about a week.
Wasn't bad after that. And you just don't lift anything. Yeah. My wife's not lifting anything anyway, so we're fine.
No. Yeah. Yeah. So so it was kinda like during that time, feel is when I kinda put on a weight. So Okay.
I feel like there's reasons to why certain things have been going on, and it is not hashing modus.
Well, maybe it's not. I I wouldn't say it could be a it could be a lot of different things. But, I mean, there that's a fair amount of, like, issues going on for you, though.
Mhmm. You know? Must feel like
You don't forget to take care of yourself is what I'm saying, really.
No. Yeah. Exactly. And I feel like that's kind of this year is finally where I'm like, you know what? I'm gonna do a little bit more for myself.
And because this I can't have type one diabetes be bringing me down.
Well, it's good. Yeah. I mean, first of all, like, I'm not gonna say something, like, trite, like, you have to put on your mask before somebody else's. But, obviously, you need to be okay too. And, you know, the worse it gets for you, the worse it's gonna get for everybody.
You just Yeah. You're just gonna turn into one of those moms yelling at people at the McDonald's. You know what I mean? And there's you don't want that.
So No. Yeah. No. Yeah.
No. No. Want I wanna be a happy person. But there's there'd be nothing wrong with going to an endocrinologist and saying, you know, my son has celiac. He has type one diabetes.
You know, I have endometriosis. Here here's what's going on. Still, like, why don't we just do some blood work and see where we're at? I'd love a full iron panel. I'd love make sure you're not in need make sure you're not
in And yeah. So I did actually have to go and do all that before surgery for my hysterectomy, and I was a very iron
Deficient. Deficient. What'd what'd they do for that?
I actually did get the transfusion while I was in the hospital right after my surgery.
Did they give you enough? No. They really gotta juice you up for it to really work.
Oh, wait.
Do you remember
Oh, they did.
Do you remember what your baritone level was?
There's no way that
all Did you look up?
I'm gonna be able to look all this up even talking with you, but I can't now because then I then I go away.
Because the way you're using your phone. Yeah.
Yeah. But they were it was low.
Yeah.
They that was very low. So, yeah, they were able to do that for me while I was in the hospital, which was awesome because then I didn't have to go back or pay for it.
How many how many did they give you?
I don't know. I don't even know how many they gave me. They just said
What? Did he do it one time, or did he do it multiple times
over a couple weeks? Was just one time, like, after. And I was there for, like, I don't know how long did it take. Two hours?
Yeah. Well, I would tell you that, like, I mean, I've gone through this myself and usually, it's multiple infusions to get you back up to where you're supposed to be. And they usually give you one, wait a week, do it again. So my thing would
be Oh, yeah. That couldn't happen.
Yeah. My thing would be go get those labs run again. Because your you go brain fog, fatigue, weight gain, hair loss, that could be anemia. Right? Yeah.
So, like, go so I'd go back and say, hey. Listen. I was low before. They gave me some, but only once. I still have a lot of these symptoms.
I wonder if, you know, maybe I don't need it still. And because I think that I mean, I've had people on, doctors on, who say that they want your firetin to be, like, at a minimum 70 at a for a woman your age. If you're if you're walking around at ten, twenty, thirty, a lot of doctors will tell you that's okay, but I really it isn't. It it leads to all the things you're talking about.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I knew I do need to go up for follow-up blood work.
Good. And it's Canada. I mean, you have to hurry because you're not dying, so they're not gonna help you for, like, nine months. So
Hey. To be fair, I've actually had pretty good I know and you hear about it, like, everywhere here where it's just awful healthcare and stuff. And to be fair, I actually everything that has kinda happened to me and my family, it's been dealt with very well. Like, I can't actually complain about it.
Cool. What province are you in?
In Saskatchewan. Okay.
Well, they there's only three people there, so there's not much of a line. They're they're just like, oh, you know who's coming early? Lana. And they go, oh, yeah. Who?
I
don't sound like that, do I?
No. I'm just teasing him. Of course not. Not at all. But I've just heard different stories.
There are people in some provinces that are they'll wait nine months or something that's not life threatening.
Oh, yeah. Yeah. It's I mean, okay. So it's funny. Got on to this podcast so quickly to do an interview because I was just like, you know what?
Last minute, let's do it. I had my hysterectomy last minute. They called me on a Wednesday. Like, wanna come in on Tuesday and have your hysterectomy? I was like,
yeah. Sure. Why not?
Because I I was on a waiting list, and I had no idea when I was gonna get in. So I guess that would be the thing where I was gonna have to deal with that for much longer had I not gotten in on a cancellation.
Yeah.
But it was it worked. So
Well, don't tell people how you got on the podcast because it'll make them mad. Because every once in a bay basically, what happens is every once in a while, I go look at my calendar. I sometimes I have to move things around. I have to travel next week. I have to travel next week for work.
Can I say what I'm doing? Probably not. But I'm going to do something next week that I wasn't expecting to have to do. So I had to move some things around and make some space on my calendar. And then I realized that today, I had that meeting this morning that I was telling you about.
And so I moved the person off of today to another day. There was somebody scheduled for today and I moved them. Oh. But then when you came on, that all of a sudden, I forgot to block the day off, so it looked open. And so you didn't you didn't wait in line like everybody else because today's not supposed to be here.
But once you were emailing with me, I thought, oh, we'll just work it out where I'll do it later in the day. And yeah. Yeah. So don't tell the people who waited six months to come on the podcast.
Oh, well, I won't. Everything just seems to work out how it should. Right? Yeah. Keep your
Living With a DIY Loop (AAPS) 43:05
head down. You deserve it. Trust me. So so so he jumps your son jumps to Android APS. And Yeah.
Something your husband sets up, a DIY algorithm for people who don't know. Right? And what's your experience been like with it?
It's been I don't know. It's been okay. I feel like he's so sensitive to insulin that sometimes, like okay. For, like, DIA, you can the highest you can go is nine hours or what like, whatever that means, I guess. I don't even know.
It's, how long the insulin is in you for. Right?
Duration of ins duration of insulin acting.
Yeah. Yep. So nine hours is the highest we can go, and sometimes I feel like that's not even high enough. But and with his okay. So another thing we're struggling with that night is when he is laying on it and he has a false low, it turns off the insulin because it thinks it's going low.
Yeah. And then you roll him over and he goes back up, and then it's like, oh, let's give him insulin. It's like, no. I don't want you to give him insulin. He's just going back up to his normal Okay.
From what he was. Does that make him low later?
Yeah. Because it's blasting with insulin when you didn't need it. Well So we always have to instead of just like well, then we just have to put a temp target on it. Like, okay. Don't send him insulin because he's literally just going back up to where he normally should have been.
Mhmm. Okay. So it sees the rise?
Like little things. Yeah. It sees a rise, and then it's like, oh, it needs insulin because it's going high.
Even if the rise doesn't go over top of the correction number? Because, like, are you
telling me
are you telling me, like like, his blood sugar is nice and stable and normal, but he rolls over, gets a compression low, it cuts off his basal for a while. He looks low, you roll him over, the blood sugar pops back up, and it starts the bolus.
Yeah. Exactly. If we didn't put on a temp target.
Okay.
So if you forget, then it's like Then you get that way around that. Like, I think you could probably I think you'd have to make your own. Like, that's where we we're kinda like, well, I don't know how to do that.
Make your own.
Like, it's gotta be
What? Make your own
build it?
Like Make your own
build. I think you can build that kinda thing on AAPS, but I don't know how.
Oh. And
that does my husband.
I see. So some sort of, like, an add on to the algorithm that that does a thing you'd like it to do in a certain situation.
Yeah. Exactly. Okay. So he doesn't use a whole lot of insulin. Like, what what the max fill is, like, 90.
And after three days of changing his pump, we usually have, like, sometimes 50 45 to 50 units still left.
Okay. Alright. So he's not using a ton of insulin then?
No. He's not.
No. And because you're eating more low carb and not using a lot of that kinda, like, celiac friendly stuff that can be higher in carb.
Well, I mean, we still kind of try to do low ish carb. Like, say, supper, we'll have we usually have a meat and some, like, vegetables as opposed to before we'd probably, like, load in a ton of I don't know. We'd have, like, either rice or potatoes Mhmm. Or, you know, like, that empty carb Kinda keeping away from But
keeping away from starches and stuff like that now.
Yeah. Okay. So that has definitely helped. So usually, our mindset now is, like, a protein and a vegetable for supper. Mhmm.
Not all the time. Like, we still have spaghetti. Like, last time we had chicken Alfredo. Like, we haven't we were at the first year. We were kinda not having any of that.
And then it just kind of I don't know. It just got too difficult, and he wasn't gaining weight. Like, he wasn't eating enough protein to make up for the lack of carbs or whatever.
Okay.
So we're kinda like, well, we're just gonna introduce carbs back in again. Okay. And meaning, like, spaghetti or, you know, noodles
and stuff. What's this a one c at?
I think the last one we checked, it was six point zero.
Oh my gosh. Sounds like you're doing pretty well.
Yeah. I mean, I'm so hard on myself. I feel like I'm I wanted it to be I thought it would be in the fives. You were
disappointed with the six?
Yeah. Sort of.
No. That that I
feel like we've been doing so much I feel like we were doing so much work, and then, like, hear that it wasn't, like, 5.8 or 5.7. I was just like, oh, like, how do you actually get into the fives?
Well, you just keep your blood sugar lower from where, like, stable times. It's it's but but but, I mean, first of all, he's he's not that old. Right? No. He's has to deal with celiac.
Does so is there something about celiac that changes the a one c? Is there accuracy? I'm trying to think if I remember something about that. Oh, sorry.
I don't really know about that. Like, obviously, if he were to have like, if he were to get gluten, I'm sure he would like, that would affect some way somehow.
Well, okay. So it's like
Because then
I'm looking it up because I I remember something, but I didn't remember the whole thing. Like, so celiac doesn't change like the a one c test, but the idea is that untreated celiac could cause malabsorption that could create an iron deficiency and anemia, and then that might impact the a one c. So Right. But he's not he's you guys are sounds like you're pretty careful with the celiac.
Yeah. Like, we went in last time for his celiac. We got that checked too, and he's back down to, like, a a regular like, if someone were not celiac number now.
The the the test. The Yeah. IgA test. Right?
Yeah. Well, that's good news.
I mean, you have two toasters now, so you might as well utilize them. Was that as an as an adult, you mean, taking the health part out of her for a second, is there a moment where you look at the countertop and there's two toasters there and you think, oh my god. We have two toasters. What happened to us?
Oh, yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. We actually finally were just able to move it over to, like we moved into a new house, and the, like, pantry area didn't have any, like, plug ins. And so we're like, what the heck?
We can't put our two toasters in the pantry. Yay. We had to have them out on on the counter.
Two toasters?
Anyways, we
What a waste of your adulthood. Yeah. Just my goodness. How does he hand how does he handle it? Go you mean what?
Go ahead. I'm sorry. I cut you off.
No. I was just gonna say, like, we have more than just two toasters. It's like two of so many things.
Two Toasters & Splitting the Caregiving 50:08
Two bread knives, two places where you keep stuff. Like, you're keeping things completely separate?
Well, kind of. Like, do we have one kind of cabinet for him, and then the other side is the gluten stuff?
Okay.
But so, I mean, if you had, like, a small kitchen, I just feel like having all this double of things would be Annoying.
Overwhelming or maybe contaminate itself. Right? So is that is that does he have, like, flare ups from contaminations, or is it not that
Honestly, no. I feel like he wouldn't he has gotten sick maybe once or twice, and we thought, oh, well, maybe it was gluten. And I think both times is when we'd gone out for a meal. Mhmm. And so I remember him, like, the next day kinda felt like he had to throw up and stuff.
And, well, you know how when a child has to throw up after dosing him, it's never fun.
Just like, oh, good. All the insulin's in there, but under the food.
Oh my gosh. Exactly.
So it so the whole thing is, like, I mean, you're are you a stay at home, did you say? You stay with the kids during the day, or you you leave and go to work to she's gone.
Yeah. So I'm definitely the the primary, like, caregiver when it comes to especially diabetes. So I'm always the one in, like, talking with the school or messaging back and forth with him Yeah. Which he's gotten really good at now.
That's awesome. You guys are just kinda texting about his diabetes back and forth?
Yeah. Yeah. So he has a, like, a phone and a watch. So just recently, he's been doing so much better with, okay. It looks like you're going well.
You should
have a
tab, and then he'll give the thumbs up. Or if his alarm goes off, he'll be like, okay. I'm having a tab because my alarm went off.
Nice. That's good.
And that's just recent.
Yeah. That's good. I mean, it'll keep growing. You know what I mean? Like, things will
get Yeah.
Easier, better. He'll understand more. You'll probably rest more. That'll be good too. And then things will seem different in in the light of day, I would imagine.
Husband knows a lot of knows anything about it or is mainly stays into the like the app building side of this?
No. No. No. He I mean, he does do the app part side of it, but, no, he's definitely involved. And I've gone away and, like, for a weekend or whatever, if I go out, he's there's no problem.
I'm not like, okay. Are you gonna be able to handle this? Yeah. I mean, I do feel like I know more about it and, obviously, because I am more involved while he's at work. Mhmm.
But, no, there it's definitely both of us Okay. Doing it. That's awesome.
Where Does This Go? Family, Loss & Adoption 52:49
Yep. Yeah. Where do you think this all goes? So, like, when you I mean, do you have the brain space for that to think about, like, how is your son gonna grow with this? What are expectations for him look like short term, long term?
Or is it more of a one day at a time thing for you?
I feel like I've kind of taken it more so a one day at a time. Just because before, like, the first year was I would say it was pretty dark. Okay. It was kind of always thinking about what's gonna happen, what could happen. I feel like I haven't had the best information given to me about other type ones in my life.
Uh-huh. Like, one of my friends, she actually passed away from type one diabetes, and my birth mom almost passed away from it. And my husband's cousin has quite a few medical issues from it too. So
What? So wait.
You Kinda like
Yeah. That's upsetting. But your birth mom had type one? Has?
Yeah. Okay.
And and and and someone on your husband's side has it too. Mhmm. Yep. Oh, okay. Yeah.
It's a perfect little mix here. Did you guys Yeah. Did you guys meet on on autoimmune Tinder? Where how'd you
I mean, you could minus the word autoimmune, but we did meet on Tinder.
Oh oh, god. So the kid was the kid was I don't wanna say doomed, but he was definitely gonna like, something was gonna pop up. And this makes me think more about good.
It's so funny. Well, okay. Not funny, but I feel like until his diagnosis, I really didn't have a whole lot of information or even know much about autoimmune Uh-huh. Because it wasn't really in my adoptive family that I knew of.
Yeah.
So I had read like I was saying oh, yeah. Here's what I was saying before in the papers that we had gotten with like, through the adoption, it had a little bit of description of her, and it said she had gestational diabetes while she was pregnant with me. And so, like but then I actually ended up meeting her, and she I remember her talking about diabetes, but it was never, like, a specific, like, yes. I have type one diabetes.
Okay.
Unless she did, and I just don't remember because I was 18. But
When when you met her. How'd you end up meeting her? Well,
my they didn't I think it was on the adoption papers. They forgot to, like, white out, I guess, essentially, her name. So we were able to go off of her name and my mom, like, my adopted mom. Well, I guess, my adopted mom, my third mom.
Wait. Who was the second one? He
my dad's first wife passed away when I was two. So you were They adopted me in.
You were adopted by a a man and his wife. And then when you were two, she passed away, and then he remarried. Yes. And so you've only so you don't even know you don't you don't have any recollection of your first adopted mom?
No. No. Not really at all. Like Wow. My brother does.
He was I think he was 10 when she died.
Okay. But your brother Yeah.
So they're my dad.
Wait. Is your brother another adopted person or is he natural to the two of them?
He's natural to my dad now and his first wife.
His first wife.
And then my dad remarried to the mom I have now, and they had two more kids.
Naturally.
Naturally. Yes. And I'm I'm the only adopted one.
It's so interesting that you don't refer to the woman who adopted you as your mom. She's your dad's first wife. Yeah. Have ever thought about that?
I have. Yeah. It's almost like I feel like I didn't have her long enough to call my mom or something. I feel like, I don't know. It's really weird.
I've definitely had this conversation in my mind before.
Yeah. Because if you were born to two people and two years later your mom died, you'd say that my mom died when I was two, and then my dad remarried and this is my step.
Well, yeah, don't know if I made it clear. My birth mom is not with, like, the dad that I'm,
like, talking about. You were clear. No. But so I yeah. So what I'm saying is is that I in a supposition kind of if if you suppose for a second let's say you were born to the people you were born to and they kept you.
And then two years later, your mom that mom died and then your father got remarried. You would say to people, my mom died when I was two. I was raised by my dad and my stepmom. Right?
Yeah. You're right.
Yeah. It's a it's
a It's funny you picked that up because that's definitely something that I think about where I don't usually refer her to as my mom.
Yeah. No. No. You're definitely you're talking around it on purpose. Like, but not, like, just because we're recording, that's how you talk about it.
Like, I could tell.
Oh, yeah.
This is the part I'm Wow. Yeah. Yeah. I'm really good at this part. I don't it's sorry.
No. I I know. I've I've noticed that.
Okay. Well, it's interesting. You should see a therapist. Do they have the honey cat, or what what would they do? They just put you with an otter?
Well, no. I think they just set you up with some, like, bear or something.
A bear. Yeah. Yeah. A bear. And the bear and an otter talk to you, but you feel better.
Better. And then you go work on the oil rigs, and then it's over.
Yeah. Exactly that.
You know, I I like to bring this up all the time, but there was a woman on one time who was a can can dancer up in, like, Northern Canada. And I was always, like like, just taken with that idea. She was she was just in a, like, a, like, a CD bar just, like, you know, shaking her ass
trying to get can can Yeah. Canada. Yeah.
Trying to get trying to get some some gold coins thrown out at the stage. I I don't think she did it long, but it was just the way she said it when she was like, was a can can dancer. I was like, get out of here. It's crazy. Wow.
Scott Plays Detective: Iron & Thyroid 59:07
Okay. Well, I am here's the things I'm worried about for you. Okay. I'm worried about your anemia. I think it's possibly still here.
I think you
should get Well, I'll get that blood work done.
Thank you. I think you should get a full thyroid panel while you're getting the iron panel just because your mom had type one, your birth mom had type one, and your kid has type one in celiac. So and you've had the endometriosis. I just feel like you're a you're a melting pot for something like that to happen. And
Probably.
And you you seem lovely, but you are struggling for, like, for your words.
Oh, I know. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's been really bad.
Yeah.
It was perfect time for to, like, get on chest. Checked. You got your thyroid checked? What what how did that come back?
I think it was, well, it was under two.
The TSH was under two. Good. Good. I'm glad. See, I'm helping.
So then we then we got Yeah. Yeah. Then we get to anemia next. And now that I know you had you were anemic when they they I was gonna say when they hoisted out your
I was gonna say Just get rid of it, though.
You were anemic when they hoisted out your uterus, and they gave you an infusion. But those hospital infusions, I guarantee you, was one of the small bet, and it wasn't enough. I'm gonna guess. Okay. I'm betting my I'm gonna bet my my gold coin con dike can can
Bloonie?
Bloonies that you're anemic still. And that's why you're having brain fog right now.
Okay. That would make sense.
That's it all fits. And if I'm wrong, this was free. So what do you gotta do about it? But, like, I I really think that I think you call the doctor up and say, hey. I think I might still be anemic.
I need another test.
They did say, like, you could potentially need more.
Well, then what You know? God. Don't make me curse at you, Lana. Why didn't you do the thing then?
I don't know. I hate needles.
As much as you hate not being able to find simple words during conversation?
I can usually cover it up better, I feel. Focused, like Yeah.
Yeah. No. Yeah.
I know.
Yeah. You're you what do you do?
I mean, I'm so like, I'm just more scared of needles than I am of anything. Like, I didn't even have epidural with my kids.
So Listen to me. I'll go with you. Alright? Well, not me. I'll send to your husband.
But, I mean, like, someone will go with you. You'll be cool. It'll be fine. It'll be free. Can I I'm gonna tell you something crazy?
No. This is embarrassing. It's okay. So I'm having I've I've, you know, I my dental health is much better now that I go to the dentist more frequently. But when I grew up, I never went to the dentist.
Like, I think the first time I went to the dentist, that was, like, '19. And people are like, oh my god. Where was he? In the Adirondacks? No.
I was in Pennsylvania. And so but, anyway, like, I've had a number of root canals over my lifetime, and I've had them long enough ago now that a couple of them are but they're time to you gotta recondition them. You gotta get in there and and shine
them need to get a crown.
Well, no. Have a crown. Gotta take the crown they gotta take the crown off, go back in, clean it up again, put a new post in, like, all this stuff. Right? Mhmm.
So Yeah. I've I've been doing that this year for two of them. I've got one finished, and I'm working on the second one. So I went to the dentist two days ago where he, in the back of my jaw, injected me twice so that he could pop off the temporary crown Yeah. Clean it out, put the post in, and put on a temp another temp crown, wait for the real crown to come in.
So he injects me twice. And then the next day and this is the part I was gonna be embarrassed about. Arden and I went to get our eyebrows threaded. So I'm gonna be recorded for something next week, and I wanted to make sure my eyebrows were good. And she was going to
Is painful?
Well, you're getting you'll get the hold on for the story. And and and then and she's going to some sort of a like a college mixer this weekend. Like, you know, they're spending the night at like a hotel and there's like a big thing in there. So she she's like, I have to go get my eyebrows on. Do you wanna go?
And I was like, my god. Yeah. I'm doing that thing for Omnipod next week. I wanna go. And so, like, we went.
While she was plucking out the the my eyebrows, I actually thought, this hurts more than going to the dentist to me. And the dentist is using a jacked up big needle, but he's just he's an he's an artist. Like, the man's an artist. He should be there should be a statue to him somewhere. Yeah.
But I don't want you to get you wrong. Like, it's not that like, five seconds after they're done doing the the eyebrows, it's over. It's not like it doesn't linger or anything like that. And so my point is, does getting your eyebrows threaded really hurt worse than being shot with a needle in your mouth? I don't think so, but I think it's, the anticipation of it.
It's definitely the anticipation.
Yeah.
Yeah. I I work in dental, actually.
No.
So people coming I'm I'm, like, the front, so I was doing admin.
Mhmm.
So you could definitely tell when people were coming in. They're very nervous, and, like, no one likes the dentist. No one's happy to be there. They're so much different when they leave had, like, people apologize and be like, I'm sorry how I was at the beginning of this appointment. I love
I love going to the dentist. It's so relaxing. Like, so like Yeah. Because, like, two and a half hour appointment to work on a, like, work on the root canal. Right?
I put my head back. I put some I go I go to sleep. Sometimes they gotta wake me up to move me around. They're like, Scott, can you turn your head? I'm like, oh, sorry.
So relaxed. So relaxed. I love the my dentist says no one's ever said this before. But when they're cleaning out the roots, they use this bit that kinda feels like it's it feels bumpy. I don't know another way to say it.
Like, it feels like it's Mhmm. And it it makes a different sound, and it almost feels bumpy while it's in there. And he gets done, and I'm like, are you are you putting out the roots right there? I said, yeah. I said, I love that feeling.
But you're not really feeling it. You just kind of sort of feel it?
It's like it feels like like look. I don't obviously know what he's doing, but it feels like because I can't see it. But it feels like he's taking a round item and putting it into a tubular thing and that it's kind of boring through it. And Yeah. I like the way it feels.
So, anyway, take don't take me. And then I'm at the the threading, and I'm like, oh, that hurt. I go walk out, Arnie goes, okay. I'm like, oh, it hurts so much. So
I've had that done.
Yeah. By the time you get to the car, it's over.
Yeah. You know?
But it's Good. Yeah. $7, by the way. Very realistic.
Well, let's keep there. I don't know if it'd be that cheap here.
Yeah. Well, maybe. Listen. Let me give you a good a good tip. Find an Indian population to do it for you.
Okay.
Really, they're Yeah.
See, I could see them being really good.
Very good. Very good. Nevertheless. Alright. Well, do you you know what to do now?
You know what you're gonna do?
Go get my blood test.
Doctor. Get my blood test. Make sure I'm not anemic. Get some more infusions. Feel better in a couple of months.
Probably send you an email and say thank you. That's probably how it
works.
Olive, Sewing & a Dream of Acreage 1:06:13
Right. And then and then you'll be able to, like, kinda, like, drill down on no pun intended on the kid's diabetes, get yourself some rest, and be okay. Are we worried about this other kid? Is he a ticking time bomb? Or she?
By the way, great name. Olive. Really great name.
Olive. Yeah. Yeah. Thanks.
Yeah. Yeah. Yep. Does she have anything going on or not so far?
No. Not that we know of. She seems okay, and I hope that it stays that way.
Yeah. No. Me too.
I always see, like, when other people are like, oh, my second type one diabetic child. I'm just like, I can't even I mean, we can't you can imagine it, but it's just one is enough to deal with.
No. Thank you. I'm okay.
Yeah. Yeah. I'm okay.
You can give that to somebody else.
Yeah. We'll be hard. We're good here.
We're good here. Everybody's fine. Thanks. Oh my gosh. Well, I would ask you if there's anything else that we should have talked about that we didn't, but I don't know how the hell you would remember.
So
Well, that's yeah. I wrote all down.
You wrote it all down. By the way, the beginning, she's like, but my notes are on my phone, and we're using my phone to record, and I can't go to my notes without shutting my phone off. And I was like, send them to your send them to your computer. And she was like, how is that gonna happen?
No. No. No. I knew how. I just couldn't exit out of you in my email.
Exit out of you in my email. It should be the name of my my autobiography. But seriously, is there anything that we didn't talk about that we should have? This was a little more about you than it was about the kid, but I I'm okay with was.
Yeah. And it it's funny because I even said that when I was talking to my husband, I'm like, who knows what avenue we are going to go down? Because listening to your podcast, it's you never know.
Yeah. Please.
I listen to it all the time while I'm sewing.
So Thank you. I appreciate it. With sewing? What are you sewing? What are making?
I sew and sell children's clothing.
Oh, wow. Is it extra warm? It
can be, like, really warm. How do you
how do you sell it?
What do mean how?
The Internet? You sell it on the corner? You you go to Chick fil A and do it with the marketing lot?
No. No. Sell it. What do you mean how?
What's your
Yeah. I do sell online. I'm not very good at getting the stuff up on there. So anytime people are like, oh, you have a website? I'm like, yeah.
Sort of. But I usually do markets around the city here. And then now that I've gotten quite a quite a good clientele, people just do a lot of
Yeah.
Custom orders. So I show them the fabric that I have, and then I have my website showing the kind of things that I could make, and then we just go from there. And I sew their children up lovely wardrobes.
Listen to me. What's your web address? How do the people find you? I don't normally pimp people's businesses, but this sounds lovely. What are we doing here?
Aa.com of some sort? What do you got?
Unfortunately, it is not a.com because I don't ship anywhere outside of Canada.
Sorry. Canadians listen to this. I just wanna go look at it. What's the address?
Oh, it is www.gabeandolive.ca.
Dot c a?
I usually
Who even knew that was real?
Use more of, like, my Instagram.
Oh, of course. What's your well, hold on. I'll tell people. Oh, this is nice. Hold on a second.
Oh, look at you. And there's moose on there. Of course, there's moose. Why would it's all you know about. Is this you in the photo?
What? Let me just I
feel like Do you not know your own website?
I
Oh my god, Imperial. Do you not know if this is you on your website or not?
Well, it's me.
Well, then just say yes.
I'm just saying. I was like, wait. I had
get to a fight in a second.
Oh, there I am.
So t shirts, tops, little skirt, top. Oh, that's cute. Look at you.
That's me. Oh my gosh.
Oh my gosh. Lovely. This is wonderful. You make all this yourself?
Yeah. Yeah. I do it all myself. I kind of learned from mostly the Internet or just kind of picking up my this one girl on my Facebook. I was kinda friends with her back in the day, and I kept seeing her stuff that she was making.
And I'm like, can you can I come over and you just show me how to use a serger? So she said, yes. And I went over there, and I, like, sewed something up, and I just went on from there.
And just ripped her off and knocked her out of business. Is that what you did?
Well, she always says that I've actually out what it whatever it hurt in her because I went to markets, now I sell to a bunch of people. So
Oh, lovely. Oh, look at this.
Outdone the teacher, I guess, she said.
Oh, look at this cardigan. You're you're really talented. This is wonderful.
Oh, thank you.
Yeah. Oh, that's cool.
Yeah. So and, like, I sell for my family, but I don't really sell a whole lot of adult stuff just because I mean, people say they want it, and then I'm like, this is how much. And they're like, oh, okay.
Never mind. I'm gonna go to Walmart, but thank you.
Yeah. Never mind.
It's funny they'll spend they'll spend it on their kids, but not on themselves.
Yeah. Kind of. But, mean, I feel like it's I don't know. The way my clothing is is a lot of it is it does actually last a a lot longer than maybe a typical outfit from the store.
Yeah. I would imagine.
My kids have still worn for, like, two to three years. So
I don't know. Thank god I don't have babies because if I showed this to my wife, we'd be Yeah. Paying the shipping.
I know. I'm kinda glad I started sewing after my kids were not babies anymore. Yeah. I started during COVID.
Alright. Well, listen, Canadians. Gabenolive.ca. You can go look yourself. Buy something.
Obviously, buy something from Lana. She needs she needs a steak. She gotta get her she gotta get her her iron up. Help her out a little bit. My gosh.
Well
Man, I need to get my iron up, and then maybe in, like, two years so that I can come back on here and I'll be a whole new unfoggy person.
Well, I was just gonna say, honestly, when you get this all figured out, I think I might like it if you came back on after you listened to yourself. Because it's possible you're gonna be like, oh my god. What the hell is going on? Because Great. Yeah.
No. Because I've gone through it. Like, I've had really low iron. And I'm telling you, like, you're doing shit you don't even realize you're doing. So Oh, no.
Yeah. All you go after I is check your
feel like well, I also do have anxiety, so that doesn't help things.
Well, do you know that come hold on a second while I teach you. Anxiety and anemia, think, go hand in hand. So if you are like, let's say you have silent celiac maybe or, you know, there's another reason that you're anemic, you could you could have low iron throughout your life. Yeah. And anemia can possibly make anxiety feel worse, and sometimes it can look like anxiety even when the main driver is just low iron, low b twelve blood loss, or another anemia cause.
Do you have do do you have a computer there in in Canada? You do. Right?
I do have a computer.
Yeah. Have you have you found the chat sheet PT yet and stuff like that? Yeah. Yeah. Just type
in I do know how to use that.
Just type in anemia impacts anxiety, and then just go read it. Okay. Okay? Because anemia may not cause anxiety in the emotional sense, but it can create body sensations that your brain interprets as danger, racing heart, breathlessness, shakiness, exhaustion, and that can trigger or amplify anxiety.
Oh, yeah.
You're like, oh, that's me. Want me to keep reading? Iron deficient anemia, especially can cause fatigue, shortness of breath, chest discomfort, fast heartbeat, dizziness, lightheadedness, cold hands or feet, and the symptoms often intensify as the deficiency gets worse. Do you have shortness of breath when you run up steps?
Not really. No. And I've started to work out. I go to a trainer.
So Okay. Just feel I feel like you just you just CBC, ferritin, iron, panel, b twelve, folate, thyroid test, and evaluate blood loss if the iron is low. Like, you're not you have you don't have any GI bleeding or anything like that. Right? No.
No. Do you still get your period without your uterus? Nope. No. Right?
See, that was the problem with that's why I was so low iron.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You just need two more jackups. Two more bags up.
I tell you, two more bags and you're set. I'm not a doctor, and this is not advice. But two more bags and I think you're a different person.
Yeah. I definitely okay. You know what? I'm gonna call my doctor. I'm gonna get another blood work done and see how my ferritin is.
Everyone says it. With glow. Everyone says it. Not enough people email me back and say I did it. So
Do you want me to email you back?
I do, but you won't. Because no one ever does. Just a throwaway avatar in your life. I'm not a real person to you. That's fine.
Alright. I do not use avatars.
But did you like the movie with the blue things and the dragons?
No. I actually didn't.
Why not? Why why are you the only person that didn't like avatar?
I I don't know. But I remember everyone talking about how amazing it was, and I'm like, okay. I kinda found that boring. Okay.
I don't know. The ride at Disney is pretty awesome or wherever it is. I don't know where it is. Disney? Maybe.
Oh. It's a good ride.
Haven't been.
Yeah. Well, I mean, how are you gonna get out of the country?
I don't know.
Yeah. You don't have enough energy. You're not gonna make it.
I actually just have zero desire to travel right now.
Maybe you'll feel better after your iron's heart. Right now, I mean, the idea of getting on a pontoon boat and then taking a kayak to get to a bus, to get to an airport. I mean, how are you gonna it's a lot of work. And then
That sounds exhausting.
The last 50 miles are sled dog. Right? And then you're on your way, but it's not great. How did you end are you born there? How you I almost said, how do you end up there?
I was born in Saskatchewan, and I have not moved or, like, lived anywhere else other than Saskatchewan.
Interesting.
I almost moved to Alberta, but then I didn't, and I'm glad I didn't. And I like that I live out on an acreage out of the city.
How much I grew up on a farm. How much space?
Just, like, under three acres. It's small, but it I can see the stars, and the sunsets, and the sunrises, and it's glorious.
I'm not gonna argue with you. I looked at a house in the South, and I didn't have like, I wasn't really like, I wasn't like, show me a house. I was going through I'll I'll explain this to I was going through Tennessee on the way to Atlanta to do a talk in Atlanta for Touched by Type one, which by the way, went great. Touchedbytype1.org. Check it out.
And then I
Check it.
But I I had met I hope this is doesn't sound too obtuse, but I I went on a cruise in December to check out the ship that I'm taking everybody on
Right.
In June. And while I was on the ship, I met a woman who was a former American Idol contestant. She was singing on the It it it's just kinda funny. And and her name's Ashley Amber. She's might be somebody you recognize because she has, like, like, a really, like, a giant, like, afro.
So I think that's how people know her. Anyway Okay. She was singing on the ship. She and I were getting food at the same time on the ship, and somebody had kind of, like, accosted her. Like, somebody somebody recognized her from the being the singer, obviously, and then was talking to her, not meanly, but was really just monopolizing her time.
So I have kinda gone through that at diabetes events. I can tell the look on her face when she's like, I'm just trying to eat this food. Please leave me alone for five seconds. Right? I kinda I stepped in, and I was like, oh my god.
Hi. And I kind of just, like, hijacked the conversation. Then the woman felt the pressure. She excused herself and left. And then she looked at me like, oh god.
No. Was like, you and I went, hey. I don't really wanna talk to you. I was just saving you. Go ahead and eat your dinner.
And she she comes up to me afterwards. She goes, how did you know I needed to be safe? And I said, well, in certain situations, I'm more famous than anyone in the world. And and I was like, but not in many situations, just in very specific ones. I was like, and I I know the look of I'm just trying to eat this food, please.
I just I need five minutes. And then we started talking. That's amazing. Yeah. We started talking, and she's like, actually, I'm not gonna do the ships much longer.
I'm really gonna pivot to because this is how she makes her living. She sings on cruise ships. And and then she's like, I'm gonna start selling real estate in Tennessee. And she's like, I live in Nashville. And I was like, oh, that's one of the places I talked to my wife about moving to.
And so we just kinda kept in contact, and then I found myself traveling to Atlanta. And I said, crazy question. If I drove to Atlanta instead of flew there, if I spun through, could you just show me a couple of houses real quick? I'm not looking for a house. It will be a waste of your time.
But, like, can you would you? And she was nice enough to do it. So she just picked a couple of houses, and I didn't know where to pick or I I had no idea. Like, I hadn't looked into it at all. And I just followed her lead, and she put me on this piece of property.
It was five acres. And I it took a while to get from the road to the house. And then I walked the house, and I was like, this is really lovely. It was, like, new construction and everything. Was really nice.
And I walked out back, and I was making a video for Kelly who was not with me. I was gonna show her the house. And I got outside, and it struck me how silent it was outside. There was no noise anywhere. And then a bird chirped.
Not 20, not a thousand. And I and I realized I'm only listening to the bird chirping right now. And I could've yeah. I would've like, if I didn't have kids and a wife, I would've just been like, this is fine. I'll take this one, and I would've just stayed.
See you. Yeah.
Yeah. This is good. I'll be okay here.
Mhmm.
I I I take your point because I've been bugging my family incessantly about it since then. I was like, come on. Yeah. This is the art. And I'm like, I know you probably love your boyfriend.
I'm like, but you could find another guy. Like, let's go. So and
I mean, I feel like had I been 20, I would not have wanted to move out here. I was like, yes. City life. Woo. Mhmm.
And then it got into my later years, like, 35, and I'm like, hey. You know what? I think we could move out to an acreage. And then finally, it happened, like, a year and a half ago.
Yeah. I'm in. I'll leave right now. Like, I'll I'll you got I'll sell this and leave. You can have it as is.
I'll buy a new bed when I get there. Like, I'm I'd be happy I'd be happy to go. So I don't think I'll
I got a large
ever gonna happen.
Large garden. It's Yeah. It's awesome.
I said to my wife, I was like, you could plant something. I'm like, you're always talking about it. You could actually do it. You know? Like, you already
worked food or just flowers?
Any who cares? Right? Get a chicken. I don't know.
There's a fox. A fox just ran by our yard.
Oh, what does the fox say? Did it say anything?
What does the fox say? I know. He's just running. He's so cute.
Look at that. That's he was.
So, like, ADHD, just like a fox.
Oh my god. Fox. I was like, when you said that, I thought I thought you were pretending that a fox ran by during my my experience. I thought you were adding
It's not very often that we see a fox. We see lots of deer, but a fox is not as common.
Oh my.
They're around, but I just don't see them.
Yeah. Well, anyway, I guess there's a long way of saying if you're looking for a realtor in the Nashville area, Ashley Amber. She really is Good to know. Fantastic. Alright.
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- Type 1 rode in behind celiac. Gabriel’s diabetes was caught at a routine celiac follow-up draw — his a1c had jumped from about 4.8 to 7.8 in a few months — and they escaped DKA only because that bloodwork was already scheduled. With one autoimmune diagnosis, staying alert for the next one matters.
- A DIY closed loop (AAPS) is powerful but has rough edges. Their pain point: a compression false-low makes the algorithm cut basal, then it over-boluses the rebound. Their fix is a temp target. Knowing your system’s failure modes — and how to override them — is part of looping.
- Caregiver health is part of the kid’s care. Scott walked Lana through brain fog, fatigue, hair loss, and weight gain that may trace to iron deficiency (one transfusion is often not enough) and possibly thyroid — and noted anemia can mimic or amplify anxiety. Worth a full panel: CBC, ferritin, iron, B12, folate, thyroid. Many clinicians aim for ferritin ≥70 in women. Decisions belong with your doctor.
- Low-carb helped, until it didn’t. They leaned keto/low-carb early (easier with celiac), but Gabriel wasn’t gaining weight, so they reintroduced carbs. Growth comes first — a number on the meter isn’t worth stalling a kid’s development.
- An a1c of 6.0 is excellent — and self-criticism is common anyway. Lana hoped for the 5s and felt let down by a 6.0. Naming that pattern matters as much as the number; the goal is health and sustainability, not perfection.
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- Gabe & Olive (Lana’s shop) — Lana’s handmade children’s clothing, named for her kids — Canadian shipping. Scott insisted we share it.
- AndroidAPS (AAPS) — The open-source DIY automated insulin delivery system Lana’s husband John set up.
- Bold Beginnings Series — The newly-diagnosed series Scott points listeners to.
#1889 Let Them Eat Cake
A mom's thyroid cancer, then her breastfed 10-month-old diagnosed with type 1 in DKA, a diabetes educator who said feed the baby cake, celiac, and years of fighting for care.
Let Them Eat Cake
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I had papillary thyroid cancer.
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Testing.
Okay. Good. So, I'm gonna do the intake part on the recording. You're the first time I've ever done this, I think.
Okay.
So so Aileen's here. She was nice enough to jump on when my recording for the day had to cancel at the last minute. I went to the Facebook group, and there is a my gosh. There's 88 comments in that in that post already. And looking for somebody who could literally jump on right now and and record a podcast.
So thank you very much for doing that.
You're welcome.
You're very nervous, you said?
Yes.
Please don't be. Please don't be. Here's what I usually do before we start recording. I say, do you have any questions or concerns or anything that you'd like to ask me before we record?
No. I just will preface this that, like, my memory for almost nine years ago now is not a lot of the questions you ask sometimes about diagnosis. Like That's okay. Peptide or that kind of stuff. I don't really know the details.
I don't either. It's not it's not court. You'll be fine. About names, you can use your full name. I'm gonna ask you to introduce yourself in a minute.
Right? You can use your full name if you want to. I don't think you need to. If you're compelled to, I'm not gonna stop you. People in your life, it would be better to say my neighbor or my doctor than to use people's names, a, because they might not want their name used, and, b, because it's actually confusing for people.
Just, you know, my neighbor makes a lot of sense to people. I can't be your guardrail. So if you start saying crazy shit, you know what I mean, like, that wasn't me. I'm just gonna ask I'm just gonna answer, you know, and ask questions. Everyone says, oh, there's nothing crazy about my life, and then inevitably somebody says something absolutely insane.
So so if if we're talking about, like, you know, your great grandfather's war crimes one day, like, you you know, it wasn't me. You you you got me there. Okay?
Okay.
Sounds good. Yes. I'm gonna ask you to collect yourself and introduce yourself the way you want to be known. And then I'll I'll ask you a question, and we'll keep talking.
Sounds good.
Alright. And, Rob, you can leave all this in when you're editing. Go ahead.
Aileen & the Family History 5:02
Hi. My name is Aileen. I am a mother to a type one diabetic daughter who will be nine very shortly, and we actually just passed her ninth anniversary of diagnosis because she was diagnosed at 10 old. Wow. And she also has celiac disease.
Oh my goodness. Is there other, autoimmune in your family?
Nothing that's been clearly diagnosed because we have a lot of people that are too scared to go to doctors.
So there are people you feel like might have celiac?
Possibly. We all did get genetic testing after she was diagnosed per her doctor. I have one of the genes, and they said it could, at some point, potentially be become celiac, but they said unlikely because of my age. Okay. But no one that's been officially diagnosed with celiac in our family.
No one that's been type one. One very distant family member at some point mentioned it, but no one else can say, like, oh, yeah. She definitely did. It was, like, my great grandmother's, like, great niece or something totally random.
With with the other people in your life that are afraid to go to the doctor, what do you think they'd find if they went?
I believe my mom probably has, like, psoriasis, which I believe is autoimmune. And I believe on my husband's side, there is a couple of people that have some thyroid stuff. I just don't know exactly if they have diagnosis or what exactly.
Gotcha. Tired, hair falling out, overweight, won't go to the doctor?
Yes. I I do know my brother-in-law prefers to eat gluten free, but I again, I don't think there was anything, like, officially.
That's a thing he discovered one day in the bathroom. Yeah. While he was talking to Jesus, probably. I gotcha. Well, I why won't people take a pill?
I don't know. I have to take one myself. It's pretty simple.
Yeah. What do you have?
I had papillary thyroid cancer.
Did you? Oh, so you're taking Synthroid?
Yes.
Oh, okay. How old were you when that happened?
It was six months prior to her diagnosis. So Right after you gave birth. Year.
No. But right after you gave birth, though.
Yes. She was born at the very May 2017. I found out in August 2017 that I had cancer.
Oh my gosh. Is was she your first?
She is my third daughter. Your third daughter? Four. Okay. Yes.
How old were you when you had her?
Again, I'm gonna have to do that.
It's nine years ago. It's easy. Take take 10 off and then add one back.
Oh, okay. Yeah. That makes it easier. So then 42 minus 10.
32.
32, and then it went back to 33.
You were 33. Yeah. Yeah. See? It's easy.
Math is not tough. How how old are your children? She's nine now, but how old are your other two?
I have a 13 year old daughter. I have an 11 year old daughter. She is my nine year old, and then she also has a six year old brother.
Okay. Wait. Wait. Wait. Hold on.
You how many kids do you have?
Four total.
Four. I didn't know about the boy, I guess. Okay. And the rest of them not having any issues?
Currently, no. My oldest, we have actually taken her to my daughter's endocrine for a follow-up because she has some symptoms of some stuff, and I was not happy with her thyroid levels when the pediatrician ran it for me.
Mhmm.
And I was like, with our family history, I really don't feel comfortable with this number. I think it was, like, a 3.7.
Oh, no. Yeah. That might need meds. Does she have symptoms?
Yes.
Yeah. She needs meds,
well, they would not they would not, agree with me there. So I took her to the endocrine for follow-up, and I think they had, like, went down a little bit. So she said right now, we're not going to medicate. But it's almost been a year, so we might follow-up again.
I would tell that doctor two point one or over with symptoms, I wanna do something. Not up to
I said I would feel pretty pretty bad if that was my numbers.
Yeah. Yes. Well, yeah, keep pushing if you can. I know it's it's exhausting to fight with them. But, you know, the thing the simplest thing to do would you could just call around to other offices, give them a two sentence explainer about what's happening, and say, is there a doctor in the practice that would be comfortable, being a little more forward thinking for my daughter?
And then just wait till because one of them will say yes, and then you might have to hang up on a few people. But one of them will say yes, and then you run her in and they'll give her the meds.
Yeah. She's she seems, like, more tired than her peers. She definitely has like, when she brushes her hair, I see her hairbrush, and I'm just like, that's not normal.
Is she gaining weight?
A little bit. Yeah. Yeah. But she's also of that age where you're supposed to gain, like, kind of a lot of weight that, like, prepubescent kinda
Yeah. No. I get what you're saying. But that even this tiredness in the hair and everything, it's just you know it's coming if it's not full force on her already. Imagine if she had more imagine if this person who canceled on me at the last minute, whose name I won't mention, but damn you, lady.
And then I was already I was excited to talk. And but now I got Aileen. It's much better. Oh. But imagine imagine if she just had more energy.
Like, how great that would be for her.
I agree. Yeah. I I I try. I I've listened to your thyroid episodes. I even I'm like, well, I'm also in New Jersey like you, so I'm like, can I get into Scott's doctor
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She broke our heart. She she actually has been a lovely part of our lives. But, her husband got this really kind of fancy job with the the French government, and they are moving. And she is she's out. She's not gonna practice anymore.
There goes my luck of trying to get into a good doctor.
Yeah. Yeah. Well, actually, Arden and I are are gonna throw a dart at a board today and pick an endo for her, so we'll we'll see what happens with that. But but yeah. No.
She she just got an opportunity, and she's like, I'm gonna retire, and she's off. And and we just had all of our blood work run for the kids and everybody. So I was texting with her the other day, and she's like, you just caught me. Ten more days, and I'm done. And then she's like, follow-up with me on this one thing.
I tried to text her last night, and her phone didn't work. And I was like, uh-oh. I so I just switched I switched I switched over to email. Was like, she is really getting out of here. Oh my gosh.
Well, I I wish you luck with that. So Thank you. Yeah. Yeah. So tell me a little bit, was your pregnancy fairly common for I mean, you had had a number of them already.
So how how did it go right before the diagnosis your diagnosis, I mean?
Her Own Cancer, Right After Giving Birth 14:05
Yeah. The pregnancy was great. I believe it was while I was very early on in the pregnancy. I had switched primary doctors, and I kind of did have some complaints of thyroid esque type symptoms Mhmm. Saying, like, I was tired and hair loss and that sort of stuff.
But, again, I was newly pregnant, so they kind of were like, you're borderline. We could put you on a low dose Synthroid kind of thing. So I said yes, and we increased it, you know, with weight gain, you kind of have to change your dosing sometimes. So we increased that as needed, and I was feeling pretty good. And they said to come in, I believe it was three months post postpartum was when they would check again because then you have the weight loss, so you would need a a change in dose again.
Yeah. Yeah.
And so I went in, and I believe it was the nurse practitioner even asked, like, have you had an ultrasound since being on this medication since it's been just about a year, a little over a year? And I said, no. She said, well, that's kinda common practice. And I was like, oh, okay. So she gave me a script upon leaving for an ultrasound, and I went for that pretty quickly.
And I remember while I was lying there when they were doing the ultrasound because I've now had three pregnancies and ultrasounds many, many a times, I said, they're taking an awful lot of pictures. This is something's wrong. And I went home and I started googling, and I was like, have thyroid cancer. That's it. Wow.
Look at you.
So I was lucky enough that one of my sorority sisters well, not lucky she had it, but lucky enough that I had someone to reach out to because I had recalled a sorority sister that had thyroid cancer after delivering her child. And I reached out to her even before I officially had gotten the diagnosis and was like, I need all your information. I'm about to, you know, drive myself insane googling and being scared. So I was lucky to have a resource in a sorority sister, and the ultrasound did come back. Again, another fortunate thing, I believe that they normally wouldn't biopsy until the nodules are more than one centimeter, and mine was, like, point 99.
Mhmm.
And they were like, that's close enough, and you have a couple others. Let's send you for a biopsy. So I went for a biopsy, and even that endocrinologist that was doing the biopsy told me that the pattern of my nodules were not consistent with cancer, but sure, she'll still biopsy. So now I had an ultrasound that seemed kind of not wasn't going to be like, it was kinda offhandedly like, hey. You should do this.
Yeah. Then
then even after the ultrasound results, they were like, it's close enough. Let's do this. Now I have an endocrinologist telling me, not not the pattern of thyroid cancer, but we're still gonna biopsy it. And it wound up being, yes, cancerous. They did not biopsy one of the other nodules because your thyroid looks like a butterfly.
Yeah. They biopsied the nodules on the right half, but not the left half because that was the biggest one, and they were able to get two of them at the same time. Mhmm. And they said that when they do the surgery to remove the thyroid, they will then test the pathology of the other nodules, and it wound up being that all of them were cancerous. Wow.
So they removed the entire thyroid at that point.
No kidding. And you're dragging four kids around with you at these doctor's appointments?
Three. But yes.
Did it make you take the baby? That was nice.
No. I so a lot of times, I did take them with me to the biopsy. They actually didn't tell me that I should've had someone to be able to drive me home because you wouldn't be able to turn your neck.
Oh.
And I was like and I was like, no. No. No. I said, I got a babysitter. You are doing this now.
I said, I will figure out how to get home. I will not make turns. I will drive straight.
I have a babysitter. I'll sit out in the hall if you need me to for a day or so, but I'm I'm not going home and coming back here. You don't understand?
Yes. I was like, it is too difficult.
Were you having any postpartum symptoms at the same time?
Nothing crazy. No. I was I was okay. That just made me a nervous wreck thinking about because the other thing about papillary thyroid cancer is that they cannot tell, at least my understanding the way it was explained to me unless things changed or I was told wrong. They cannot tell if it had spread to your lymph nodes through any sort of testing.
That's something that you find out in surgery.
Oh, fine. Jesus.
Right. So I didn't know if I was gonna be able to continue nursing my daughter. Mhmm. Or
if you'd wake up with more more cancer than you knew about.
Right. And if I woke up, if I would need radiation, which would also mean isolation from my family, so we kind of needed to have a plan in place for where they would be living or I would be living. If I needed to get the radiation, I wouldn't have been able to change the baby's diapers. Like, I would you're not supposed to even share, like, a toilet with other people when you're going through that. So there was a lot of thinking and planning for scenarios that you didn't even know if you were gonna need.
Right. I wonder why you can't share a toilet.
I'm not sure. I just know that, like, you like, you need to be, like, completely kind of isolated. Radiation?
Yeah. Do think it would shrink testicles? I
don't know. I that would
be a great service for older men.
I mean, I could be recalling slightly wrong. I just know, like, you're supposed to, like, really be, like, away from other people.
No. No. I've heard that before too. I I am interest I'm not I'm not interested enough to sit up and check, but I am interested.
You're not putting that in your chat, GBT? I'm not.
No. I was like, it's interesting. I'll think about it later, but I'm not gonna find out now. I'm I'm happy enough with the saggy balls joke, and I can move on. So well, wow.
That's so much. It just it it really does feel like a lot, but that's nine years ago now.
Yes. And that was so I had this we found out in August, and I had the surgery that October Mhmm. Of 2017, and then my daughter was diagnosed 04/02/2018, so less than six months after my surgery.
Oh, just when you were relaxed and thinking, hey. I'm not gonna die. Everything's gonna be okay.
Right. Exactly. I, you know, I stopped right in the wheel.
What what was what was everybody getting? Was it or was it depressing? I think my will would be depressing. I'd start writing, like, I have nothing to give people.
Yeah. No. It was more like worrying about who would take care of my kids. No. Those
yeah. Well, listen. I I hear you.
I I had a lot of them.
We I had a lot. When we sat down and did that, I I I definitely shouldn't say this, but you start going through people in your family. You're like, no. No. Then you get the one you're like, I mean, I guess this is acceptable.
I know.
And I'm sure they're thinking that about me while they're doing the same thing. They're probably going through it like, oh, no. No. No. No.
The Baby Gets Sick 20:53
Oh my gosh. Wow. Okay. So how did the diagnosis come up for your daughter? What was the first I mean, she's only a few months old.
What's the indications?
Yes. So her oldest sister was just in pre k four. It was her first experience at school, and then the middle daughter was still at home with us. And so when Ainslie was oh, and sorry. My husband also worked nights night shift at the time.
Mhmm.
So I was doing a lot of just kinda, like, co sleeping, nursing overnight, like Yeah. Minimal getting up out of bed for myself. So I didn't really notice a lot of the symptoms until, like, hindsight when you talk about it because, you know, she wasn't getting a bottle where I could see how many ounces she was taking in. I wasn't really counting how many times we woke up because I kind of was just like Exhausting. Like I said, I wasn't getting in and out of bed.
Yeah.
But so her oldest sister was in school, and I don't recall her coming home being sick. But when Ainsley got sick and was vomiting one night, I kinda was like, oh, great. Like, we just brought home a bug from school type of thing. Mhmm. And our pediatrician at the time in the past had let my older daughters use it's called Floristor.
It's a a probiotic, and it's a flavorless packet, you can mix it into applesauce, and it's supposed to be good when you have a stomach upset.
Okay.
And so I remember I called the pediatrician asking because on the box it says under one, do not give. And I was just like, should I she's under one. Can I not give this to her? And the pediatrician said no. And I was like, okay.
Cool. And they said, do you wanna come in? And silly me, said no. I was just like, no. No.
It's okay. It's just a stomach bug. I don't need to come in. I just really want to know about if we could use the Floor Store. And so I I didn't go.
I didn't even take my my sick kid to the doctor on the day of her diagnosis.
Well, that happens to everybody. You know that. You've been listening for a while. Right? Yes.
Yeah.
Yeah. So we kinda dealt with it at home for a little bit, and I just remember I was, like, pacing. I I did a lot of baby wearing since she was the third, and I was pacing because she was just being so unsettled. Like, she was just tossing and turning in her sleep and just restlessness. Like, she wasn't necessarily crying, and so it was just a couple of nights of that.
Then then the vomiting came, and I remember that it was a Friday night, and I was pacing again, waiting for my husband to kinda come home. And then she threw up everywhere, like, all over our bed, and I was like, great. Now he's gonna come home from a a shift, and I need to make this whole bed so he can get to sleep. And at the time, my parents lived about forty five minutes away. So that morning, I remember I called my mom, and I was just like, I was up all night.
I have so much laundry. She has, like, no clothes left. We have no sheets left. I'm like, it's the birthday party today. That's what I posted about you.
I guess I should also add that into my long winded story. My all my children have similar time frame birthdays, so we were doing a huge family birthday party at my in laws house.
And that was that day?
That was that day, that Saturday. Okay. So I was like, mom, I need you to come out here. At the very least, that way I can go and, like, watch the girls blow out their birthday cake, and you stay with Ainsley since she's so sick. I was like, but I I definitely need help.
And and
I I by the way, I'm dying for that day when my kids admit finally that I'm reasonably helpful to them. That that your mom must have been thrilled, not about the baby being sick and missing the part and everything. She she was probably just like, I knew it. I knew they'd need me again.
Well, my parents were still both still working at the time. They weren't retired, so I was lucky that it was a Saturday. Oh, oh,
I see. I see. So she if you call her the day before, she'd be like, I'm at work.
I can't help you. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Me too.
Okay. So at this point, when you're calling your mom, it's really more functional, though, about the day, right, about the laundry and the preparation and not missing things. You're still not thinking something's really wrong with the baby?
Not not at the exact moment I called her because I called her kinda like a 9AM ish type thing because I was trying to let my husband sleep before he had to be up. And Right. You know, of course, I had three kids at this point under five, so, like, they all were up. So 9AM felt pretty late in the day. Yeah.
I know how you
feel. So yeah. So she started to head out. Like I said, it took between forty five minutes to an hour. At that point, though, she threw up a whole bunch more, and I remember I was like, it's a Saturday.
They close at, like, one, like, whatever their shorter office hours were. So I called back the pediatrician now, and I was like, this is no longer normal. And they said they said, you know what? Honestly, if she's been throwing up that much, we don't think you should come here anymore. Even if it is a stomach bug, you're gonna need IV fluids.
Just go straight to the hospital at this point. Okay. So I waited for my mom to get there and sent my husband and my other two daughters to the birthday party. And I was like, don't worry. She's coming.
It's just fluids. It's just a stomach bug. We'll be in and out. Like, we'll be there for cake type thing. Mhmm.
I love your Jersey approach to everything. You're like, it's gonna be fine. We'll just keep doing it. Everything's terrible, but I won't stop.
Oh, well, actually, we were in New York at the time, and our house was sold. We didn't have a new house, so that just adds a layer.
Oh my gosh.
By the way.
Jeez.
Yeah. So we had, like, half a house packed up into pods.
Shit show. Oh my god. Yeah. That's terrible.
It was, like, everything at once.
Yeah. No kidding.
Yeah. So and I remember driving to the hospital is where I gave birth to all three girls. And my mom was there, and she fell asleep in the car seat. And I was like, maybe we don't have to go. She's sleeping.
She's probably better. Then And I was like, no. It's okay. I'm gonna we're gonna still go. You know?
Yeah. But at least she's no longer crying. She's no longer vomiting, like, whatever. And we get to the emergency room, and it was packed. And because she wasn't crying, there was nothing in her airway.
I told them what I thought it was, and, you know, they kinda were just like, okay. Sit and wait. So I I don't remember how long we waited, but it was a couple of hours. And then when we finally got taken back, that's when it felt like a TV show.
Right.
When they must have done ran her blood sugar and couldn't believe it, and neither could I.
Yeah. I realized they had a baby in, like, serious DK just sitting out in chairs for hours.
Yes. Yep.
Gosh. Did
she pages over the loud system. I remember them being, like, step back and just people flooding the area, then throwing, you know, questions at me. Like, is there anyone in your family that's a diabetic? Do you know what type one is? I was like, well, what like.
Trying to figure out via context. Oh my gosh.
Yeah. And the on call endocrinologist again, because it was a Saturday, was apparently at her child's soccer game. So they kinda were like, this is what we think it is. We think it's diabetes, but doctor so and so is she's she's coming in as soon as possible. She's on her way.
And But her son's the goalie, so we're gonna have to wait a little bit. He's so proud. Yeah. Wow. My gosh.
Did she I mean, I don't wanna I mean, it's been nine years, so I imagine you can handle it. But did she almost die?
I remember them like, again, I was nursing. She was exclusively breastfed at this point still. Mhmm. And I was just like, she hasn't eaten in hours. And I was like I was like, does she need to eat?
Is she okay? And they were just like, we need to save her life first. They were like, do not worry about that. Like and I was like, well, I thought eating needed to be done for living too, but, like, they were they were just like, kinda like, yeah, we need to save her life before anything. And I think she was hooked up to the all the different stuff.
It was over forty eight hours before they let me hold her, touch her, do anything. And they didn't teach me teach me anything about diabetes. I didn't do anything. They were just kinda like, she needs to be off all of this equipment first before you can even know anything about diabetes.
Yeah. Well, they did they those people did a great job saving her. I it sounds like really cool.
They Yes. Wow. We were very very lucky, I guess, that the pediatrician at that point didn't even delay us. Like, I didn't go to a pediatrician to then be sent to the hospital.
Yeah. To add extra time into the steps and everything. Wow my gosh. Woah. Jeez.
That's a lot. Did you was there psychological, like, impact from that afterwards? Did you find yourself, like, nervous or anxious or is there trauma
that you
took from it?
I knew nothing about type one diabetes. So I will say, especially with how young she was, and now I know I was totally wrong, but at the time, you're just like, oh my gosh. Her life is not gonna be normal. She won't be like, how can you go to school? How can we go on vacations?
Like, is she gonna be able to go away to college? Like, just like when you think like, everyone says when they have a kid, they're like, do want a boy or girl? And everyone always says, you just want a healthy baby. Like, that's like, that just, like, made this so much more true. Like, especially even having a kid after her was just like, I don't care.
Just want a healthy baby because, like, it's just so scary to think about the alternatives. And so I just kinda sat in that for, like, two days. Like, I I think I left the bedside once to quickly shower and say hi to my other kids. Yeah. How was
the birthday party?
It looked cute. I saw pictures.
I saw
pictures. Oh my gosh. The family did a great job making them feel loved and special.
Nice. I bet you the party the next year was huge.
We all don't live near each other anymore, and we got to this was the first time there's nine grandchildren spread out across The US, and we met up in the Poconos. And it was the first time they were all together, And there's there's a lot of them that are born in April.
Day hold on. That day was a meetup from around the country?
No. No. That was this more year. Recently. Okay.
Okay. Alright. I was like, I I don't see how that sort of getting worse. Okay. But so since since then, like, you guys have all kinda, like, spread out a little bit.
Yeah. So we we have, like, kinda we try and get together once a once a year if we can. Nice. But our family from Texas was able to join us this year. Oh, very nice.
So yeah. Because I have my daughter is the very end of March, then I have my son is April 2, and my other daughter is April 15. My husband is April 14. My niece is, like, the twenty second. My nephew is the sixth.
My father-in-law is the sixth. I have a sister-in-law that's the seventh. So we literally celebrated, like, 10 birthdays at once this year.
Yeah. I'm gonna move on. I wanna ask you about raising a baby with type one. But first, I I'm so confused and it's meaningless to the story, but I wanna understand. Is this is your son from another marriage for your husband?
Or, like, you talk you you don't when you lump them all together, he's not there usually. I'm trying to figure out what that's about.
Oh, he no. He's the same same family. It's just, like, I guess, because he came after the diagnosis.
Oh, Oh, okay. I see. I see. That's why he's not in the stories. Okay.
Alright. Sorry. I kept thinking, like, does she not like that kid? Because she's really
No. He's he is a funny you would you would find him funny.
Oh, awesome. Okay. Cool. So, I mean, nine years ago, what's it like raising a 10 old with type one diabetes? Like, what when you finally get some knowledge, what does it look like, and and how did it actually work out in reality?
It was so confusing. So, again, I know I said I'm in New Jersey, but at the time, we were in New York for about a month, a month and a half, maybe post diagnosis. So we had when you get diagnosed in the hospital, at least there, I think it's the same everywhere. Usually, whichever on call endocrinologist is there, that's, like, kinda who your doctor is unless you choose to switch. Okay.
A Teaching Hospital & the Cake Advice 33:19
So we had this lovely, I don't even remember her name, female doctor. She seemed great. However, it was a teaching hospital. And whenever I called the on call, I got a lot of young male residents that knew nothing about nursing. So it was very, very hard to call and be like, I just breastfed.
What do I do? Her numbers are this. And they'd be like, well, how much milk? I'm And like, I don't know. I breastfed.
And they're like, what do you mean you don't know? And
Well, it's not it's not clear. I can't see through it. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah. So And they just I felt like they were constantly trying to tell me not to nurse her. And I was like, well, when you're hungry, do you eat? Like Oh, because they didn't
have an answer. They're like, you know what the problem is? It's that milk you're giving her.
Yes. They were trying to very much encourage me to stop nursing. I felt there was a big push, not necessarily from the doctor, but from when I was making these phone calls from people that really didn't have good answers, I guess. Yeah.
Wow. That sucks. My gosh.
And then we also had a horrible, I guess, was the diabetes educator. She was a bad experience too. I'm glad I only had the one appointment with her. Again, this doctor seemed amazing, but I guess just the way this particular hospital system worked, I didn't get much face time with her in the month and a half. Yes.
She The
person who knew were didn't talk to you.
Right.
Yeah. What was the you you not many people called, like, the medical staff horrible. Like, what what happened with that one person that you were happy only to have seen once?
So I will again preface this with that my child was 10 old Yeah. Exclusively breastfed, and we had started baby led weaning, which is basically just like you give your child softer foods, but whole foods like bananas, or if you soften up apple in the microwave, you can mash up, like, sweet potato, avocado, just regular food. We didn't do baby food or the baby cereal. Mhmm. And you just let them kind of explore it and eat it however much they want.
Like, you just kinda put it on their plate, if they eat it, they eat it. If they don't, they don't. So she was getting almost all of her nutrition from breast milk still, and we met with this CDE that told me because I we were having issues where I couldn't give her insulin. Her carb ratio, I believe, was one to 60.
Okay.
So for even a half a unit, that's obviously 30 carbs. My kid was not eating even close to 30 carbs.
Yeah. Yeah.
So she told me I should give my kid cake to try and get to give her enough insulin. And I was just like
She said breastfeed her and then get give her cake to get her up to 30 carbs.
Yeah. She recommended she's like, I don't know. Why don't you just go get, like, some Entenmann's cake or something? And I was just like, no. Wait.
She actually said Entenmann's? Yes.
Is that is that local to us? Is that a thing not everybody would know about?
I I don't know. But I was just like, you you clearly like, no. I'm not giving my kid cake for breakfast just to give her a half a unit of insulin.
You just say, lady, I'm a person who just said self led eating, and you think I'm gonna give my kid a prepackaged cupcake? Is that what you thought was gonna happen?
At least at least it was a soft food. I don't know.
Was she young?
She was, but she had type one herself. But, I mean and I don't judge anyone that wants to eat that. I just I was still learning everything myself.
Right.
And I was just like, I'm trying to feed my kid healthy. Like, no.
You you know, it's probably what she uses for her lows. Maybe that's why she said it. You know what I mean? How do you think she's can you imagine if she's listening right now? She's like, oh, that was me.
Mean, I sure hope she didn't give anybody else that advice. Again, I mean, maybe if it was like, oh, I couldn't reach 30 carbs with dinner, and it was like, okay. You're giving broccoli, then maybe give, like, a little bit of cake to help bump it in there. Like, she was just like, yeah. Like, just, I don't know.
Give give a slice of cake.
The good news here is is that your episode's gonna be called let them eat cake.
Oh, I like that. That's awesome.
My gosh. Okay. Alright. So your biggest problem is that that the the breastfeeding is not getting up to the level that will even be supported by a half unit of insulin. So, I mean, I was in this situation with Arden.
Arden was diagnosed when she was two years old, but she weighed, like, seventeen pounds on diagnosis day 19 when we left the hospital. And I had to teach myself how to inject, like, drops of insulin. So did you end up doing that, or what did you
We did try eyeballing to try and get what we were guesstimating like, well, what I was guesstimating to be even half of the half the unit by but, I mean, anyone that can take a syringe that's listening and look at that, that's very, very miniscule and hard to do. Yeah. In in a drop
is a is a it's a leap. You're doing your I I I don't know if you ever heard me talk about it, but I I once put insulin into a dish, and then I put food coloring into it so that I could see it. Then I drew it up, and then I would just practice pushing on the plunger till a drop came out. Like, so I could do it by eye or or without my eyes. Excuse me.
And so I'd watch. I'd feel the pressure, feel the pressure, feel the pressure. I'd be like, that's a drop right there. And then, of course, I didn't use the insulin with the food coloring in it. That was just for practice.
And then I would I would draw a little bit out of the syringe and then put the needle in and then just try to mimic that, like, one drop coming out thing. That was not fun.
Would have been better advice than cake.
Well, thank you. Yeah. Can you just give her cake? Well, no.
But stop. I guess for every meal just so she can get insulin.
Yeah. Every oh, that's a good point. Right? Every time she breastfeeds, then she gets cake.
Yeah. Yeah.
It's not not a well thought out plan.
No. And so we were she was definitely having, like, ketones as well. She actually went into DKA a second time not long after diagnosis, basically, because of not being able to give enough insulin.
Yeah. My gosh. How long did this all go on for? How long did she breastfeed, and and was this a struggle?
Dosing Drops & Breastfeeding to 13 Months 39:46
I breastfed her until 13 old, so for about another three months after diagnosis. That's when I did also all four of my kids, so that was kinda my goal. And but she did start eating a little bit more after that too. Like
With with the the choosing from, like, avocado and apple, and you kept giving it did you keep giving it to her hoping like, oh my gosh. Maybe she'll eat this and we can stop with the breastfeeding, or you really wanted to get to that thirteen months?
I felt like because breastfeeding is more than just like nourishment. It's also, like, a a comfort thing too. And I felt like with all these injections and all this stuff, like, I didn't wanna make, like, another change
Mhmm.
In that sense. Like, I kinda felt like that's, like, a bonding thing that is also a comfort thing. I really didn't wanna just be like, oh, because I can't dose for it, we're gonna drop this.
Yeah.
So I did want it to be more because it felt like that's just where our time had come to.
Are you working at that point or no? Are you a stay at home mom? Or how what's your
I was a stay at home mom. Yeah.
Was gonna say, I don't know how you would keep a job during all that.
No. Yeah.
Jeez. So then as she gets bigger, I guess the the insulin gets easier. But nine years ago, did she have a CGM, or are you just using a meter?
We did get a CGM, not at the hospital like I hear some people are fortunate to get. We got it right before moving, so I think it was actually the week of her first birthday, so about two months after diagnosis.
Okay. And, obviously helpful?
Yes. Oh my gosh. Yes.
Which is a does it did it make you immediately I I know when Arden put one on, as soon as I could see it, I thought, oh, how what was happening before? Like, it almost made you feel like don't think about that. Like, don't think about what might have been happening before.
I think I was finger pricking so much because I was so neurotic
Yeah.
That I and I don't think her numbers were ever really low. I have to be honest.
Because she just didn't have enough insulin to make that happen.
Yeah. Yeah. I don't even remember what her basal was. I do remember that we did leave the hospital with the two types of insulin, so I know she was on basal. I can't imagine it was much, though.
I remember a time when Arden's basal was one unit a day.
It probably was something like that. I would've
That gee. That that's freaking me out a little bit. Now it's one unit an hour.
Oh my gosh. She still has pretty low basal needs.
Nice. Do you think she has any, like, function left? Do you do you ever see, like did you see honeymoon or anything during that time, or would that even be a thing you'd know to look for?
I mean, I feel like I've from, like, being in your Facebook groups and listening to your podcast, I feel like I've seen people say they've had to completely go off insulin or they, you know, just needed long acting or just needed short acting based off of different scenarios. She's she's always she's been insulin dependent since that day. We've never had to back off Okay. Anything. Yeah.
So I don't I don't recall really a honeymoon phase.
What was I'm gonna speed up a little bit because I'm interested in, because you've seen it through all the different, like, iterations, right, and and age groups. So what were there times that felt harder, times that felt easier? Did you have to use day care? Did you have to like, what was it like sending her off to kindergarten? Can you walk me through the, you know, the timeline of her life?
Staying Home, Starting School & a Celiac Diagnosis 43:21
Yeah. So I actually we moved right after not long after. She was one. So I decided to continue to stay at home because of the move and her diagnosis. I was I I'd worked for New York City Board of Education as a school psychologist prior to my children and still had all my certifications and everything.
And when we moved between state lines, I never even, like, looked into how I needed to change over all my stuff. Okay. So I just have continued to stay at home because we couldn't really see a life otherwise either. Mhmm. When she was about to when she would have been old enough to go to pre k three, I did discuss it with her endocrine.
I said, do you think it would be more beneficial for her to start to get used to someone else caring for her other than me, or do you care if I keep her home? Because I really wanna keep her home another year. But I I really love our new doctor here in New Jersey, so I very much trust her opinion. And she said that she felt, you know, just doing pre k four and then kindergarten would be fine. We didn't need to push it for three.
Mhmm. And also at this point, had just been diagnosed with celiac at three. So I was also even a little more nervous to send her to school with now two things a nurse would kind of have to deal with. Right. So she did not go at three.
At four, it was pretty nerve wracking. It was September 2020, so they were going to school in masks. Oh, jeez. But luckily, the the primary school is very close to my house. Like, if if for any reason my car broke down, I could literally run there.
Okay. Okay.
So I and it was only two hours and twenty minutes a day, and there is a nurse in the building. So it was a a best case scenario for a very nervous mom like me.
Yeah. Hey. What are the, lead up symptoms to the celiac diagnosis? What did you notice first?
We were having severe difficulty potty training, and not for lack of her wanting to because she actually could not go. She was so constipated Mhmm. And could not it took her hours. And so you can't force a three year old to sit on a toilet for hours.
Yeah. Nor would you want to.
Oh, right. Yeah. So she just she could not potty train because she just it was a struggle. So that was one of the first symptoms I noticed, and it eventually got to I started backing off insulin. At first, I thought it was just a carb ratio change, and so we made her carb ratio weaker.
And I I kept like, I think I changed the insulin to carb sensitivity. We changed basal rates because at the time she was on dash. There wasn't automated back then. So I just kept changing things. At one point, I remember it was summer.
It was July. We were at the beach, and I just had to keep feeding her watermelon all day. And her pump had been, like, suspended. And I called the doctor the next day. I'm like, as much as I would love to say my kid is no longer type one, this is kinda weird.
She doesn't need insulin anymore. Yeah. And we had been watching. They told me they felt that it was not if, but when she becomes celiac because she did test positive for all the markers and everything Okay. At diagnosis.
So I was kinda like, I think we need to come in, but it had been all that COVID stuff, and they kind of were pushing me off. And then finally, when when that happened, when we were, like, no longer giving insulin for much and having these other issues, they said come into the hospital, and we'll do some blood work and all that. So
Living With Celiac (and a Paris Mishap) 47:21
How have you learned to manage celiac? Like, is it a is it how you cook, or is it what you buy? Like, what what you know, some people buy a lot of prepackaged stuff that's, you know, that's supportive, and some people will do their own cooking. What have you ended up doing?
We mostly cook at home. She she's a very great eater out of all four of my kids. She's the healthiest and easiest. So she does a lot of, like, just, like, kinda natural whole foods. Mhmm.
But she's still a kid, and she goes to school. I mean, she eats a sandwich every day just on gluten free bread. Sometimes she likes Lunchables, and I make them with the gluten free, like, Ritz looking crackers. And now there's so many cool products out there that makes her like, her friends were so excited when gluten free Cheez Its came out because now she can have Cheez Its like them. Oh, that's sweet.
Her friends are really, really awesome and supportive because they've only known her to have both type one and celiac. So whenever they have a party or she has a party or just to get together, like, everyone always brings, like, the gluten free Oreos now that they're so easy to find or the gluten free Chips Ahoy. So everyone's really great, and it's really easy. When we're at home, we actually she actually got cross contaminated. We were just on vacation, and she got pretty sick while away.
So that was unfortunate. But at home, we really manage pretty easily. It just takes the spontaneity out of your life. Yeah. Because if you don't have food on you, you kinda can't just go anywhere.
Right. Right. What what is what is getting sick look like?
She was vomiting all night.
Oh, gosh. And and it's just it's a thing you tell people and they just they get is it, like, cross contaminated, like somebody's not paying attention or they bring you something they shouldn't have? Do you have any idea even what happened?
We do. So we were in Paris, and we had these translation cards. And you kind of, at that point, have to know you're taking a risk and hope for the best. I had done some research. There's, like, celiac travel Facebook groups and stuff, and we had the names of some places.
But we were with a big group of family, and they all didn't wanna eat at a 100% gluten free restaurants every single time. And I had went to this one place that was near the Airbnb the night before and brought the card and asked them. And I was like, hey. Like, if we come in here tomorrow and they were like, yeah. Yeah.
We we're going for crepes, and buckwheat crepes are made with buckwheat, which even though it has the word wheat is actually gluten free. Mhmm. And so I talked to the guy and I was like, okay. Great. Thought I had done, like, my due diligence, and we went the next night.
But I guess even though the card had said, like, it needs to be used separate utensils and separate cooking materials, that's the only thing we can presume is that they must have used shared cooking preparation space or, you know, touched or something Mhmm. Because hers definitely did look different. You could tell we were there for six days. We had bunch of crepes in other places where she didn't get sick. The buckwheat crepes has, a darker flour, so you could tell the difference by looking at it.
I see. So we know she did have a gluten free one. So I think it was just
It was contaminated. Yeah. Yeah. My gosh. That sucks.
I'm sorry. I'm it really just it is a lot. Like, you have a really good attitude. Like, is it are you high? What's going on?
Are you on pills? Why are you so happy?
I I think there's days where you can beat down. I guess I'm I'm on a day where I'm not beat down because she is definitely thriving as a whole.
Yeah. And so she's got supportive friends. You figured out her eating. You figured out the diabetes is the next piece. So how long was she on MDI?
Pumps, a Move & Diluted Insulin 51:24
When did she start I mean, I assume she uses a pump now?
She does. We are on Omnipod five now, which is technically our third pump if you count Dash as a separate pump. She used a Medtronic at first. When we moved to New Jersey, that was the second time she went into DKA, was during our move. I could smell the ketones on her breath.
We were in we were in between the houses, like, had closed in New York, moved. We were staying in my sister in law's house overnight because we were gonna close on the house the next day. Mhmm. And I could smell her breath, and we had the Dexcom at that point so I could see her numbers. And I called the the on call New York doctor, and I was like, these are her ketones, and, you know, I'm so scared.
Like, she's her breath smells just like when we brought her into the hospital, and they were basically like, you're over state lines insurance. We can't help you. Like, if you're nervous, you have to go to a hospital.
You're over state lines?
Yeah. I guess because they couldn't bill it, and they couldn't give medical advice over phone, and because they couldn't see us, and they were kinda like, you have to go to somewhere in New Jersey.
Okay. And then what'd you do?
Well, I was just like, okay. I'm just gonna push more insulin overnight. We went and closed on the house, and then I went straight to the hospital from there. What
is wrong with everybody? And
she was in DKA. Oh
my gosh.
But it was the most like, not that I'm glad she went into DK, but it was kind of like one of those blessings in disguise because we couldn't get an appointment, you know, obviously, immediately. Usually, there's a wait list and stuff for doctors. This was Memorial Day weekend of May, obviously. I think we had an appointment for, like, the end of June, and the doctor we had an appointment with wound up being the oncoendocrinologist. So we got to see her right away upon moving, and she's, like I said, fabulous, and I very much value her opinion.
And so once we saw her in the hospital, I explained what was going on, why, basically, I felt we were in DKA again, and that's because I couldn't give insulin. And oh, and also the New York would not give us diluted insulin because that was something I had read about on Facebook groups and stuff, and they just would not support diluted insulin, the New York practice.
They wouldn't or they didn't know how to? Do you ever get a feeling for what that was about?
No. I don't remember why. I just know that was not we were not given that option despite me definitely knowing about it.
Yeah. And and you and you pressed a little bit, they're like, we don't do that.
Yeah. And then so she was like, okay. No. No. This is all wrong.
She's like, we are getting you on a pump right away. But for now and the hospital had a pharmacy like, the hospital pharmacy, and that was it. She got us on diluted insulin that second in the hospital and wrote up all new carb ratios and taught me how to change everything based off of using the diluted insulin. That way, essentially, you could then drop what looked like a unit, but it really wasn't a unit.
Because No. No. I know. Yeah. I I I I know what it is, and I just I actually just interviewed somebody who used it really successfully, you know, when their child was younger.
It's weird for them not to know it was an it was a pediatric endocrine office? Yes. Oh, okay. Alright. I don't know what to say.
That that that sucks because that would have really been helpful for you.
Yes.
Yeah. Yeah. You're like, yeah. I know. Thanks.
Yes. Oh
my gosh. Has anything gone right in the last ten years?
Absolutely. Of course.
Tell me about it a little bit.
I mean, just in terms of going right, yes. The her three siblings, they all have tested negative for all antibodies. We've done trial on that on all three of them. Her two older siblings have neither of the genes for celiac that they tested for, And her younger brother does have one out of the two, but he does not show symptoms yet. But he does get tested every other year Mhmm.
Unless we see symptoms. So so far, he does not have celiac.
Okay. Well, that's good news. Yeah. Seriously. How would you characterize the diabetes as far as impact on your life?
Celiac vs. Diabetes, School & Devices 55:54
Like, is celiac more of a day to day impact than diabetes? Vice versa, is it not fair to compare them to each other?
I feel like diabetes takes so much more thought in terms of, like, making the decisions. For example, we just it's her first year taking state testing, So it was, like, you know, planning for that. You don't necessarily want her to be too high or too low. I don't wanna disrupt the other kids that are taking the test with her alarms going off.
A lot of a lot more planning?
Yeah. Definitely a lot more planning and a lot more, like, trying to predict the future. Yeah. She dances on Fridays. She goes from four until 07:45 at night with no breaks.
So, like, you have like, we figured it out, but that takes a lot of planning that other kids don't have to think about.
Yeah. Is it impactful on her? Do you see does it drag her down?
I think sometimes. I know that last year was harder. She hated going to the nurse all the time. And this year, we she is treating Lowe's in the classroom, and her friends have actually taken up to they have a schedule. It's written in her folder because I guess they were, like, fighting over who got to walk her to the nurse.
They were
they were fighting over
who got to get out of class.
Yeah. Yeah. So the tea the teacher had to make up, like, a little schedule. So I don't think she's as down and out about it as much anymore because I get like, not that it's cool, but, like, it's it's not, like, a burden, I guess, because she's not, like, going to the nurse by herself and missing out on something. There was a year where she, like, was missing art because she had to leave for the pre bolus for lunch during art, and that was, like, her favorite.
And I I spoke to the school, and we worked it out. They're they're pretty flexible and accommodating when when within reason, of course. But they they've definitely been good partners in this.
Out outside of her friend group, is she okay with people seeing her devices and knowing, or does she is she more private? How does she handle?
She rocks them. Yeah. She doesn't mind they're usually on her arms, so they're pretty visible except for winter. But, you know, springtime, fall with short sleeves, they're almost always one on each arm.
Okay. There's nothing that she she feels self conscious about then?
No. She used to about her stomach because we actually so celiac is diagnosed on a Marsh score, and she was I think it's, like, Marsh score three c, like, is, like, basically one of the worst, like, where the villi is the most blunted. And because I I mentioned her symptom was constipation, we couldn't use her stomach. And when we did, it would get, like, infected because, I guess, the pressure of her stomach being so bloated and and full pushing on the cannula.
How about that?
So she has, like, some scarring and, like, it it was just always very painful on her stomach. So she's a little self conscious about her stomach. Mhmm. But it's gotten better now that that's all been resolved. But it took a a pretty long time for her GI tract to get back to normal.
Gotcha. Wow. Gosh. That's it it I does your husband help with any of this, or is he hiding somewhere? Or how do you manage the the day to day stuff?
Is it just
He it's fantastic if if I'm, like, gone for the weekend or or anything. He's really good at it, but I generally, because I stay at home, take the majority of the reins.
Yeah. I did. I mean, that's what we did too. I found that well, Kelly and I both found that you try to pass it back and forth all the time. You almost spend more time explaining it, the handoff, to the to the other person.
It just feels like you know what I mean? Like, it's you're like, well, this is what happened today, and so far, this will happen. You know, she was low here, and it feels like she might be more sensitive today and blah blah blah blah blah. And then by the you you try to give that over to somebody, and they're like, ah, I don't I can't it's it's I know that
He's a little more impatient with the highs. He'll he he's he likes to try and crush and catch more. Yeah. He's a little more bolder than I would be sometimes because he just, like, he's just, ah, and just, like, rage boluses.
Does it work for him?
I mean, usually. Yeah.
Then what what what makes you nervous about it, though?
I don't know. I mean, I I think I think I'm more, like, trial and error person. I'll be like, okay. Let's try one unit. Oh, that wasn't enough.
Next time, I'll try one and a half. And he'll just be like, whatever. Two units. Like, he just, like, picks a random number, and it was just like, she could just drink juice if it's wrong.
Oh, look at him after my own heart. Yeah. Yeah. No. I I spent some time the other day looking at a blood sugar, and I was like, this is not gonna do it.
Like, you know, like, these little numbers are just never gonna move this. We're gonna do this all day if we if we keep hitting it, like, lightly like this. I yeah. Well, listen. Does he doesn't listen to the podcast, so that's something he came up with it on his own.
He does not. I did make him listen. Which episode was it? Oh, the one with Katie Beth. Oh.
Was like, you have to listen to this.
Oh, oh, yeah. She was
interested making to that one.
But he yeah. Did what was what's the takeaway for you when you listened to her? I know it's the pivot. Anyway, Katie Bethanne, she is one of the people that went through the Chicago, Isla transplant blah blah blah. She's not using insulin anymore.
What what what did you think when you listened to it?
A Cure in Her Lifetime? 1:01:25
I think this is the first time I've heard something that sounds like there's a potential for a a cure in her lifetime. Like, I'm not thinking five years or even ten, but she's still so young. I think that this has the potential to, at some point, change her life. So I, like, literally I'm actually even already tearing up just saying that. Like, I it's the first time I felt like this there's an end in sight.
It felt hopeful Yeah. Unlike other stuff that you've heard about.
Right. They they've had, like, potential, but not the same kind of potential where it's like, okay. Cool. That's a that's a nice little step up on the ladder. But this feels like it's a huge leap.
And and yeah. So you're that excited by it, but you're still able to be realistic about it because it's not I mean, they did handpick those 12 people. So you you know what I mean? Like, it's not exactly like it's not like anybody could have just walked up and had it happen. They they they picked very specific people who whose health was in a very specific situation, and they're gonna I mean, his plan is to continue to expand it.
The doctor, you know did you ever listen to the doctor when he came on?
I did. Yes.
Okay. Good. Good. Good. Well, that's really I'm I'm and what was your husband's takeaway then?
He was pretty hopeful too. I I don't know that he, like, was as hopeful as me, but, I mean, he thought it sounded cool.
Yeah. No. No. I'd since I I was wondering because it sounds like his he's got, like, a slightly different vibe than yours. I was wondering what his takeaway was.
Yeah. I I I listen. I agree. I think it's I think it's super interesting and really hopeful and definitely something that that I I hope continues on. But I don't know, like, you know, what the outcome will be as far as time goes even if they perfected it to, you know, where it was just like, hey.
Anybody who has type one diabetes? Come on over. You know, don't I wonder how long that would take. If if Yeah.
I mean, the fights with insurance sometimes are ridiculous now. So I can't I can't imagine what it's going to take for it to just get to where it's something that anybody on insurance can do.
Yeah.
That's why I feel more, like, in her lifetime maybe, in, like, fifty years.
Yeah. No. I hear you. I think it's that's more than reasonable. Episode seventeen eighty seven is called Cured Patient nine Speaks if anybody's interested in hearing Katie Beth on the show.
And I hope I hope I can have her back at some point to see how it's going for in a year or so.
I she 's doing great in terms of media. I I don't wanna say promoting because it's not, like, something she's promoting in terms of getting money for or anything, but just getting the awareness out there.
Yeah. No. No. No. No.
She's she's hustling. She really is.
Yeah. It's super it's She wants the world to know.
Yeah. Yeah. It's awesome. Really is cool. Alright.
Is there anything that we haven't talked about that we should have? I know this was a little weird because an hour and five minutes ago, you didn't think you were doing this. So were you did you stop being nervous, I guess, is also a question?
I think so. Do I sound like it?
I thought you were fine. Yeah. I didn't I didn't notice you being nervous. I thought you were a really good storyteller. I like I like how when you jump on, you're like, I'm not gonna know stuff like details.
Well, I feel like sometimes, like, you've asked, like, what was the a one c at diagnosis or the CPAP? Like, some people know those, like, numbers. I definitely I think I was in such a fog.
Oh, please. I don't know any of that. I listen. Pressure me right now on what day Arden was diagnosed? I have no idea.
It was in August. It's the best I can tell you. So I don't know that kind of stuff either. I just asked the question. Sometimes people know the answers and sometimes people don't.
You know? But it's it's a it's very nice of you to jump on. I do wanna know, management wise, how involved are you still in, you know, counting carbs, coming up with bolusing strategies, that kind of stuff?
I I pretty much do all of it. She doesn't eat school lunch, because celiac. So she eats breakfast at home. She kind of has mostly the same breakfast every day. Like I said, she's easy in that sense.
Like, my other kids are definitely not like that, so I definitely understand when people post like, oh, my kid would never. I get it. But she'll eat, like, eggs and fruit every morning. And she'll and if it's a fruit that's a higher glycemic, like an apple or banana, she will I'll be like peanut butter. She's like, yeah.
So, like, it helps, and she'll eat the eggs first, which, again, promoting one of your your podcast episodes, Glucose Goddess, about order of food eating. Like, she will listen to me and follow that. She'll drink water when waking up most of the time, which is also another one of her tips. So she does what she needs to do because she doesn't really know any other way either because I've been kind of prompting it since she's you know, before she could even talk or walk. I've been like, water first, eggs first, then fruit.
Like, that's just kind of the way she's always eaten. Lunch, I pack it at home. She picks what she wants, but we pack it. She actually really likes using the scale and and writing down the carbs on the post it note herself, and then she brings the post it note with her to the nurse. I think that
it gives her a feeling of being, like, not in control, but, like, you know, gives her agency in the whole thing, like, choosing the order she eats and weighing the foods. Or do you think it really is just that she's so I don't I don't wanna use the word like, but but but it's so ingrained in her that she doesn't have a choice? Or do you think it's like a you know, I'm I'm not sure if I'm being
Yeah. I think it's just kind of her normal routine, but she seems to be at an age where she wants a little more independence. She might pull back. I know there's, like, a lot of kids that don't like managing their diabetes, and I get it. I would be happy to do this for her as long as possible so that she doesn't have that burden.
Independence & the School Rulebook 1:07:21
But for right now, she seemed she she wants to even give herself insulin at school. Mhmm. That's kind of another slightly longer story about independence versus not independence and a roadblock we ran into this year.
With what the school would let you do?
Yeah. So I don't know how long ago if the forms were exactly the same because Arden's, like, twenty one ish. Right? Yeah. So I guess the doctor like, the doctor's forms or orders that that we put in with the school, it's either it's kinda black and white.
It's either independent or dependent. And I had asked and spoken with her endocrine, and I said, hey. Could she be like, when they list what you need to be to be independent, it's like carb count yourself and all these different things. I said, she can do all these except the carb counting. Like, I wouldn't ever want her looking at a class party snack brought in and carb counting it herself.
I don't feel comfortable with that. I was like, but can she give herself insulin? Like, if I'm writing it on a post it note every day and it's saying her, you know, her lunch is 40 carbs, can she input that into the pump herself and and give herself insulin?
Yeah.
Last year, she had a one to one para. And I said you know, and her para, oversee it. Just see it. Like, visually have an adult have eyes on it because the para was not allowed to give insulin. In New Jersey, only a nurse a school nurse can give insulin, so her teacher can't.
And she only can if she's deemed independent. So the para is like, can she just have eyes before she hits the start button and confirm, like, yes, 40 matches the post it note. That's good. We don't have to go down to the nurse. She really wanted to be able to do that.
The doctor felt comfortable writing off on that, and I was like, can we handwrite this in? And the school was like, no. And we kind of they we went back and forth, and they printed me out some stuff from their bylaws or whatever their lawyer is. And they were like, no.
Bylaws. Dummies with their dumb rules.
Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I'm her parent, and her doctor is willing to write this. So I just I'm funny that some superintendent or whoever it was was like, no. Our lawyer says, no.
That's never met my kid. But like I said, that's a longer
It sounds like a lawyer saw that and said no to it.
Yeah. Exactly. But that's never met us. So, yeah, she would like to do it herself. She really wants to be in the classroom doing a lot of this herself, and that is how we do it when she's at other things.
She goes to religion. And last year when they were practicing for communion and doing, you know, checks as the host, like, she gave herself insulin for for her checks. And, you know, she'll just text me or I'll text her, and we do that if she's, you know, at a friend's house or
whatever. Fine everywhere. Right?
It works fine everywhere, but the school won't allow it.
The school won't let you do it. Is there a world where you can just do it? Or or, like I mean, I guess they would know if she didn't come down and, like, do all
this stuff. Yeah. Did try did
you try the argument about her missing all the class time?
I did. I did. That's when we kinda changed things up. That was, like, part of that art story where she was missing art and being sad and I didn't care. Changed things up.
They cared more about what the lawyer said or more about her learning is what I was wondering.
They care more about what the lawyer said.
Yeah. I think so too. My gosh. Well, Aileen, I really appreciate you doing this with me. You really saved me today.
Thank you. First of
was No problem.
Was all amped up to record, and then this person, like, dropped out the last minute. Was like, oh, come on. And and then and then I thought, oh, I'll just I sometimes have a I don't really know how to explain this. I guess somebody would call it, like, impostor syndrome or something like that. Like, I made a post to put up to say, like, hey.
You know, could somebody jump on and record with me? And I really do mean it that way. Like, I I I I honestly, that's how it occurs to me. Like, oh, I hope somebody would be willing to do it. And now I'm looking I just looked up because, you know, I mean, the post is a 127 comments.
And I'm still just wants to talk with you.
Sharing the Show & Keeping It Going 1:11:30
Well, but I'm on but you have no idea what it's like to be in my head. In my head, I'm like, this whole thing's almost over. Like, I my wife is so sick of me saying that. I was like she's like, what are talking about? I'm like, I mean, how long can a podcast about diabetes last?
And she goes, well, it's been twelve years so far. And and she's like, it feels like it'll last as long as you want it to last. And I was like, well, I want it to last a a much longer time. She goes, well, then stop talking about it. I'm like, but it's hard not to feel that.
Like like, I'm stunned that anybody answered me. I know that might sound ridiculous, like, to you, but, like, to me, it it doesn't. Like, I I looked at it, I was like, nobody's gonna answer this. And, you know, it's just really lovely. So now I'm basically setting up the rest of the the year with with the recordings when I get off with you.
I don't think I would have had the the like, to be brave enough to just set up on my own and be like, oh, I'm I'm I have enough to say and, like, let me just email him. I'm not.
You needed the Thelma and Lee's
Lee's were were off the
cliff thing.
Impulse. I was like, okay.
Well, that's that's actually what I was hoping is to grab somebody who because you were terrific, by the way.
Oh, thank you.
Yeah. Yeah. You're absolutely fantastic. And and I'm I'm glad that you did that. I yeah.
I don't know what it is exactly. I just did something I don't think I'm supposed to say, but I just did something with Omnipod. Like, I filmed something with them. And Mentioned
it, but continue.
And and I I I can't be detailed about it. And and, I mean, you'll see it eventually. And and when it got done, I walked away and I thought, oh, I I why? Fuck that up. Like, like, it's exactly how I felt when I turned and walked away.
Was like, that's gonna be an abject disaster. They'll probably cut this from the thing. Like, I they're like, oh my god. They're being so garagatory when I'm walking up. Look at them trying to be polite to me.
They probably think, oh, does he have a head injury? You you know, as as I was walking away. And I really felt that way. Like, I was like, I definitely did not do a good job. And I'll I'm gonna and then I I stopped myself.
I was like, oh my god. This is what everyone does when they come on the podcast. Do you have any idea how many people I stop recording with? And they go, listen. If you don't wanna use that, it's fine.
I'm like then I'm like, no. No. No. I'm like, no. What are you talking about?
And they're like, I mean, that that was terrible. And I'm like, I wonder what's wrong with me is what I thought because I because I got a message from my I don't wanna use people's names, but I got a message from my person, she she's like, oh my god. Your part went so great. Like, like, here's some, like you know, like, we're so excited. And I'm like, oh, okay.
Because I spent the last week thinking, like, oh, I I actually texted her and I said, listen. When you let me down, use kind language. And she was she was like, what are you talking about? I'm like, why? I obviously messed that thing up.
And she goes, we we didn't think that. And I was like, oh, well, in the moment, it was exciting. I was like, but when you stop and look at it, you're gonna realize what and she
You're very charismatic. I'm sure you probably, like, black out and just, like, go about your normal personality, and it's, like, great.
Well well, thank you. And that's kind. But, like so I was at the I was at the dentist office yesterday chatting it up with the the ladies at the front as I do. We a have nice relationship because I'm a person with a number of different crowns, so it's not like I don't know the people at the dentist office. And we were they asked about the trip, and I was explaining that.
I really felt like I messed the whole thing up, you know, etcetera. And and she's like, no. I saw a thing you did online recently, and she was referencing the the three tips for the Omnipod five, like, make the Omnipod five, like, adjustable. And and she's like, that video you did, it popped up on my feed. She's like she's like, you were great in that.
She's like, it's it's very natural. And I'm like and I said, no. No. No. And she pulls it up to stick it in my face.
And as soon as she showed it to me, I went, look at my neck. That's what I said. She's like, what is wrong with you? I'm like, I don't know. My neck looks ridiculous on this.
And she's like, no. Stop it. So
Well, I'm glad you told me I could turn the video off.
Oh my god. Oh, no. Yeah. You would have killed me. If we turned the video on for this, I would have just been, like, the whole time I would have been thinking, I look ridiculous.
But I don't know. I I really, like I sat and thought about it for a while and because we were talking I've really known these women for a really long time. We're friendly. And and she goes, what do you think's wrong? And I said, my best guess is, like, I was fat when I growing up, and I really think I have a hard time seeing myself correctly.
Like, I really do think that's what it's about. Because when they sent me the photo from the thing that I did, I looked at it and I thought, oh, I I I don't look right. And then I I I showed it to my wife, and I was like, hey. Do I look bad in this? And she goes, how so?
Like, she wasn't even tracking what I was asking her. And so I stopped because I don't wanna seem needy because we've been married for thirty years, and I assume she's looking for any reason to get rid of me. And so, like so she was just I I said, okay. I'm like, I don't look like it's but she's like, no. You look fine.
And I went, oh, okay. Great. And and but I don't know. Like, it's just it's whatever it is, it stuck to me. And I'm 54.
I don't think I'm shaking it at this point, but we'll see. Anyway, I didn't think anybody was gonna say yes when I put it on Facebook. I actually have a plan for, like, if I should delete it so I'm not embarrassed after I put it up.
No. I think you have, like, so many episodes. That's also what, like, makes me come back. Like, it depends on my mood. Like, do I feel like I need to, like, change a setting or or retouch up with something?
Usually, I feel pretty confident in that stuff. However, as technology changes, when obviously, when we got the Omnipod five, of course, I was listening to those episodes. Whenever you have, like, that's come on that talks about, you know, their their upcoming stuff or I always listen to that stuff for sure. And then, like, it's just like, oh, do I wanna just listen to someone talking? Do I wanna, like, listen to I always, again, listen to Jenny too because I feel like those are the types of things that I need, like, the information on.
Yeah. But, like, even my son, he's always like, why are we always listening to this?
Oh, tell that kid I said go to hell. I mean, what are we doing right now? I did you tell my bills and kids that have to go to well, one went to college, but I still paying for the other one. I can't tell them to shut up. Alright?
And and subscribe and follow. I you know, it's funny. I've been listening to I've been list they call it a podcast, but it's on YouTube. So I don't know if I'm just old. But if you're videoing yourself, I don't think that's a podcast.
I think that's a YouTube video. I know this is just some antics.
I agree. But
yeah. But so I've been watching these these these interviews this this guy is doing, and he's starting to grow on me a little bit. And I've seen, you know, ten, twenty of them. And in the beginning of everything, he does, an impassioned, like, hey. Listen.
Please subscribe to this. You have no idea how much. And when he does, I go, ugh. Sounds so thirsty. And I know that's a word I shouldn't be using at my age, but he literally sounds he sounds it sounds pathetic to me.
And but I know exactly how he feels because it is the lifeblood of, like, making content and putting it up. Like, if you guys don't subscribe, I'm dead. You you you know what I mean? Like, it'll this will you wait. Do you see how fast this goes away if people don't subscribe, follow, download, listen, like, do those things, share, etcetera?
It it dies really quickly. But when I heard someone else do it, I was like, dirty. And then when I do it, I'm like, no. You don't understand. It's fucking important.
Yeah. I post a lot about, like, for awareness and stuff. I I just tend to be a person that enjoys sharing stuff. But so as a result, though, I get a lot of people sent my way asking, like, hey. I know someone that has type one.
Can I send them your information? I feel like anybody that's been diagnosed within the last nine years, like, within the vicinity of me. Even Ainsley's doctor is like, can I can I send someone your number? Oh, wow. My daughter my oldest daughter, her kindergarten teacher, she pulled me aside one day and goes, so I know someone that was diagnosed.
Can I give them your information? And I just I always I always I love that also in the albums and your Facebook group. It's so easy to find the episode guides. I'm always like, here. Start here.
Yeah. Thank
you. Start there and then if you have questions.
Isabelle fixed Facebook group so that it's easier, and I've just done some stuff with the website. Actually, I put up a a page. It's at juiceboxpodcast.com, and then it's slash clinician-share. And it's literally a website that's just to make it easier for doctors to share printouts and handouts and and links.
Oh, that's that's great.
Yeah. So I'm I'm I made it, and it's funny because after I made it, I thought I maybe I should have just called it share instead of clinician share because as I look at it, I realized that there are more people like you that are sharing the podcast than I'm aware of, and I would like to make it easier for you guys as well. I don't know. I have a very short amount of time to make a decision, but I think I'm gonna keep this one this way. But I think I'm gonna use the format of the page and try to figure out something to put right on the front page of juiceboxpodcast.com so that people can share right from that.
Yeah. Everyone's different learners. I know for me, the Facebook groups were so overwhelming in the beginning Mhmm. Because of the amount of questions and then the amount that you're like, wait. Do I need to know about this?
Why what is this? And just like and then you post a question and then sometimes you have the people that are like, use the sarch fountain.
Well, those people can shut up. They don't realize how they don't realize how important it is for there to be constant conversation.
Again Well, because you can't filter through thousands of things and find it.
Well, not just that, but if you don't if if if a Facebook group is not active, then it dies. Then there's no reason to go to it. Then it doesn't matter what kind of good information's in it because nobody will ever be in it again. The pressure to keep people connected to things when you make stuff like this is probably the worst part of my life. Like, it real it it really is.
It's in it it must be what a a small business owner feels like when they open up an ice cream shop and then everybody in town's tried the ice cream. And they're like, okay. Bye. You have to come back now. Like, you know
what And they all have an opinion too.
Yeah. It it's just it's very it's a it's a difficult thing to keep. Like like, I swear to you, it's not a thing that, I guess, would be easily understood by somebody who's not in my position, but my greatest accomplishment is keeping the podcast going. That it is that is not easy to do. So
I mean, moderating that group has got to be the most difficult one.
That I don't have too much trouble with that anyway. I I've I've let go
I usually just scroll past, but I, like, I laugh at something. I'm like, oh, that's about to be shut down. And I'm not gonna comment that's about to be shut down because I don't wanna be in the drama. Right. But I just see it and I'm like, oh, that's funny.
Yeah. No. And then and then people, like, you know, fascinatingly will, like, judge you for it somewhere or something like, oh, he'll he so I heard saw somebody say recently, like, he bans everybody. And I was like, we've barely banned anybody. Like, there's 84,000 members, I think, as of today.
And the amount the amount of people that have been banned out of that group in years and years and years is a it's a very small number. Like, you know,
I'm like banned accidentally.
Did you you got banned accidentally? How did that
Yes. Yusabel helped get me back in.
Did I really? Oh, I'm glad I did. That's nice.
I I messaged, Yusabel and I was like, I don't think I did anything. And if I did, can you please tell me what rule I broke? I don't understand.
Well well, I the I'm glad you were nice about it because we're just doing our best. And you're trying to like, sometimes people are pushing businesses, and it's just the thing we don't let happen. Like, even if I just today, somebody said, hey. Does can anybody tell me about any good virtual, you know, support systems? Like, they're just asking for, like like, the place Jenny works or something like that.
And this person jumps in and goes, I am blah blah blah, and I have this, and this is my link. And I'm I had to remove it. I'm like, you can't you can't promote yourself. Like, if somebody else thinks you're a great thing, that's awesome. But you can't do it because then the group turns into a billboard, and then that's another way it dies.
Like, you can't we can't just turn it into the yellow pages. And and then some people understand, and then some people get mad, and then they send angry notes, and you're just like, okay. But to your point, it's not easy to run a Facebook group. But it is really valuable, and I find it actually, I find it uplifting to to see all those people in there. But anyway alright.
I'm gonna let you go. You were very kind to do this. Thank you so very much. I really appreciate it. If you hold on one second, I just have to tell you a couple of things.
Sure.
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