#684 Susan's Therapy
Susan is the mother of a child with type 1 diabetes.
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Scott Benner 0:00
Hello friends, and welcome to episode 684 of the Juicebox Podcast.
On today's episode I'm going to be speaking with Susan. She's the mom of two children, one of whom has type one diabetes. Eventually, this conversation turns into a therapy session for Susan. Please remember while you're listening in, that nothing you hear on the Juicebox Podcast should be considered advice, medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making any changes to your health care plan. We're becoming bold with insulin. Those of you who are US residents and have type one diabetes, or are the caregiver of someone with type one. If you go to T one D exchange.org, forward slash juicebox. Join the registry, take the survey, it will take you fewer than 10 minutes. When you do this kind thing. You'll be helping people with type one diabetes. So you get to do something nice and not get off your sofa. It doesn't take much of your time. And it's helping people you care about what a win win win win win kind of a thing is this huh? T one D exchange.org. Forward slash juicebox. Hope you do it
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Susan 2:52
I have air pods.
Scott Benner 2:54
Alright, they sound pretty clear. Using a phone as you're using my phone. You're not holding it though. Put it down. For me. It's down. air pods are a little, sometimes overly sensitive. Just try not to fuss too much or touch things too much or that kind of stuff.
Susan 3:10
Okay. I will stay still for an hour.
Scott Benner 3:14
Now you're getting a Susan, I like that. You You seem to understand how this show works. You don't
Susan 3:19
move I will not. I will not move. I will not I will not breathe. Okay. Only breathe
Scott Benner 3:23
in half breaths and look right. Find a point. Okay. Very small. Yeah, I don't want you to be that conscious of it. Okay, so, because this is how this is starting. Introduce yourself, and then tell me what you said and say it again.
Susan 3:42
Okay, well, Hi. I'm Susan. I'm from New York. I am a mom of two kids. I have an 18 year old son and a 14 year old daughter who is typing. Okay.
Scott Benner 3:55
And we just jumped on the call. Hopefully,
Susan 4:00
after after I fixed my microphone because I didn't couldn't figure that out. Full disclosure.
Scott Benner 4:03
My mom is not feeling well right now. So my life is stretched very thin. I know.
Susan 4:10
I know. She's not. Okay.
Scott Benner 4:12
Thank you. My point in saying that is that I woke up like 15 minutes ago, so that it's not uncommon for me. I am probably not fully functioning yet. I'm hydrating as quickly as I can to get my brain off. So whatever I say in this episode doesn't count.
Susan 4:31
It's all good. It's all good. Meanwhile, I was up at like six I've had my juicebox shirt on I went and I walked that I listened to you. And yeah, okay, that was all good.
Scott Benner 4:41
Okay, well, all right. I'm glad that I could, um, sort of awaken the world. But you said that I like you said this picture. Okay.
Susan 4:48
So Right. So when when you when you log on you have your zoom and your cute little picture there. And I was like, Oh, I love this picture of you. I said you look very pensive,
Scott Benner 4:56
this picture. So now I know what pensive means Even though I didn't go to school for very long, and I didn't know that, so let's break it down together. Well, I'm gonna guess is alright, so I went to Seattle with my son for a week. And I and I got settled in with him. And then he spent another four weeks there baseball training. I stayed with the family who listens to the podcast, which is a story, I remember you saying that. It's so cool, wonderful people that I've told the story before, please, the rest of you do not send me an email. I'm not coming to your house. And so although, let's say this season, one time, with stories join and jump around right away, I got an email recently, from a person who offered me a large sum of money to come live with them for a week and teach them how to do diabetes. Stop it right now, which I turned down. Because I am not a healthcare professional. And that would not be reasonable. And, but it was way more money than you would guess. I can't even imagine. Yes. So. So okay, so you think of a number in your head? Like, how would you please your things?
Susan 6:05
I am horrible at this. I'm so bad at this. My husband is always like, we'll go into a room or to a concert. He'll always say, how many people? Do you think we're here? I'm like, I don't know. 10 500? I have no idea. So I'm really bad at this. So
Scott Benner 6:18
your preface? Did you ruin this part? But go ahead. Just pick a number. Scott. Come to my house live here for a week? I'll give you for a week? Yeah.
Unknown Speaker 6:27
I'll pay you
Scott Benner 6:28
$5,000 $25,000
Susan 6:31
Oh, shut up. Yep.
Scott Benner 6:31
And I said, No, thank you. That's lovely. But mainly, I appreciate your, your, I don't know, hope or whatever. You're right.
Susan 6:43
I do have faith in me.
Scott Benner 6:45
Yeah. That's That's not necessary. I don't take money from people for diabetes stuff. I'm not a doctor. And if you guys I realize you're not a doctor, I said. I said I also don't think that the questions you're asking need a week I could just do so I just jumped on the phone and answer. Questions for them real quickly, did not take their 25,000. Also, by the way, they didn't just randomly send me the 25 Grand. So I don't know how serious they were. But I'm
Susan 7:13
like stuck. Scott, could you imagine though, like if you started doing that, like if you put yourself out there you're like, Listen, I got called come live with you for a week. And I'll fix all your, your diabetes problems. And that could be like your thing you could do like a word like a tribe like a world tour. You could just like travel around, it'd
Scott Benner 7:27
be perfectly honest. It was hard to think about it after he said that number. Like because I thought I could do this four times a year and I'd be like, yeah, we'll just pay whatever my least favorite month is. I'll just, you know, do it that month.
Susan 7:47
Save all your problems for like, July and that's when I'm gonna
Scott Benner 7:51
be late. Kelly listen, I'm gonna I'm gonna jump out of here on June 30. I'll be back July 31. I have 100 kid I'm changing lives. But anyway, that's not the story. So you want to know about the picture? Okay, you
Susan 8:04
know the picture. I love the picture. Very, it's also very I don't know if this angle but you're having like a really big print. But I think that's real desert. Isn't that right though. The big like,
Scott Benner 8:12
the hats got a slightly unbend brim. Which is crazy, because my head is huge. So that's a weird thing. So what you're seeing in that picture? I don't think it's pensive. I was take so first of all these people in Seattle where I was they talk endlessly about this mountain. Okay, sorry, I'm still hydrating. Yeah, Hank, it's Mount Rainier. Oh my god. I Yeah, I've heard of that. Honestly, it might not be Mike. You should.
Susan 8:43
You might want to get that right.
Scott Benner 8:45
Right, because I but you know, you get there. They say oh, wait till the mountain comes out. The mountain comes out. Like first of all, I must be a colloquialism. Because the mountains always out. It's it will wait them out. That's, you know what they mean? Wait till you can see the mountain. Because you see it right. We can overcast but they just keep saying wait till the mountain comes out the mountains right over there. You look, you're like, I don't see a mountain to tell you. Well, one day, the mountain came out. And it's freaking shocking. Susan.
Susan 9:14
She came, she came and she Well, clearly. I mean, I'm
Scott Benner 9:17
telling you right now, like try imagining going out in your backyard. I don't know It's staring at the house behind you. And there's a giant mountain there but you don't see it for four days in a row. And then one day you walk outside. There's a freakin mountain there. It's odd, right?
Susan 9:35
That's, that's crazy. Really. That's the beauty of our country. That's, you know, look at you.
Scott Benner 9:40
Listen, it was insane. So now here's the other thing. I had been living with these people for about a week. They don't drink anything but water in their house. So okay, my face is like as thin as it had been in like two years. So I was like, Holy hell I can get a selfie with myself in this free Can mountain. And then I got the camera up and what you're seeing on my face is me going wow, you can really see my jaw on this
Susan 10:09
I look really good in this picture.
Scott Benner 10:11
I gotta take like 20 of these so that I'm sure one of these comes out. Because if you fantastic so excited. So it's not pensive, it's me holding the phone really still. And trying to hold my face in a way where I think I'll actually because now I'm gonna use this picture for years to come If someone needs to. Yeah, because and you see how like, sort of like, you know, like that spot between the corner of your mouth and your tip of your jaw. Like it sort of goes in like a lady's waist. You see it? You're looking at the picture, right?
Susan 10:41
I totally I'm I'm staring at it. Yes, don't normally do that.
Scott Benner 10:44
So I say in that moment, I was like, Oh, I gotta drink more water. And I must be holding this phone at the exact right place. And it's so
Susan 10:54
perfect. And you're like a teenager, you figured out how to get that perfect selfie.
Scott Benner 10:59
Somebody said, somebody said, Should your son get the picture with you? And I was like, no, no. I don't care. And he was busy. cool about it. Like I said, take a picture with the mountain and send it to mom. And he's like, Oh my God. All right, hold on, you know. So that's the story of that picture. Yes, it is not. It is not pensive. It's just me try not to move the camera because I have a jawline.
Susan 11:24
I got it. No, listen. Regardless, it's a great picture. Thank you. And that's it.
Scott Benner 11:29
Are you amused at how like, I actually could make that take nine minutes and it was entertaining. So
Susan 11:34
I will listen to you long enough. I
Scott Benner 11:35
know you can do I could do an extra 10 minutes on your episode. Okay, so you're the mother of a child with type one. Is that right?
Susan 11:45
I am. Yes.
Scott Benner 11:46
I'm sorry, boy or girl. I sound like you have two of them.
Susan 11:49
I have two children. My oldest son is 18. But my type one child is a 14 year old
Scott Benner 11:55
girl. 14 and 18. Okay, I didn't see him on purpose. Let's just dig in that for half a second. You guys. Oh, please. You guys were fighting. I thought a baby would help. What happened? What's going on there? What do you mean? I guess it's not a bad gap. 14. No, you're fine. Nevermind. Alright, fine. Yeah, I was reaching Susan. Fine. Do you think the people listening right now we're like, oh my god, this lady's from New York and Scott shut out of a cannon. I'm not even gonna have to speed this episode. It's gonna go really quick.
Susan 12:25
I'm actually 100% and I the whole, like 20 minutes before I signed out. I was breathing saying to myself, talk slow.
Scott Benner 12:34
I talk really fast. You're not doing it. But I wonder why we speak so quickly. I don't know. The true though. Yeah, yeah. We hammer through words. I always assume that other people couldn't think of them as quickly. But I don't imagine now that I'm older that that's actually why it happened.
Susan 12:54
Yeah, I don't think so. I don't know.
Scott Benner 12:56
Yeah. Do you think we were not comfortable with ourselves?
Susan 13:01
I just think everybody is in a rush. Yeah, I see. Right?
Scott Benner 13:08
I'm not asking you to say out loud, but you're Italian.
Susan 13:12
By marriage.
Scott Benner 13:14
So those those so you're by marriage. So that side of your family? Is that talking over each other being loud? Is that pretty common?
Susan 13:24
Yes. And no. You know. I grew up in an Italian household as well. My dad was a little bit of Italian. So we were around a lot of Italian family as well. And they were Yeah, they were no. They were a fun group.
Scott Benner 13:39
Yeah. It might just be Yeah. I don't know if it's geographical or what it is. But I if you got me going. I can I can speak so quickly. And still make sense. It's, it's ridiculous. See?
Susan 13:53
See I I will start speaking so quickly and not make sense. That's a problem. That's why I said to myself, slow it down. Is I think my words I just can't keep up with them. Like I'm like, you know, somewhere else. And
Scott Benner 14:08
anyway, and your kids are old enough. They correct you when you say something wrong, right? Oh, sure. Yeah, that's a big fun part of having kids.
Susan 14:16
They will listen to this and they will probably rip it apart.
Scott Benner 14:25
Kelly Kelly's Kelly's at a disadvantage in our house because Arden has my sense of humor. And calling oh she does actually has enough of it. He's just generally quieter. But that kind of like direct like this that my wife has, like my wife's more direct than I am only among like, in general public she's very polite and kind. But so my son can be direct and funny. It's not as funny as Arden and i It's not his fault. And so if my if my wife Miss speaks they'll it So people will say out loud, like, are you having a stroke? That's usually how it starts. And then they just Oh, stop. And she's like, why am I the butt of the joke? Relentless? Your fault? Did you hear what you said? And then it just keeps going, you know, keeps going when they get me on the ropes. I start, like, they think they say I get defensive, but I just start going, like what you're saying is not making any sense. And like, that's not what happened. And then they won't stop. Like, if they see me devolve a little bit, then they push me until, you know, it looks like I'm gonna die. Like, oh, he's on the floor. Keep going, you know, keep going is the guy, you know? Anyway, he's fine. So your your 14 year old, was diagnosed?
Susan 15:45
She was diagnosed when she was 11. And April of 2019. She was in sixth grade.
Scott Benner 15:53
That seems like an unpleasant time to have that. Yeah. Well,
Susan 15:57
yeah, I know. And where we live, sixth grade, was like a graduating year. You know, the next year you go on to middle school. So a lot was happening, you know?
Scott Benner 16:10
Oh, that sucks. Was it unexpected?
Susan 16:14
Well, unexpected in the back that nobody, you know, has no family history. So unexpected. Yes. So to answer your question, yes, it was. But that being said, I know the signs. I knew the signs. And I knew pretty quickly. What was going on? Okay. i Yeah. So I,
Scott Benner 16:40
how did you know she didn't.
Susan 16:42
So my grandfather on my mom's father had type two diabetes. And my mother always, she would always say to me, back up, my next door neighbor growing up. So I was born in 72. So a early 80s, she was diagnosed with type one, which back then was, you know, not as common obviously, as today. So I know my mom and her mom were very good friends. So I'm sure she implanted these thoughts into my mom as well. But my mom always said to me, if you're very thirsty, if you're going to the bathroom a lot, you need to tell me, you need to let me know. So growing up, I always associated those things with diabetes. Didn't really know what diabetes was, but I just associated those things. So that was, those were the first signs of my daughter. That's such
Scott Benner 17:36
a good look into what just the generation that go without the internet, how they thought about things. And like, somebody told your mom like, Oh, this is what happened. Here's how I knew. And she's like, okay, Susan, listen to me up more than four times a day I want to hear about
Susan 17:54
no. And she, she clearly said it to me enough, right. But it stuck with me. And I was so afraid. Again, not knowing anything about diabetes. I just thought if you were a diabetic, you could eat sugar, and I love cookies and cake. So I, I just was so afraid that I was going to get it. And then those were the signs my daughter, and then of course, including the weight loss and the appetite. But she was not admitted. She was not admitted in DKA. So I you know, I feel like, I don't know how long it was, you know, growing but you know, what's that?
Scott Benner 18:35
You feel good about that? You gotta
Susan 18:37
know? Sure. You know, I mean, I remember. You know, we we were shopping it was a Monday it was the day after Easter. And so the kids had no school and we were going shopping for clothes and I remember thinking oh my god, everything is like so big on her. I don't but you know, I don't know. Oh, she's growing you know, you say those things to yourself. Right? And then we went for lunch. And she had like three pieces of pizza. And let me tell you she was probably about 50 pounds very, very small. You know, cute little thing. And and then we were waiting in line to check out from somewhere and she's like, Mom, I just have to go the bathroom.
I'm so thirsty. Like, oh, that was gonna happen. Like grandma said
Scott Benner 19:27
your mom never said anything valuable like hey, if they find a way to shrink down those computers that they sent the rocket to space and make them fatter house buy some stock. Nothing like that happened ever.
Susan 19:37
No, no, no insight into any of that.
Scott Benner 19:41
Anything really, really helpful. That would have been helpful. Don't get a credit card, honey, anything at all? Nothing. Anything. Pick a boy said your father's side of the family was is Italian any chance your mom side is Irish or something like that.
Susan 20:03
My mom's side is a little bit of everything. There's no Irish, but there's German, there's English. I'm a
Scott Benner 20:09
bunch of things. I'm always looking for
Susan 20:12
as my husband. You know, I was just saying my husband's like, half half, like so like, you know, straightforward. I'm just a mishmash.
Scott Benner 20:18
Yeah, I'm always looking for that part of the world for diabetes. Diagnosis is England. Ireland, that hole right Celtic space there. Interesting. Okay, so, tell me a little bit about what happened coming out of the hospital? Um, three years ago? I mean, you left with
Susan 20:42
so yeah, so maybe something. Okay. We Yeah, first of all,
I love you know, I love our doctors, I love our hospital.
Scott Benner 20:51
Susan, hold on. I love it when people preface their statements with that, because you're about to say something horrible about your doctor.
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Susan 25:13
Great experience, you know, but now, you know, now that looking back and hearing all the people that have been on your podcast, our experience was pretty, you know, normal, I guess. They, you know, the the training two days, like ours, you know, I remember my sister, I have a sister who's 10 years younger than me. And she was so sweet. She said she works in the schools. So she was off that week, because it was a break. And she's like, I'm going to come in, I'm going to come I want to listen to everything. I'm going to learn the if someone else I was like, so thankful for that. So she came and she sat with us and listened. But um, but yeah, so we left with, with pens with pens.
Scott Benner 25:53
Okay. Yeah, no, no sense of CGM or anything like that. Nothing like that was talked about. I didn't even know what that was never heard of it. No. Do you have one now? Oh, yes. All right. How long did it take you to get that? And what
Susan 26:09
she was, she was diagnosed in April. And at the next. I'm sure I saw the doctor pretty soon after that. And then probably the next visit, which maybe was like May, May, June, maybe. I remember going to the doctor when I was showing her. My logs of her blood sugar. And Scott, I would. I was crazy. I would test her like, every two hours through the night. I was testing her like, she was like a pin cushion, you know? And the doctor looked at me and she was like, What are you doing? I said, I'm testing my blood sugar. I'm making sure she's okay. And she's like, Oh, no, she goes, we get we get we got to help you out here. So that's when she was like, we're getting you the Dexcom. And I was like, what is that? So yeah, so she got it pretty soon after I'm gonna say June, she got the Dexcom. What was
Scott Benner 26:59
the impetus for the frequent testing? What were you? Which voice in your head? Were you calming down with that?
Susan 27:07
The one that was saying like, I was just so anxious and so nervous. And so you know, I'm a very anxious person. Yeah, I've. Yeah. So that's that was it?
Scott Benner 27:22
Were you thinking she was going to get low? Or that she was getting high? Or? Or did it make you anxious? Just to not know what the number was at all?
Susan 27:30
It's a really good question. And I don't think I've ever thought of that. But looking back, probably just the not knowing what she was. And, you know, it's just funny Scott, as I, I pulled out these papers, in preparation for this just kind of like, look back. And I still have all the papers of all the blood sugars, and I highlighted the ones that were low. If I tell you how many 80s 77 were highlighted, like back then I thought that was low. So you know, I
Scott Benner 28:00
thought that was a problem. Well, you feeding now seven lady?
Susan 28:03
Oh my gosh. Yes. You know, it's it's, yeah. Because I was told to. I was told below, think it was below 90 At that time, you would correct. Wait 15 minutes, and then give a 15 gram, which Holy crap, if I did that now. Forget it.
Scott Benner 28:24
Well, 15 grams, that 90 would probably make her like 180. Right.
Susan 28:28
I know. Yeah. It's crazy, right?
Scott Benner 28:32
Well, at least she wasn't low. Better high, though.
Susan 28:36
I know. Right?
Scott Benner 28:37
Yeah. Let's kill her tomorrow. Not today, then. Exactly. What a plan.
Susan 28:45
Great plan. Good plan.
Scott Benner 28:47
I'm so fascinated. You know, I don't think I've gone down this road on the podcast. And well, I find it fascinating that that could be the answer. Just the I don't do you know, I'm saying like, we're gonna, every day we crossed the road with our eyes closed. Instead of doing it, we just won't cross the road today. We'll do it tomorrow, right? And then tomorrow, and tomorrow, we'll get there gonna and maybe the next day, maybe the next day. But on the other side of the road is our life that we can't get to. Yeah, no, no, can't avoid that. Yeah, let's just not instead of living will stand here and in stasis, not really do anything. We'll just eating snacks every time our blood sugar gets the 90. And one day in our 30s we can start you know, working on those on those horrible things that have happened to us it's a really an odd, an odd fix. You ever
Susan 29:45
it really is because now obviously her management is million times better and I go in and the doctors you know, she's like, I love her. She's like, you don't need my help. You know you're doing And, you know, which makes me feel good. I don't always agree with her. But if if I if she thinks everything's so great and she sees her numbers, then why is why are the other thing? What? I don't know? Is it because she was so newly diagnosed? And there? You don't want to? I don't know. Just why was that acceptable? Right? I don't know.
Scott Benner 30:20
Alright, so pulling back the curtain, bigger picture, I get it. Like I get them not wanting to Yeah, have your kid have a seizure? Right, like, right? Below budget. But, but why not explain it so that maybe you might use for carbs instead of 15? Right,
Susan 30:39
right. It's the rules are so there's like, so set in stone these rules? And I Oh, my gosh, you tell me a rule. I mean, I'm gonna follow it. I'm a true rule follower. So I'm not going to deviate. Right? So yeah, you're
Scott Benner 30:56
not gonna, it's going to be 15 carbs. And then you get caught in that weirdness of and now all of a sudden, your kid might as well have diabetes in 1985. Again, because because we're not taking advantage of any of the advancements or new understandings. We're just we're back to eat these 15 carbs. How many times have you given your kid food they didn't want? And then you look back and think, Oh, God, she didn't even need this.
Susan 31:19
She may need it. Right, right. I know. Oh, my gosh, do you think
Scott Benner 31:23
that's okay, how long did it take you to figure it out? That it was not the way that
Susan 31:29
longer longer than I'm proud to say? I don't know. Her diagnosis was, was very hard on obviously hard on everybody. It was hard on me. As a mom, I, you know, I went through a lot with that. So I just was trying to keep her sounds very dramatic, trying to keep her alive. Just trying to keep her you know, functioning. And, you know, and doing the things she loved to do like that summer, she went to camp. Oh, my gosh, that was crazy. You know, and she's doing all. And then Nerissa camp was said to me, we like to keep them no lower than 150. I was like, that's why it's like, you know, she's like, we they're always running and they're doing this. And I just at that time, I said, Okay, if that's your role, okay. You know, so I don't know. And then then she started middle middle school, middle school was very rough. Start with her diabetes.
Scott Benner 32:37
It will be fun for her before you tell me about middle school. You just said a bunch of big things and then skipped right over. I'm like, we weren't gonna talk about them so well, that I do that. Sorry. Sorry. Her diagnosis was really hard on you. How?
Susan 32:50
Yeah, I cried a lot. I, I couldn't. I couldn't look at pictures of her. Prior to that. I I, my husband and I were, you know, we're a great team, great team. At that time, I'm sure I was really difficult to live with. Because I he was helping, but I would say he wasn't, you know, or it was hard. And then I had, you know, I had a son. And at the time, he was in high school, and he was playing baseball. And I said, I have to get to all of his games. I can't make him feel any, you know, less loved or less, you know, less attention. That was hard.
Scott Benner 33:48
Did you ever? Did you ever use your son's activities as an excuse to get away from diabetes? not consciously, but like, I have to go to this baseball game now. So you're right. I'll live here with diabetes while I go.
Susan 34:01
Good question. I'm gonna say no, because she always came with me. So that was another thing too. I feel like, you know, I didn't want to go anywhere. Without her. I didn't want to leave her. I didn't want to. And I like she's a bit She's. She's a competitive dancer. So I would, I was that in a soccer player. I was back to sitting at practices for two hours or sitting at her rehearsals in the car when I used to just drop her off. So I felt very, I felt like my life was never going to get back to normal, I guess. Maybe Can I
Scott Benner 34:33
ask you? In those times you were sitting outside of things? How often did you have to spring into action and do something? Like what partly ever Yeah. How come you
Susan 34:43
isn't that funny? Like looking back? Hardly ever. I
Scott Benner 34:46
knew that was gonna be your answer as my mascot is right? You know, it's the drama part is you said, you said like this is going to sound dramatic and you made me think of every once in a while. I'll see somebody be online say, I saved my daughter's life with a cookie or something like that. And I'm like, right, right. Right. Right. Do you mean that? Are you just trying to like, right, make the point, right. Like, I hope you're just trying to make the point that the carbs, yes. I wonder where this is that you know what I mean? And not to say that there haven't been times that people's blood sugars are falling, you know, and they're really, and you really are maybe saving their life. But how many? How many people are saying that when their kids blood sugar's 90 Because of the direction they were given by their doctor? Like, how many people is blood sugar's not falling reaches 90. And they're like, I just saved my daughter's life with an Oreo cookie. Like, actually, you just wish their blood sugar back up again.
Susan 35:40
But I actually actually might have pushed it back up, but okay,
Scott Benner 35:43
we'll go in that could be an opposite thing of what you're saying here. I'm not certain, you know, that drama is so real. I'm gonna be honest with you. I, you know, I know what you're talking about. I would say,
Susan 35:55
you know, when you asked me that, when you asked me that, like, how many times I had to jump in and help her. I never thought about that. And honestly, I Yeah.
Scott Benner 36:09
At what point you could have been like, hey, you know, I keep staying here because I think you're gonna die, but you're not dying. So. Oh, I guess I'll just go home, get out of this car and do something else. Yeah, is it at
Susan 36:21
least obviously.
It's comfortable. But listen, obviously, I did get to that point. And you know, and I leave her she she sleeps over she you know, I we're obviously in a great spot now with a lot of that, but so that was part of it, too, was hard. And then, like, I I would just anytime she was very high. was more the highs, I would just, I would just play myself. And what did I do wrong? And I can't hear the beeping anymore. I'm going to go crazy. And you know that kind of stuff
Scott Benner 36:59
overnight. Yeah, you couldn't hear the CGM anymore?
Susan 37:04
Well, not that I couldn't hear it. I did hear it. And I wanted to throw it out the window. You know, it just this. It was, was driving me crazy. And I didn't know how to fix it. I really didn't. And so let's and then you came along.
Scott Benner 37:19
Let's not get to where the Messiah comes just yet. Let's talk about the rest of it. God, I hope people No, I'm kidding about that. That's not the point. Here we go. No, I don't know. Some of them don't beep. So you're getting to a point where you're getting an alarm? And you're resentful of it?
Susan 37:36
Oh, my gosh, that wasn't percent. Yes. Because I would look at and be like, be like, shut up. What do you do?
Scott Benner 37:45
Well, you're, you're my age. And yes, you're like just a year younger than I am. And I, you know, I couldn't keep going forever the way I was going. Like, like, it was like the sleep part is really detrimental in a way that you don't imagine it's going to be at first at first you almost think you're doing it. You're like, all right. Other people need sleep apparently not me. I'm must have a special constitution. And then you start snapping at people and being not yourself. And you're working at a percentage less than what you usually are in your mind. And then you're laying there one day, you're like, I can't get up and that thing, and you were like, what, like, I'm gonna burn law, just lock all the doors on Windows and set the house on fire. Like how?
Susan 38:35
Maybe No, yeah, it was it for me. It was like, I just can't cry all day. I can't, like I can't do this anymore. Because I would I would be crying just because I was tired. Like, you know, like, I've got to stop. I gotta stop. Yeah. And I would definitely seek advice from our diabetes educator at my doctor, and they definitely did hell, but just know, nobody explains it the way you do? I don't. I don't understand. I don't understand.
Scott Benner 39:11
I don't know. Well, I mean, we've had enough conversations on the show with doctors and they don't talk about why they think that it doesn't happen. And you know, I've had people on, and I've never pushed them. And I think that in the course of the conversation, you can hear that they don't understand it well enough to explain it. Or that right. Sometimes they're caught in this like, the cycle of right. Yeah, their job is just get you in check this thing hit all the checklists they need for insurance, you know, and then and then, you know, I don't know show me one of your lows. tried turning this dial here. I'll see in three months, right, like that whole thing, right. And I do think that they're just, they're throwing darts a lot of times in the dark and just hoping they hit something and that That's just not a real reasonable way to take care of all this. I so I have a lot of empathy for the situation that they're in.
Susan 40:07
And I understand I agree.
Scott Benner 40:11
I still want to try it myself. I still want to like, you know, almost like, almost like speed dating for diabetes. I would love to sit in the room for a whole day and see if 20 minutes at a time I could figure things out or not like,
Susan 40:24
oh, I have no doubt you could I would like that. I would be exhausted. Yes, over though. You've already done that. So you know, you could do that.
Scott Benner 40:31
Yeah, but it would still be fun, like a little exercise. You don't I mean, like, like diabetes Olympics, kind of for me. I love it. Like a mathlete situation, almost where you would just give me questions. And I'd be like this, that this that. But I don't know, maybe I'm wrong. Like, maybe I would maybe I would do that. And then think, Oh, she's people are doing the best they can. It's a horrible situation. But then again, I don't understand. I don't understand then why you wouldn't stop it. Like, why do you keep saying, well, we'll go back and try to cross the street tomorrow. Like, why wouldn't just say this thing we're doing doesn't work. But it would just seem obvious to go to the head of the practice and say, hey, you know, we're not really helping anybody. Right? Like, I went to medical school. And now I'm wasting my life in this florescent box. Sort of pseudo helping people. Like, we're all here. I had to get up in the morning. Why don't we do it better than this? You know, like, it would strike,
Susan 41:30
right? I know. Yeah. So like her, I think are able to seize we're probably in the eights for a long time. And they were fine with that.
Scott Benner 41:40
The doctors were okay with it.
Susan 41:43
Yeah, they were. They know, they were they weren't you know, they, they? They were more like, it's, you know, it's good. We'll try to, you know, try and do better, I guess. Actually, no, I feel like they were like, Oh, you're good. And again, I don't know, maybe it was because it's like the first year or so. And I don't know.
Scott Benner 42:06
But even that's just ambiguous. Like, it's just I know, I agree. Yeah. Especially when you can google. What's the a one C of a person who doesn't have diabetes, and it tells you and you go, Oh, that's C might be significantly different. But what we have over here, you know, I remember the first time I realized that at Ardennes appointments, they'll find a low blood sugar to to warn you about. And I realized that that's a liability thing now. Yes, I'm sure it didn't strike me. I mean, no one's told me this. This is my, my concept is that they go Oh, I see a low here. What happened here? And I've now learned to answer like a robot. Like I go, Oh, let me see that. And I lean over and I go, that's a compression low. That's not real. That's not real, right? Or I'll lean over and I'll go, oh, that's 65 at 11 o'clock. Yeah. I know what that is. You see the Bolus here at 10pm. Right, right, and see how the blood sugar was 140 We had a sticky blood sugar, it broke loose, blah, blah, blah. And then I stopped. I don't over explain it. I just explained it. And they don't go. The next answer isn't well, I think you should do this or change that. They just go okay. And then they make some notes. And I'm like, Oh, this is just for insurance. Okay, interesting. Yeah. Can I get the insurance? Can I just get the prescription now for the insolence on go? Yeah, can we just, we just move on? We're gonna go to lunch. Actually, we're gonna leave here. Waffles and and. Right, yeah, we're gonna Bolus an insane amount of insulin and eat it.
Susan 43:45
And it's gonna work. It's
Scott Benner 43:47
definitely gonna work. Yeah, I gotta go. Like I really I want to get out of here. But I understand, right? If that's the it's almost all this. It's the thing about life. I hate the most like, I hate that unspoken dance part. Like, you know, when you're lying to someone, and they know you're lying. And you know that they know you're lying. And you know that they know that you're lying. And yet for some reason, we're still doing it.
Susan 44:14
It's still still going on.
Scott Benner 44:16
It's maddening to me. I really, I really just find it distasteful, but okay. All right, Susan, Fair's fair. How do you find the podcast?
Susan 44:28
I love the podcast, how do I find it? So I found it on a Facebook group. Definitely a Facebook group. I knew you're gonna ask me this question. I really don't remember when I first started listening, but I do remember when I really listened religiously, was during the pandemic. Like when that first so her. Her one year anniversary was April of 2000. Which is right. When? Yeah, right when everything Started, right? Yeah. So I walk, I walk, I always lose used to, you know, I always like to walk anyway. But I would walk and I will listen to you, every every day. And like every day,
Scott Benner 45:14
that's important. Everybody should be listening to me every day. That's what I think
Susan 45:18
everyday, like to the point that this is to the point that when I go to the track, if I don't listen to it feels weird. Like, I feel like I'm
Scott Benner 45:27
over there, that experience has been ruined, because I'm not there.
Susan 45:31
And I feel like I'm doing I'm being rude to you.
Scott Benner 45:35
That, listen, that's an important feeling. Don't let go of that one. All of you. If you're, you know, you should be less if you could be listening and you're not, you're letting me down directly. That's important to know. Just so you know, also listen, and listen to the end. Okay, there's some important metrics
Susan 45:52
and invariants. Thank you.
I just listened to your your one this morning with Patrick in California. Oh my God, I want to meet him. He's hysterical.
Scott Benner 46:00
I don't even think he was funny on purpose. I think. Exactly. It was amazing. Yeah. Money. That's excellent. I'm glad you like it. There's times where I'll record episodes. And I'd be like, people aren't gonna like this. And that was one of them. I was like, worried. And then I when I really listened, and I did the edit. I was like, What was I thinking about? Was like, he was terrific. You know?
Susan 46:22
Oh, no, he was so honest. And so he was great. Yeah. Yeah. That's very
Scott Benner 46:25
cool. It makes me feel good that you listen, I also want to say, we're beyond this far enough. Now. It's October 2021. When we when the pandemic hit, initially, there was this idea amongst a lot of people who made podcasts that will we're going to scale back now, because people aren't gonna listen as much. And I don't want to, I don't want to waste my content. And I want you all to know that when you thought that I started putting out an extra episode every week, because I was like, This is not how this is gonna go. People are gonna listen to more podcasts. And yeah.
Susan 47:05
I wonder why they would think that,
Scott Benner 47:07
Susan, I think it's because they're morons, and they don't know what they're talking about. And they don't have a vibe for what's happening. But I just go with that. I'm taking full credit for this. I was I saw that moment. I was like, No, this is not the right idea. We should be leaning into this with content, not leaning away from it.
Susan 47:24
No, yeah. I listen to you every day. Ya know,
Scott Benner 47:27
a lot of people picked up the show during Coronavirus, which I'm not Yeah, celebrating, I would rather have fewer listeners all not have COVID. But,
Susan 47:36
but that, you know, I, I found it before that. I just it was just so much more time. Right. So I guess that's what it was. I found it before that. But I listened more religiously during that time.
Scott Benner 47:49
While you're Yeah. While you were figuring out that you wanted to listen to the podcasts with your free time. I was learning how to smoke meat. So we were all did something different that we didn't have previously. Yes. You know, fantastic. Yeah, I do a little smoke every week. And I leave something refrigerator. And I just take little slices from it throughout my days and take little pieces. Lovely. That sounds lovely. It was really a little pink.
Susan 48:14
By the way. My kids tell me the word lovely is an old person's word. Well, they can go to hell. You just said it. And I said it
Scott Benner 48:21
didn't go to hell tell what do you think of that them in the podcast is just thought they shouldn't put out podcaster and COVID. Right. You're all wrong. What do you think of that? Lovely is a wonderful word. It is it invoke some. It evokes a softness and a concern. It is exciting. And it means you know that something is exceptional and kind of very good. If people don't use it.
Susan 48:48
I agree. I agree. Your kids
Scott Benner 48:50
are wonderful. When the new Drake album is coming out they don't know
Susan 48:53
anything. Oh, absolutely.
Scott Benner 48:57
You live on the island or no?
Susan 48:59
I do. I live on the island. Yep, I was born here. I live here. My husband said he'd never lived here but he's lived here for 25 years so
Scott Benner 49:08
would you do wear bikini? Would you ask them if you want to go to Long Island? How did that work out?
Susan 49:11
I don't know. Maybe I don't know how to get him out.
Scott Benner 49:13
You know how you did it. Don't act like you don't know now that we're older.
Susan 49:17
Don't be so coy with the island so it makes it makes me wonder if people listening to this might. I don't know. I don't think I have an accent but I'm sure many people are gonna think I do.
Scott Benner 49:34
Yes is pretty light. years is pretty light. I just interviewed a Mother Son combination who lives on Long Island as well. And hers is very hers is more severe than yours is. Yeah,
Susan 49:49
I'm not too severe.
Scott Benner 49:50
No, you know what I mean? Severe is in.
Susan 49:52
I know. I know. I know.
Scott Benner 49:53
Are you gonna give me crap to Susan. Well, listen, I'm already married. Okay. plenty people over here that have that covered. You don't need to give me crap. If you're worried that I'm living my whole life just free and happy, okay, then I'm the guy. Yeah, don't worry, I'm about to leave this room be told what I'm doing wrong today. Not even over and over again. I'm assuming there's a list of things I've already done wrong. And I have not laid eyes on my wife yet today. So,
Susan 50:24
but it's funny.
Scott Benner 50:26
So so. Okay, so you find the podcast? That's fine. Does that make you feel like? Like, what happens next? Do you start thinking, Oh, those things I was thinking? Maybe they're real? Or did you? Did you think I've never heard any of this stuff before? I've never even had these thoughts before.
Susan 50:43
I've never heard any of these things before. More at the time, so she got a pump. We're on the Omnipod. She got the pump in January. So a little, almost less than a year, I guess. Right. Okay, that she was diagnosed. So no listening to the podcast, like you would say words that I remember I had heard them but didn't know what they meant. Even the word Bolus, I didn't know what that meant. I was I was still under the impression. Like the rules, they tell you, you could only correct every three hours. You You know you all those little rules. So I, I would sit and look at a 300 blood sugar. Because I had to wait three hours, you know? So. So yeah, it was it was more things I hadn't heard before. And it just it really blew my mind.
Scott Benner 51:46
How do you make the leap? Then? Like, how do you? How do you get to the edge of the road and go no, my Sherpa told me we'll try again tomorrow. We've been doing it for three years like this, but I'm very confident that tomorrow is gonna come and then you're you're you're indoctrinated. And then someone comes along and says, the exact opposite of what what you've been totally? How do you break free? Is it that you're not seeing success? And so it seems worth the effort or
Susan 52:12
risk? I look like I just couldn't I didn't want to do this anymore. And the the one of the things that stuck with me. So I think our our Dexcom was set for 80 as a low, and you're ready for this 300 of the high 300.
Scott Benner 52:29
Perfect. That's excellent.
Susan 52:30
That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.
Scott Benner 52:31
I mean, it's so weird.
Susan 52:34
Right? So I didn't know that that's
Scott Benner 52:37
not uncommon, just weird.
Susan 52:40
You know? So
when you
one of the things that you said, in trying to lower your blood sugar, one of the tips, obviously, we know if you listen is to tighten your range, because if your range is tighter, it'll just, it's eventually going to get there. So that's the first thing I did. I I tightened the range on the Dexcom. And then I don't know, I think I just said to myself, No, I'm just going to try something different. Yeah, I'm just going to try something different, I'm going to and because she was on a pump, it's just much easier to you know, add some insulin here, add some there. The array around with things. Yeah, the range.
Scott Benner 53:27
Now super important, because it really is. It's tricking you into doing what you need to do to begin with. So if you, if you let the range be 300, then obviously the blood sugar you can not Pre-Bolus You can miss miss on your carb count for your meal, and ignore the rise and still feel like well, it's doing what I expect, because I expect you're gonna go to 300. And so that's, that's all Okay, once you start seeing yourself, I can't let this get over 150 Now suddenly, you have to start using insulin differently. And you have to start being more aggressive. If it tries to go up you then it forces you to start thinking about well, why is it going up to begin with, I mean, I'm trying to stop it from getting to 150. And it makes you then believe in trying to Pre-Bolus or being flexible around meals and understanding the different impacts of different foods so that you can make a better Bolus and, and then all that stuff. It just tricks you into I mean it you know, you can hear the the Pro Tip series, and it'll make sense to you, I hope and it'll help you. But setting that expectation down is a real is a real big part of that. And then you start getting what you expect. And then you can say, Well, I always get what I expect. I expect one ad I wonder what would happen if I expected 150 And then I wonder what will happen etc, etc. Until you can just like do that. Yeah,
Susan 54:56
no huge, huge and you Yeah 100%
Scott Benner 55:02
So not hard. You didn't struggle to figure it out like it just worked.
Susan 55:06
No, no. And I it just worked. There is still, I mean, I still have room for improvement. I really don't. Do you happen to episode coming out about fatty foods? I just don't quite. I haven't quite gotten a hold of that, like the effect that certain foods.
Scott Benner 55:28
Yeah, there's one have one out now. Okay, no, no, it was me and a Canadian lady named Michelle. Michelle. Okay. I'll find the name for you while you're talking.
Susan 55:39
But yeah, that that's, you know, on my list to really understand. And then obviously, I I'd like to do the new when the new Omnipod comes out and connects with your Dexcom obviously, I'd like to get your the DIY looping completely intimidates me. I, I've looked at I read about it. I've listened. It's almost like a different language to me. I don't know if I just don't have that mind. I don't know. It's very overwhelming. I understand that as much as I'd like to do it. So it's okay. Oh,
Scott Benner 56:22
I like oh, wait, when the real tech savvy people go. It's all written right out there. I'm like, Oh, my gosh, I don't know. But okay. Yeah, yeah.
Susan 56:31
And the other challenge I have, and it's a big one is school for her. She her num. Put it this way. I know when she has a test. I could look I can look at her graph and like, oh, yeah, she had a chest right now. You know, and I don't know how to handle that. I don't know. Sometimes it goes up and comes right back down. Sometimes it goes up and then it just stays there. But then I'm afraid to give her insulin because what if then she crashes. It's like this whole, and she's a freshman in high school. So we're just you know, we're just starting out with all of that. So that's my that's my challenge right now. It is because I feel like every day is kind of different sometimes. You know, and that's a little exhausting. I don't know. Yeah.
Scott Benner 57:18
So you're so first of all, you want episode 471. It's called bolusing insulin for fat.
Susan 57:25
Oh, perfect for 71. Okay, I wrote it down.
Scott Benner 57:27
Thank you. It's really, it's really, really super helpful. You know, okay, good in a sentence. The fat, the grams of fat in some foods that you eat, like french fries, or like stuff that you can there's a formula to figure out how much insulin those grams need and need extra Okay, and about when to put them in?
Susan 57:51
That feel akin to the timing of it, right? Yeah, okay. Yeah.
Scott Benner 57:54
That's that the thing for school is tough. Because, I mean, what are you gonna do? You're gonna, you're gonna have your daughter write down a list of winter tests happen? I mean,
Susan 58:05
I know. So
I think I don't know. I'm increasing her Basal, like, increase your Basal every morning when she goes to school, right? I don't know.
Scott Benner 58:13
Is that helping?
Susan 58:15
Um, yeah, somebody's it helps. Sure. But also, breakfast is also a very big challenge here. Do you know that I have to dose her. I get up at six o'clock and I number one, increase her Basal for the day, and then I dose her for breakfast. She doesn't eat breakfast till probably close to seven. Because her blood sugar will just stay there was just so stubborn. What's
Scott Benner 58:38
your number? At six o'clock when you're putting in the insulin? What's the number then?
Susan 58:42
Like this morning? It was 120 I think
Scott Benner 58:46
it takes an hour to get to what?
Susan 58:49
I mean, I'd love to wait till it's like arrow down somewhere like in the 90s 80s. But we don't have time sometimes to do that. So I think she ate today. It was like 101 Maybe
Scott Benner 59:00
it took it took an hour for blood sugar. almost an hour? Yes. Is there a reason you don't just upper Basal at like 530 to try to accomplish without you having to wake up?
Susan 59:15
That's a good see, I'm so glad I came on this podcast. That's smart. Because that that would do it. So I would only need that during the week. But that's fine, because I can have to dip Okay, yeah, that would make sense right weekend
Scott Benner 59:30
and a weekday, right? Isn't profile. And just think about like, you know, if it's five o'clock or 530 in the morning or whatever, and you up the Basal to the daytime rate ahead of time. So you're making that really, you're doing what everybody does, right? You think she doesn't wake her or what time does she wake up in the morning?
Susan 59:52
Well, when I go in there at six, she's usually kind of like starting to get up and then you know, she gets up within the next 10 minutes or so. When I'm ready or whatever.
Scott Benner 59:59
When does her daytime Basal rates start right now.
Susan 1:00:03
I add some. I don't
Scott Benner 1:00:09
know. Okay, well, whenever it starts, I don't know just just make mean habit start a little sooner and then you can get some insulin active extra insulin active through that six, seven o'clock period, which then should make your bed your Bolus for the meal more instantly. You should see its impact more quickly because right now, you're putting in a Bolus that is being eaten up by that correction Bolus at six is being eaten up by the unmet Basal need from overnight.
Susan 1:00:43
Of course it is. You told me that why didn't I?
Scott Benner 1:00:47
I don't know. I'm just okay. I'm just used to talking about this stuff. It just pops into my head. If you think that spreadsheet right now that says if no, I know. Trust me, you guys, if I bumped my head one time, this podcast has gone. Oh, Scott forgot everything. Record. Go back and listen to the old ones. And but yeah, no, I would do that. I would. Yeah, that makes sense. I don't know when I would start it. You might have to. Right. Let's figure that out. Yeah. So be aggressive through there. Probably then you'll be able to, I'm gonna guess you're gonna be able to make your, your meal Bolus more like 630 or so.
Susan 1:01:24
Right? You could usually like,
Scott Benner 1:01:26
half hours usually good. Okay. And then you're on your right, so that
Susan 1:01:29
I'm gonna try that. Thank you.
Scott Benner 1:01:31
What else? Can I affects anything else? Um, I don't know the thing with a test at school.
Susan 1:01:38
Yes, I don't know what to do about that. Because it like I said, it's like, I never know,
Scott Benner 1:01:44
how would you say sometimes it goes up and it comes back how long until it comes back?
Susan 1:01:51
When it does, that it's not long at all. That's how I know that that was definitely like a quiz or a quick test. Or you know, I also feel I don't know if it's my imagination, but I feel like as soon as that bell rings, I could look at her blood sugar at 215 Low all sudden, that arrow is going down already. Yeah.
Scott Benner 1:02:09
It's so Susan.
Susan 1:02:10
I know. It's school.
Scott Benner 1:02:12
Yeah, it's the it's the adrenaline slash stress, slash, whatever life impact, right. And you're meeting it probably with a heavier Basal. Which is, which is great, because during those hours, it's working. And then as soon as that it's like falling asleep, like, like Martin's blood sugar yesterday. Oh, my God Arden's been sick for a while now. She's got. Oh, you said that on Facebook. Yeah, I'm calling affectionately calling it kennel cough because they all got back together at school, and now they're all coughing. It's like when you take your dog to a kennel and then it comes home. So I'm calling it kennel cough. I don't know that she's thrilled with my estimation of what's wrong with her but skewer, I'm trying to amuse myself to get an immune so Gotcha. She's, for the beginning of it. Really not very sick. Just like this cough. And now a little more head pressure like Arden is taking like Advil cold and sinus in the evening. Right? Arden's not a medicine person. So you know when when you hand Arden a pill and she takes it without complaining she doesn't feel well. Right? Right. Right she's taking that her blood sugar's have been difficult through this. On top of that, we're switching from one birth control pill to a different kind of pill. So right that's challenging in the middle of like, you know, three weeks of like, right no bleeding while this pill like makes sense in her body and we don't even know if it's gonna work it's yeah, anyway. Oh, girl. Yeah, that's hard. It's tough. All this is happening. I'm we're being as artists also trying to learn how to take care of herself better as college is getting closer. So letting her see this part. So and we were doing okay, yesterday, I was like, Oh, this is good. Like it's getting better and I actually made some of her settings weaker because I'm like, maybe this code is changing but I'm not seeing I'm not seeing the you know, the blood sugar's aren't fighting the way they were. It was the last couple of days. And I said to my wife, I was like, I just figured out the turn the settings back at like, 10pm she's gonna get low when she falls asleep. She fell asleep and her blood sugar went right to 60. And I was like, come on, and the I'm trying to go to bed too. So I was like, here, I gave her a banana. She had half a banana. And it helped her blood sugar went from 60 to 63 and back to 60 again. And at this point, she's got no basil going because I'm trying to, you know, make the adjustment from the one to the other. I gave her some juice 6068 60 and 63 Okay, 60 seems to be the number. And so I was like, Oh, let me wait a little bit because the last thing I want is for this food to catch up and be a pro. Yeah, it didn't happen. She's like sitting at like, 6364. Now 45 minutes later, I'm like, Alright, more banana. Now she's been asleep for a while. She wakes up and I'm like, aren't he to take two bites of this banana and a sip of juice? And in a complete blackout sleep she goes, those flavors are not gonna go together. Well. I was like, Yeah, Laurie. I was like, things are tough all over here at Banana, banana. And then I gave her the juice and she sips the juice, you know? No. And I was like, one more big one. Just knock it down real quick. And she does it. And I shake the box. And I'm like, I need her to drink a little more. I said one more time. She goes, nope.
Susan 1:05:49
Oh my gosh.
Scott Benner 1:05:51
So about an hour later, she was 77. And moving on. And I was like, I'm gonna. So yeah, so I fell asleep. And then I heard a little beeping, which indicated to me on my wife's phone that she had gotten back to 70 again. And then I stayed there for a second with my eyes closed five more minutes, and my phone didn't beep My phone's at 65. So I thought, Oh, she's gonna find stability at 70. I'm like, great. And then I alright. And then I then I went to sleep. And then that took a number of hours out of my life last night, which is why I woke up and ran right in here to talk to you. I think I'm awake now. You are what? You think so I'm not certain Yeah. I'm hungry. But a minute fasting. So I have another hour to go before I can eat.
Susan 1:06:41
All right. It's lunchtime.
Scott Benner 1:06:42
Yeah, I'm getting there. I'm getting close. So the thing is school. So I mean, if she pops up and pops right back, I wouldn't think twice about that. Honest.
Susan 1:06:50
Right? No, but because that was happening a lot in middle school. Now. I feel like she'll do that. And it kind of sticks. And it's like, annoying.
Scott Benner 1:06:58
Yeah. Well, when it sticks I Bolus it. Right. Do you guys during the day?
Susan 1:07:04
That's all we do. Yeah.
Excellent. Yeah.
Scott Benner 1:07:09
Are, are just about triggers a little sticky before you and I started talking at like, 135. And it felt like it was going to come down to me, I was like, oh, it's gonna come down. And I had it my heart to try this one Bolus. And then I said to her, and I'm like, no, just do this instead. And then it didn't work. I should have done what I was thinking I wanted to do. I wanted to do a unit and a half and I ended up doing like point nine. And I was like, I messed this up. So I'm like, you know, I was just awaking, and worried about you. I was like, I gotta go do that thing. Now. This thing? Yeah, I was gonna have a conversation about her being the you know, in your note, you called yourself. Do you remember what
Susan 1:07:53
I say? It was just the way you I just remember. I remember the subject was Pick Me Pick Me Pick Me.
Scott Benner 1:08:01
Just on the podcast, if you're not alone, I just said, you said that. You had trouble forgiving yourself for not being perfect. Yeah, so I want to know about that before we're done.
Susan 1:08:15
I'm probably where my daughter gets it from. Although my husband's a little bit like that, too.
I don't know why. I don't know. I am a rule follower. I like to. I like acceptance. I like pleasing people. I like everything to be a certain way.
Scott Benner 1:08:53
I want Why do you like them to be?
Susan 1:08:56
Whatever the case is just like in the house, it's gotta be this has to go here. And I found like, a little crazy, but I'm really not. I'm not. Like, for example, I used to be, I'm not. I used to be a teacher. I was a teacher before I had my children. I taught sixth grade. And you know how when they're, you know, they're young like that. You give out like class jobs. Right. And I didn't like doing that. Because I wanted
to do everything. Like you're a control freak.
A little bit. Right. So that's part of it to a little bit like that as well. But I feel I yeah, I felt like,
Scott Benner 1:09:41
well, how far do you want to try to go into understanding this?
Susan 1:09:44
Yeah, cuz I feel like I'm really not making any sense right now.
Scott Benner 1:09:47
You made a lot of sense. I'm just I'm wondering if you really want to talk about it or not. Did your parents your parents? Did your parents openly fight a lot?
Susan 1:09:57
Oh, no, no, but when they did know my parents married 50 plus years they're, they're awesome. They're, you know, that's great parents. Awesome. So now
Scott Benner 1:10:08
you didn't. Yeah, was there any your family members have illness? There's just something that turns your life upside down when you were younger?
Susan 1:10:18
No, thank you gonna ask me those questions and I'm probably gonna say no to everything and then you're gonna be say, what's wrong with?
Scott Benner 1:10:24
No, I'm not. I'm just I'm looking for a reason why you would want right. I know it's orderly. Yeah, I don't know. I've been happen to get lost once in a mall, like anything traumatic when you were younger? No, is your mom like this? Well, your dad well, that. Yeah. I mean, she was she was planning for your daughter's diabetes in the 80s.
Susan 1:10:50
When I was like, 12
Scott Benner 1:10:51
Yeah, when you were 12. She's like, one day, you're gonna have a dog and you're gonna need to know about this ping thing. Please listen to me closely. And carefully. Were you allowed to make decisions as a child? Or were you overridden by your family a lot. Huh?
Susan 1:11:07
I was allowed to make decisions. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. I'm one to four. Yeah.
Scott Benner 1:11:13
Oh, are you the youngest or the oldest?
Susan 1:11:18
I feel I'm number three. I have two older brothers. And then I have a younger sister.
Scott Benner 1:11:24
Did you feel responsible for them when they when you were younger?
Susan 1:11:28
Oh, now you're getting somewhere? Yes. Figure it out. Don't worry. My sister is 10 years younger than me. So I was 10. When she was born, my brothers were older. One is three years old and four years older than another three years older than that. So yes. And when my sister was born, we were just talking about this. She was just over there the night and we're talking about this. I yeah, I she was a large responsibility for me when I was younger. Yeah.
Scott Benner 1:11:53
So she was more of like your ward than your sister. And your parent was little Yeah, parents had done this with three kids already. And they were like that one probably won't die and they didn't pay much attention to her. Maybe you felt responsible for?
Susan 1:12:08
I did though I did, in many ways feel responsible for her. I did. And I almost in a very strange way still do. Like I remember on her wedding day. I felt like it was my child getting married was weird. So yeah,
Scott Benner 1:12:21
yeah, we're getting to it. You want to keep going? I have time.
Susan 1:12:25
Sure. And I love her. She's my best friend. I love her. Garcia. Yeah. But yeah, that's interesting.
Scott Benner 1:12:31
Look how proud you are. Let's look at do you feel a little like that, that her successes are yours a little bit.
Susan 1:12:42
She's a great mom. She has two little babies. cutest things in the world. And she's so kind. And she always says, you know, that she looks up to me and that, you know, I'm a great mom. You know, those kinds of things. So I do feel good about that. I do.
Scott Benner 1:12:57
Did you really? are crazy like you? Are she more laid back? She's going to be more.
Susan 1:13:02
So much more laid back.
Scott Benner 1:13:03
Do you know why?
Susan 1:13:04
Oh my gosh,
Scott Benner 1:13:06
why she had you to worry about things. Yeah, there you go. How come? Nobody was worried? She thinks for us isn't?
Susan 1:13:13
I don't know when she gets my brothers. They should have
Scott Benner 1:13:16
their boys. Yeah, true. You needed your parents to do it. But they couldn't because they grew up in a time where that's not how they parented. Right? Sure, right. Super simple. Understand. Our psychologies are like almost like I mean, like I'm not taking anything away from you therapists but I mean, look, I just do a podcast and I'm figuring it out. So I know. So okay, so, but yeah, you pass this on to your daughter.
Susan 1:13:41
Um, yes. And I think she's she's a very good combination of both of my husband and I, but my husband is also very Oh, he's He's so good. He's so organized. He's so I'm like, I don't want to say seeks perfection. But I would say the small part kind of does like he's very you know, he's very good at what he does. He only does the best. You've only put out his best work. He only. Yeah,
yeah. So yeah,
Scott Benner 1:14:09
where's your daughter feel responsible for?
Susan 1:14:13
She's got a guinea pig. So maybe your guinea pig.
Scott Benner 1:14:15
It's either you or your husband? Which is?
Susan 1:14:21
Me probably.
Scott Benner 1:14:22
Do you think you could help her to not have to feel responsible for you? Were like three answers away from you having a granddaughter who's carefree like your sister. So just keep thinking.
Susan 1:14:36
That's a, you know, got us a really good question. Yes, she probably does feel that way.
Right. Right. Yeah.
Scott Benner 1:14:41
So what do we do?
Susan 1:14:43
I don't know. What do we do, Scott? Before it's too late. Yeah.
Scott Benner 1:14:47
You got a couple of years here before she's talking to boys and that's gonna be the end of it. So I know. Yeah. And then she's going to try to control their life and make them miserable. Hmm, yeah. Well, I don't know. Like, I mean, you know your own life like what, what? What could you? It's not what you could do. It's what you could, generally speaking, it's going to be what you have to stop doing like, so I don't know what those things are right? You're right. There's something about you, that makes her feel if we're right about all this, that makes her feel like you need her and not in a way where like, on my mom's like, you know, my mom and I are on the same wavelength. And I can see when she's right. There's something specific that she needs that you need, that you aren't getting. And it's obvious that other people so interesting. If it's sexism, we can fail to fix that very easily. Just tell your husband All right, yeah, just stop it. Just stop. All you remember is your kids are gonna hear this, aren't you? Now I'm blushing. Do you think they've ever heard you have sex? Stop it. Stop it. Stop it. Oh, my gosh, I you know, I thought that during this control conversation, a question that I that I didn't ask you. You're welcome. Yeah. Thank you very much. I should start making you know, questions. I don't ask and just read them at the end of the end of the episode. That'd be fantastic. Alright, good. So yeah, listen,
Susan 1:16:19
we're complicated beings. You really are. Right. And I'm in my mind, you know, I, I, you know, you think you're doing everything? Right. Right. You think you're doing all the things you're supposed to do? And in the right way? Here's not that I not that I didn't know that. I don't think I know. I'm not perfect, obviously. But you know, you're just trying your best, right? It's trying to do with us.
Scott Benner 1:16:42
I'm not saying you're doing a bad job.
Susan 1:16:43
I know. I know. I know. I know that. I know.
Scott Benner 1:16:47
I'll tell you know, I know that. For some insight. I assume I'm doing most of the things wrong. But I think I'm doing I assume I assume everything I'm doing is probably could be better, but not in a way that makes me crazy. Just in a way that makes me keep wondering about what, what else is there?
Susan 1:17:09
Does that make sense? Yeah. And I liked that. Yeah, my
Scott Benner 1:17:12
my favorite, my favorite thought exercise is to, is to take a subject that I don't know any, you know, that I don't have a full grasp of think about it up until the ceiling of my understanding. And then just to kind of wonder what's on the other side of it, because there's more, I just don't know what it is. Right. And I like to wonder what it is. And I it's a pretty useless exercise. But I enjoy doing that I enjoy wondering what I don't know about things. And part of that has led me to believe that even when I'm appear to be doing a good job, even when things appear to be going right, there's more that I don't know about that very well may have made things better, better. But I'm not bothered by the idea. I'm intrigued by it.
Susan 1:17:59
You're intrigued.
Scott Benner 1:18:00
Yeah. That's all like I know, very intriguing. I know, I'm doing a good job. Like you said, like, I know I'm doing my best. When I know I'm not doing my best. I try to write that ship pretty quickly. And like you said, people are complicated. There's times when you just you're doing things and you're like, I shouldn't be saying this, and it just comes out anyway. So there's all that, but anyway, it's not too late for you to keep your daughter and help her mellow out a little bit. Is she not mellow?
Susan 1:18:31
No, she's she's mellow. She's good. I could be completely wrong about all this, by the way. No, I
don't know. But but it also made me think a little bit.
Scott Benner 1:18:42
Yeah, just keep in mind that while we're doing this, I just received a note from a listener while we're talking. That congratulated me on how I spoke to a person in a recent episode. And she's like, Wow, you really help that person? That was like, Oh, that's nice. I might have gotten all that stuff. I saw that pop up in front of me. I was like, I can just help Susan to Robin right now.
Susan 1:19:02
I want me to
Scott Benner 1:19:07
can you imagine? That's great. Well, I think you listen, it sounds like you have a nice setup. I do want to ask you about like, what's the division of care between you and your daughter? Like, where do you think her? Like,
Susan 1:19:19
okay, that's a good question. Disappeared. Okay.
I deficient of care. So here's, here's a good story. We went over by this, by the way, wow, look at the time. Okay,
here's just here's a good story. I went away. I went away for three nights with my best friend. And I was like, you know, I need this. Get away. I have to, you know, do something for myself. And we had a great trip and all that. And she did great all the time. And I say that surprising that I shouldn't be surprised. She's awesome. She really is. She's incredible. She's an incredible kid. But she did great. She did great when I was away. So my best friend said to me, she was like, well, then, when you go back, she goes, I want you to pull back, my best friend telling me, and I said, All right, yeah, yeah. But then I get back and I go right back into what I'm back into the way. So, so she could do it. But I think I think we're at a point where she just knows that I'm going to do it, or I'm going to text her and say, hey, you know, dose half a unit dose this? You know, so I'm thinking she probably thinks that way. Oh, you know, Mom, mom, you know, mom, she's on it. So. Right. So, you know, well, you know,
Scott Benner 1:20:48
listen, that's, I think, a reasonable first step. Sounds like it went well. I mean, based on what we just said, we could say that maybe your daughter just realized you needed a break. And so she kind of gave it to you as a gift, which means it's something she has to give, and you understand that she's still 14, and she might not always, they might not always be present in her mind. But how can I? How did you ever did you say to her when you got back? Hey, you did such a good job. Oh, yeah. Maybe we can, you know, do this more frequently. It's a good learning experience for you.
Susan 1:21:25
Okay, ever said those exact words. But there are definitely times where, like, my husband and I were away in the city a couple of weekends ago, she was staying at my mom's and my niece was here. They were staying i i laid back I you know, I did. Good. So yeah, there's definitely instances where I let her do it. Take over.
Scott Benner 1:21:49
Excellent. Let me ask you a question. You went away with your friend, you came back? Was it more gratifying to you that she could take care of herself? Or was it more gratifying to you to take the control back?
Susan 1:22:07
Probably that she could do it herself.
Scott Benner 1:22:10
Good. But did it? Did it feel good when you took the control back? Oh, it
Susan 1:22:14
felt good. It just felt like this is what I do.
Unknown Speaker 1:22:16
Right? Yeah.
Scott Benner 1:22:18
Cool. Well, yeah. Try to make it feel right that the other way to that were you nervous the whole time you were gone? No, you actually were able to just drink a lot. How did you handle that? Nervousness?
Susan 1:22:34
Well, it was a yoga
retreat. Oh, you're smoking? Well. Scott, stop it. So it was
it was very relaxing.
Scott Benner 1:22:45
Oh, wait, were you really doing yoga? Or I thought that was code? I'm sorry. No,
Susan 1:22:49
we were really doing yoga. Hiking in yoga is very relaxing. So no, it was yeah, it was a great, great time.
Scott Benner 1:22:58
But yeah. Oh, there you go. We fixed all your problems. Everything's good. How much do I owe you? I $40. Just to Kobe. Insurance handles the rest. Sorry.
Susan 1:23:10
By the way, I caught your little video you put up very briefly last night of your little cartoon. Are you kidding me? That's the cutest thing ever. So Oh, isn't
Scott Benner 1:23:16
that great?
Susan 1:23:18
Oh, my gosh, I
Scott Benner 1:23:19
love it. So hopefully, by the time this comes out, it'll just be thing, but pretty cool. A mom who listens to the show has a young daughter with type one. Her older daughter is a budding animator. And I must have said something at some point somewhere. I said, I really want to animate the defining diabetes episodes, and put them like on YouTube and make them more accessible to like people like that. And she's like, my daughter could do that. Now. Susan, the amount of people who very kindly offered to do things for me is, is it's a big number. I'm really great. Can't imagine very great. Yeah, very nice. Many people don't have a stick to itiveness that stuff like eggs. So a lot of times people like I'm gonna do this thing for you. And I'm like, that sounds great. I would really appreciate that. And then three weeks later, I'm like, do you have that thing? And like, Oh, I gotta kind of go. And it's fine. I have no animosity. People who really genuinely want to help and I think that's lovely. And, but, so I'm like, Oh, this is a big undertaking. You know, there's a lot to do here. I think you know, our daughter's I think she's 19 Maggie. And I'm like, Okay, I'm like well prove it to me, like do it, you know, and she started doing it and building like physical assets and everything and I was very clear about the animation I was like it should basically just be a modern like Punch and Judy. Like I don't I almost wanted to marry that standing there just doing this thing. And right and she's doing great. So last night, we had a conversation and I said, where are we at with this? When can we actually start putting them up? So she's still working. But I don't, I don't want to put them up and then have a gap. I want to be able to put one up every Friday. And she's like, I think I'm close. I think we can get going pretty soon. And then we talked about what we're going to do next. And I think she's gonna make me sort of, like almost like little like 62nd clips from episodes like, we'll find a 62nd clip in your episode, and she'll animate it. That's so cute. Yeah, we use them on social media and stuff is a way to kind of draw people back to the podcast. And then if all goes well, she's going to automate the process. And we're gonna lay it over top of like the Pro Tip series and stuff like that. Oh, I love it. Yeah. So that's awesome. The problem right now is that I'm financing it out of pocket. And the videos need to make enough money that I can afford to pay her. So we're trying to go slow and find that balance. But she did a really, I thought she did a really amazing job.
Susan 1:26:05
Oh, my God, I loved it. I thought it was fantastic. She's,
Scott Benner 1:26:09
she's really talented, and doing such a good job. So thank you. I'm glad that's so great. That's so great. After the conversation, I sit around, like, I'm gonna throw the first one on Facebook in the private group. And I'm gonna take it down to like two hours just so people can see it for a minute. And funny, the reaction was good. And a couple 1000 views in there in in about an hour and a half. And then I just yanked it back down again. So that's great. Yeah. Thank you. I appreciate that. I'm trying very hard to
Susan 1:26:36
say no, no, you're trying to help. Doing a great job.
Scott Benner 1:26:39
So far. So good. Knock on wood. I haven't done anything super stupid yet.
Susan 1:26:43
Nope. Fix some people one at a time.
Scott Benner 1:26:47
One of the times I need 10s of 1000s at a time, or I start, I start feeling like I'm not doing enough. It gets a second weird. I haven't had that feeling in a couple of years. You know, talking about feeling responsible for people. And right. Why I might know you well is basically how I feel. But I haven't had that feeling in a while. Like I'm not doing enough. It used to feel like that. But I don't anymore. Okay. So that's great. Yeah, I think it's because the podcast reaches so many people at this point. It would just be silly for me to feel like it'd
Susan 1:27:22
be silly. Exactly. be silly feet, right.
Scott Benner 1:27:24
I'm feeling good. All right. Anything left, right, that you want to talk about that we didn't talk about? No,
Susan 1:27:30
I just I'm so happy to get the chance to talk to you. I really enjoyed this. You're awesome. And I hope everybody's okay, on your end, your family and all that.
Scott Benner 1:27:38
Okay. I'm going to ask my question. I appreciate that very much. And same to you. I'm going to ask my question of you when we're not being recorded. Okay. My the question that I had Alright, so when you and your husband are having
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Scott Benner 0:00
Hello friends, and welcome to episode 683 of the Juicebox Podcast.
On this episode of The Juicebox Podcast, I'll be speaking with Megan. She is an adult living with type one diabetes, and she has rodeo stories, among other things. She actually has two sisters who also live with type one. We'll find out more about it on today's episode of The Juicebox Podcast. While you're listening, please remember that nothing you hear on the Juicebox Podcast should be considered advice, medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making any changes to your health care plan, or becoming bold with insulin. If you're a US resident who has type one, or is the caregiver of someone with type one, you have the opportunity to support people with type one diabetes and this podcast by going to T one D exchange.org. Forward slash juicebox. There you join the registry fill out the survey. And in fewer than 10 minutes, you've helped the podcast and people with type one with the simple answers to very easy questions. It's just data that they need, but they need you to go answer the question so they get the data. T one D exchange.org. Forward slash juicebox completely anonymous 100% HIPAA compliant this show is sponsored today by the glucagon that my daughter carries. G voc hypo Penn, find out more at G voc glucagon.com. Forward slash juicebox. I just received Ardens on the pod five order from us med it's a terrific place to get your diabetes supplies, head over to us med.com forward slash juicebox or call 888-721-1514 To get your free benefits check.
Megan 2:05
Okay, it's kind of surreal, because I've heard your voice for so long. It's weird that you're actually talking to me this time.
Scott Benner 2:12
Well, are you worried that it's a voice in your head because I can say something specific to you? I know your name is Meghan. A voice and I guess a voice in your head but no, you're Meghan as well. Right. Hold on. Let's think just something I know that your boy, I don't know anything. The voice in your head. Wouldn't I could be a voice in your head. Megan. Oh, well, right. Live with it. Yep. All right, Guy whenever you're ready, go ahead.
Megan 2:35
Hi, my name is Megan. I am a type one diabetic who've been diabetic for 26 years. I also have two sisters that are type ones. And we just get through this life together.
Scott Benner 2:47
You have any other siblings besides those two sisters?
Megan 2:51
Yes, we have two brothers that are not type ones
Scott Benner 2:54
who see your parents make female type ones not male type ones.
Megan 2:59
Exactly.
Scott Benner 3:00
Do your brothers have any other autoimmune issues?
Megan 3:03
Nope. They're perfectly healthy. Bastards. Right. lucky then.
Scott Benner 3:10
Wow, that's interesting. Does your mom have any?
Megan 3:13
Nope, nobody in either side of our family has any really issues. They had done a lot of studies at the beginning when the first two are diagnosed because my oldest sister's 19 years older than I am. And so when they were diagnosed, it was three days apart. They had done a lot of studies trying to figure out like why it was just those two, they first kind of thought about maybe it was every other child. Well, then after my middle sister, my brother was born and he wasn't in type one. But my mom had lost one between the two of them. So they were like, Okay, well, it's not that. And my mom talks about how when she was pregnant with my younger brother. She said, I pray that he was a boy and wouldn't be a type one because I couldn't handle three of them. And then three years later, here I come a girl type one also
Scott Benner 4:08
my server to tell you that story.
Megan 4:12
Sorry,
Scott Benner 4:13
so you've had type one for 26 years. How old are you?
Megan 4:16
29 I was diagnosed when I was three. Okay.
Scott Benner 4:19
And how old is your older sister?
Megan 4:23
She's 48. So they've been they were diagnosed in 82. Wow, she was nine and then the middle sister was three. When they were diagnosed. Like I said three days apart. They ended up getting a conjoined room at the hospital. So that was probably a lot of fun for my parents.
Scott Benner 4:43
Wow. How old is your middle sister?
Megan 4:46
She is 43 Sorry, maybe
Scott Benner 4:50
you all have the same dad. Yep. Your parents are weird. I love this. Okay, it's gonna be fun. And then the brothers are Where did It just It doesn't matter. But I want to know how old are the brothers?
Megan 5:03
So that brandy or she's the oldest and then we've got a brother. That's after three years after her. Three years after her is our middle sister Kayla. Three years are 10 years later is my other brother. And then three years later is me.
Scott Benner 5:19
Wow. So basically 40 840-543-3326 or 2929. Yep. Wow. And how old are your parents? 112?
Megan 5:29
It seems like it's sometimes. I guess they feel like it but they're not. I think my dad's 72 Maybe No, kid. Really? No.
Scott Benner 5:39
Wow, they got going. And they didn't stop. Big breaks in between. Yeah.
Megan 5:45
Everyone always asked. They're like, Y'all have the same parents. Right? Yep. All the same parents. Question. Yeah. What just happened that way?
Scott Benner 5:56
Was I alright, I'm just going to ask this one last question, then I'll get off your parents, which seems like how your dad did it. He just asked the question and got off for a while. And I got back home again. So there's no family planning here. Like the idea of like, they just when babies came, they came, they make you guys on purpose? Like, what's
Megan 6:18
the last few of us? We're definitely not on purpose, but are like to think that we are the best two? I would imagine. So. I mean, we'll just go to leave it at that.
Scott Benner 6:30
What did your mom do for a living? Did you just sit around and rest her uterus? Or did you have a job? Or Wouldn't she?
Megan 6:35
She actually did have a job. She used to work in the school board. So she for a little while she was working in the lunch room. And then she moved to be a secretary at in school with kids with special needs. And then she turned into Yeah, she was a secretary, then she turned into a secretary at an elementary school. So when I went to school, my mom worked at the school. Yeah. And so it was pretty easy to go through, you know, all my type one problems with her. Only a few doors down. Cool.
Scott Benner 7:10
That's great. So all right. Do you have functionally a completely different diabetes than your older sister did? Do they mean? Like, did she have different gear and different ways to do it than you did? Did your mom have to learn diabetes? A number of times, I guess, is my question.
Megan 7:28
Um, I don't really think so. When we were younger. Now, nowadays, yes, absolutely. We all tend to it differently. We all have, you know, different ways to go about it. And we all have different agencies, for sure. So like, when, when I was diagnosed, my two big sisters were doing shots. And they were checking their blood sugar and all of this stuff. So I started doing my own shots when I was like, between four and five, just because they did it so I could do it. Which I don't know if that helped my mom or made her even more nervous. I was four years old giving myself a shot. I don't really know. But that's, you know, and I so I learned a lot from them up until I was old enough to figure out some things on my own and kind of veered away from some of the ways that they do theirs or have done them.
Scott Benner 8:28
Okay. Well, let's talk about you for a couple minutes. 26 years. That's i Five. I'm gonna guess it's 1995 said about right? Yes. Yep. Oh, wow. I'm sorry, shocked myself, because I was right. I wish that wasn't true. Okay. So 1991 That's crazy. Because when you say 26 years, I'm getting so old now. Like, that feels like 1980 to me. I don't know if that's something you launder. You probably won't understand that till you're older but so 1995 you're diagnosed you and you you're working with injections. And so are your soldiers. You're the rest of your family. What's the what's a goal? Like, do you know? Do you know what your mom was shooting for what she was trying to do? I mean, I'm assuming knock her out of her mind. But you know, like, how did she manage things?
Megan 9:24
Yes, I do. A lot of the mind was the main goal, I believe. You know, she just was trying to keep our blood sugar. I mean, back then, I feel like things have changed so much. Back then it was like you wanted your blood sugar between our what they were telling her I guess, was like 90 to 150. And if we were in there, we were good to go. If not, then we'd have to watch it to see where it was gonna go. And then we would do something about it. Which obviously Nowadays, I really don't even want to be 90 are for sure don't want to be 150. And I'm watching it every, obviously five minutes and making adjustments at all times, rather than how it was done whenever I was first diagnosed or even until I got an insulin pump, and I was in the sixth grade, like, okay, you know, so back then it was just, if it was above 150, then we drink some water, go exercise and come back and check and see if it was because I mean, you don't want to make your four year old do six shots in a day. So you're going to try something else to try to get your blood sugar down before you have to go that route.
Scott Benner 10:44
I see. And what what did you guys do for Lowe's?
Megan 10:49
Um, we just the normal like orange juice type stuff. Or just like a little candy, or Hershey Kiss, my mom is obsessed with them. And that's probably why because she had to keep them around for so long. Just to give us a little something to bring our blood sugars up.
Scott Benner 11:08
That's interesting. When did you I mean, you're talking now about yourself in the when you're talking about yourself in the present. You're talking like a person that has a CGM. So I assume you have one?
Megan 11:16
I do. Yes, I have a Dexcom.
Scott Benner 11:18
How long have you had that?
Megan 11:20
I think I've had it for about three years. Because I got it a little while before I got pregnant with my first little boy.
Scott Benner 11:29
Is that when? So I don't want to spoil things. And I also don't know the answer. But when did you like you're talking now like about keeping very specific blood sugars for yourself? Like, when did that start for you? And what got you going with that?
Megan 11:43
Um, I tried to keep it pretty steady, even on just the regular blood test. But it was when I actually got my Dexcom and could see, you know, I would the standard is, you know, you eat, you do a blood test, you know, an hour after you've eaten, and see what your blood sugar is, won't an hour after it was usually pretty good. Well, then when I got to Dexcom, it's like, oh, yeah, it's pretty good an hour after, but 20 minutes after it shooting straight up. So I guess it was when I got to Dexcom that I really started paying a lot more attention to keeping my blood sugar stable at all times, because I you know, do a blood test every couple hours. And if it was still pretty good. And you're like, oh, yeah, I've kept it this whole time. That was awesome. In reality, that is not how it was
Scott Benner 12:41
jumping up and then staying up and then probably crashing down. And you were just testing at times where it looked okay. Right. Yeah. I remember that feeling like I did. The nurse practitioner always told me to test at a certain time. And I thought, well, if I test then it's definitely going to be okay. Right. And she didn't understand why that didn't make sense to me as to what we really should understand what's happening in between, shouldn't we? And she's like, No, she's like, it's probably high. And I'm like, what, like, nobody. Nobody understands this, you know, so you get a CGM, and you start seeing it. A spike in a meal. What was your first? Like? How did you impact that?
Megan 13:24
So I was started talking with my endo a lot more about just trying to get it figured out on what because I also saw I got a Dexcom and a new pump on the same day, which maybe not wasn't a good idea. But it's fine. We we've got it figured out. So then we were working on, you know, I would call him more often and try and figure out, Hey, What settings do we need to change? And nowadays, I don't, I don't really call him, I just do. I just do whatever I think because obviously, I'm not going to make my setting change. And then my blood sugar's gonna stay 40 for four hours, and may not change back or at least bump it a little bit more. So he's pretty okay with me making some changes on my own. Just because I pay attention to it a lot more nowadays than, Oh, I'm able to pay attention to it a lot more than I was when I first started going to him.
Scott Benner 14:21
So did you like start Pre-Bolus thing? Is that how you? Did you not do that prior? And then the DEC did not?
Megan 14:27
I did not and I would I would rarely put in carbs. And I was like, Oh, I probably need two and a half units. We'll just go with that. And it was like, Oh, that probably wasn't correct. But it was. I mean, I was in college and rodeoing and always gone. So I was like, Yeah, this should work.
Scott Benner 14:48
rodeoing you said earlier? Earlier, I couldn't figure it out. You said earlier, tend to my diabetes. And I was like where did that come from? Like where does like 10 I've never heard somebody say 10 Do it like you would tend to a fire or attend to an animal. Is that where that came from? Do you think? Yeah, probably. Yeah, that's cool how long you've been riding?
Megan 15:09
Um, my entire family has my dad um, you shred bucking horses when he was younger, and then there's only the oldest sister she's the only one in our family that has not rodeoed my husband is a bull rider my brother's rope calves. I've roped My sister has it's just in the family. You know one of my uncle's owns a rodeo company. My brothers made them Super Bowl of rodeo is what they call it. This will be his 12th year and so it's just in the family. We've all done it and we all love the sport and continue to stay at the minute
Scott Benner 15:55
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Megan 17:57
that's the yes, that's the professional bull riding but we're in the PRCA, which is the professional cowboys Rodeo Association.
Scott Benner 18:03
Mike, if you want to hear something weird. Sure, so I had no idea that you rodeoed or that anybody in your family did, and yesterday. So it's a little bit of a side street, it may not come to surprise to some of you. But the popularity of the podcast, I get a lot of emails from people who want me to do things. And sometimes they're amazingly odd, like and don't seem connected to anything that I really am involved in. And yesterday I got an email from PBR and they want to know if I wanted to sell tickets to rodeos on my podcast. And I just thought, wow, I just deleted it. Because first of all, what am I gonna do you know what I mean? But secondly, yeah, I was like, No, I don't want to do that Delete. And then you came on here today and said, I rodeo. And I'm like, how does a word that never comes up in my life come up in my life twice in the last 36 hours. That's so strange. So I assume you live in Connecticut? No, I'm just using it.
Megan 19:02
We are in Southwest Louisiana. Okay, where the hurricanes hit last year that that was me. They they hit me right there.
Scott Benner 19:10
No kidding. How is? So you're not the first person I've spoken to from Louisiana like so how is healthcare there? Like, how was it talked about through your provider? Like, are you like the, like the most well controlled type one in your provider's office? Like, how does that what's the expectation?
Megan 19:30
I don't think I am. But I do know that. Like I said, He gives me a lot of leeway on things that I want to do on my own. Just because he knows that I pay so much attention to stuff. And when I go in, I'm like, Hey, this is what I'm seeing. I think we should change this. And that's not that's if I haven't changed it already. Because I like to let him you know, kind of, obviously give me his expertise on it right. And so we'll talk about that. But my endo is great. He's super smart. And he helps with whatever. But he also will sit there and listen to what I believe we should do rather than just been like, oh, well, you don't have a degree. So you don't know anything. I'm gonna tell you what to do. Okay, which is really, really good. You know, now both my sisters also go to him just because he's helped me so much. And as I said, always open to what I believe.
Scott Benner 20:31
Are you close with your sisters? Yes. Do you guys talk about diabetes visit not come up. Oh, all the time. Okay, all the time. How does that intersect with your, your communication and your relationships? With them?
Megan 20:45
Um, no, it just, I think it makes us closer. Because, you know, if my if I just reinserted my pump, and two hours later, still not doing what I need it to do. And I get aggravated, because I have to put another site and then I can always fix them. And you get the oh my gosh, I hate that. Or, man, that sucks. You know, that type of stuff.
Scott Benner 21:12
But yes, it's right. The camaraderie. It does.
Megan 21:14
Yes, absolutely. I think I wouldn't, I wouldn't be on the weird, I wouldn't be the diabetic I am today without them. That does sound weird. But in the same token, that is true. You know, I know. It sucks. And I can tell them Yeah, it does suck sometimes. But I'm also going to be there when, like our middle sister, she just got on a Dexcom and just got on the same pump that we have, not that long ago. So she's still figuring out the settings and things like that. So, but she can call either one of us and say, Hey, this is what's going on. Or we see because we're all following each other on our Dexcom. So we're like, you know, the middle of the night texture, hey, change your basil, you know, things like that. So it does make it way easier. And that's not even talking about how when your insurance takes forever to get your supplies, and you have to call them and be like, hey, the Dexcom sensor. I'll give you one back whenever I get my supplies. And you know, that's that. That's, that's really cool. I hate that we all have it. But it makes it a lot easier when you can do things like that.
Scott Benner 22:29
So you find yourself sitting around sometimes looking at one of your sister's blood sugars in like kind of a thoughtful way. Like, what I wonder what she should be doing or what's going wrong here, etc. What is she doing? Right? Yes? Do you ever find yourself more interested in their blood sugar than yours? No. Okay, that's a fair
Megan 22:48
No, I. So I just had my second son. He'll be two months old on the 31st graduation. And so thank you, that was a big deal was to make sure that my blood sugar's were where they needed to be because it wasn't just for myself. It was for them. And so when I had my first one, I started paying a lot more attention. And you know, making sure that like I said, my blood sugar's were in the right spot for him, not for me. He was depending on me, and I need to lead them in the right way and get everything on the numbers that they needed to be for him to succeed and be well on his way. And rambunctious little guy just running around with no cares in the world.
Scott Benner 23:38
Well, he's got to ride a horse one day, it sounds like
Megan 23:40
he's been on them.
Scott Benner 23:43
So what did you do during your pregnancy? That that mean? Did you get this success that you were hoping for?
Megan 23:49
I did. Um, so my first one I went to was about 5.0 the whole time. And my second one, it was 4.9. To my OB his son is a type one. And so that's why they kind of over at our Endo, they kind of encouraged us to go see him. And he's also great. And so when I started going there, he's like, Yeah, your blood sugars are pretty good. And then when I went to 4.9, he's like, Well, that's pretty low. I don't know if we want it that bad. Well, no, that's fine. And so then he started saying he's like, Well, high blood sugars cause more birth defects. He's like low blood sugars don't really cause any. Well then my endo was like 4.9 it's too low. We need to get it out. We need to get it up. So I mean, there was that but still, it was pretty stable. First one wasn't.
Scott Benner 24:44
How did you how did you make that happen? What did you just get very aggressive with your insulin? Did you change your diet? Like what did you do?
Megan 24:50
I'm just a lot more aggressive with my insulin and obviously listen to your podcast and knowing about because Like I told you in my email, I've been diabetic for a long time. But I've learned a lot just listening to what other people are saying, or, you know, the episodes that you're doing to help. No, I moved my high alert 120. And I started paying attention to the Pre-Bolus to see when I should actually do it. Just different things like that. Put a lot more effort into and before I was pregnant by a onesie was 6.0 Maybe. So it wasn't like, that was good. I went from eight till to a 4.9. Yeah, you know, so it was still pretty good. But like I said, once, I found out I was pregnant, it was it was actually my Endo, who did the bloodwork and told me that I was for sure pregnant. And so once I found that out, my mindset changed. Like I said that it was for him. And it wasn't just for me, well, you
Scott Benner 26:03
got to keep your body in good shape, you have to have three more kids.
Megan 26:08
I don't know about that. My husband, every time anyone asked him how many kids he wants, he says 12. And I say you can have 12. But I'm not going to wait for that. Yeah, you can find some
Scott Benner 26:20
people maybe to get that. Right. Well, what is he Rockefeller? How much money he got? Who's paid for these
Megan 26:28
kids? Right? I don't know. If he just thinks you know, kids are free labor. I can help them with the cows and all the things we got going on. I really don't know. But he says that anytime anyone asked him?
Scott Benner 26:40
Do you have a farm? You or your husband? Yes, we,
Megan 26:43
we have some, some pastures that are ours. And then we have some lease pastures and Cows and dogs and all the good stuff.
Scott Benner 26:53
Do you make a living with the farm?
Megan 26:56
Um, we, we just have that kind of as a side deal. We do make money off of it. But we also work. Other I mean, we are self employed. So it's not like, we have these nine to five jobs or anything. But we do make part of our part of our living off of it. Yes.
Scott Benner 27:15
That's really excellent. Yeah, tell your husband, you cannot make 12 babies and your is your oldest boy or girl?
Megan 27:22
Boy, they're both boys, boys.
Scott Benner 27:24
But a B. So do you worry about them having I mean, all three of your sisters have diabetes? Do you worry about them having diabetes? Or do you just like? How do you think?
Megan 27:35
Yes, it's obviously always in the back of my mind. So our oldest it was, we were about to have to take him to just a regular checkup. And he was he always wanted water always wanted water. And of course, red flags are coming. And so I tell my doctor, I'm like, you've got to do a blood test on him. I can I have one in my bag. But I don't, I don't know, if I didn't want him. You know, I didn't want to prick his finger. Or if I didn't want to see the results myself. So that terrified me. So she checked it. And she's like, I just want to let you know, it's probably not probably just thirsty, am I? Who knows. But he you know, his blood sugar was fine. But it's like, it's always in the back of my mind, which I know. I've read, you know, the some books about it and things like that. So I know that the female being a type one is the less chance for the children to get it. And then also, since I was over 25, when I was pregnant, then that chance also goes down for them.
Scott Benner 28:48
So there's what did you read? I mean, that's interesting. I've never heard that. So that's really interesting.
Megan 28:52
I thought it was in Jenny's book in Jenny's book
Scott Benner 28:56
is about it. You
Megan 28:58
I'm not don't quote me on that. Because I'm not positive if that was the one that I read it in. Or if it was something else,
Scott Benner 29:05
no, I find out that's that's really interesting. But that.
Megan 29:09
I said, That's what I read. And so it gives you a comment helps me out. Yes. But like I said, it's always in the going to it will always be in the back of my mind which my oldest sister has two kids. Neither one of them are diabetic. My middle sister has a daughter and she's not diabetic either. And so those also help that I'm like, well, they aren't they don't have it. So maybe my voice won't either.
Scott Benner 29:34
Yeah, well, I hope not. So your your sisters have kids as well. Yes, both of them. Okay. How about your brothers? Did your brothers have any children?
Megan 29:43
I'm one of them has he has a daughter and then he has stepped up
Scott Benner 29:47
and there's no diabetes there. Anybody have thyroid issues or anything see?
Megan 29:53
Me and the oldest sister we have some thyroid issues. You know I have to be on the thyroid medication for but other than that it's really not much of anything. I didn't I think my grandma and my uncle had some problems with their liver. My grandma died from cirrhosis of the liver, which was not caused by alcohol. So I mean, other than that, other than that, no. All right, I'm lucky. Yes.
Scott Benner 30:30
You guys are just less than I've started to feel that way sometimes, too. Oh, my gosh, how many things can go wrong with people? You know?
Megan 30:37
Yeah, when I was younger, it used to kind of aggravate me that I was a diabetic and that my brother wasn't. But my mom, you should tell me that, you know. We only got it because we could handle it. And they couldn't. And I was like, You're right. He could not handle this, which is not true. But whenever I was six, that was for sure. The truth? It made me feel better. Yeah. Yes, I could do it. And he can't just couldn't. So that's why he didn't get it.
Scott Benner 31:07
What does that aggravation feel like because I just interviewed a 14 year old yesterday. And I asked him if he was bothered, that his siblings didn't have and he said, No, it didn't matter to him. But what was it just like when it got frustrating? You're like, Well, why is this happening to me and not everybody else?
Megan 31:23
Yes, um, it was probably mainly. So when I got my first insulin pump. It was a summer going into my fifth grade year. And that's when they were pretty new. And the cannula was, I don't know, it felt like five inches, it obviously wasn't but, and then also went in at an angle. And I was very tiny. And so every time I would go in and would like, hit a muscle or hit something and bend. Also, we were going to a big rodeo that we'd go to in Colorado Springs in the summer. And I was so sick, because my blood sugar was, you know, the pump wasn't working right, and we couldn't figure it out. And that's pretty much mainly the time that it got. So aggravating was because he could go and have fun and do all the stuff that we do, you know, at that rodeo that we'd go to every year and I literally just had to sit in the camper because my blood sugar was going so crazy. For the most part, it didn't bother me. And I've never gone through this stage where I'm like, I don't want to be a diabetic. So I'm just not going to take care of myself, or middle sister did, she did go through that stage, she now has a glass eye because of it. And so maybe seeing that happen to her made me realize, oh, just because you does you don't want it doesn't mean it goes away. And you still have to take care of yourself to prevent things like that from happening. And so, like I said, I didn't obviously when I was little it was I probably did get aggravated at him. But for the most part, it wasn't too bad. You know, I wasn't just angry that I had the disease. And that may have had a lot of dealings with that my sisters had it also. So if I was mad that I had it, then I had to be mad that they had it also. But they weren't. You know, at that time, they weren't mad about it. So I didn't need to be
Scott Benner 33:36
When did your sister did she? Did she always ignore it? Or was there a spot in her life when
Megan 33:44
there was Yep, a spot not her life. Just a few I don't even know if it was a few years but she just got it got a boyfriend she was you know in are probably 18 or 19 and just didn't just didn't want to take care of it didn't want to be diabetic. And obviously now she regrets it might majorly and she knows that all the issues that she has was her own fault. Pretty much that you know, she did that to herself back in her younger days, but she's doing a lot better now.
Scott Benner 34:22
Yeah, people shouldn't have to pay with an AI to learn a life lesson. You know? It's Yes, I'm sorry. But you say it did value there was value in her struggle for you because you just were like, oh, okay, I can't ignore this. I'm just not going to write. How about your older sister? Is she? How old? How old was your oldest sister when she was diagnosed? You know?
Megan 34:46
She was nine.
Scott Benner 34:47
She was nine. How about the next one? Sorry. And then you were three as well? Yes, yeah. Okay. Do any of you have children? Do any of them have daughters that are older than three?
Unknown Speaker 35:01
Yes. Both of them.
Scott Benner 35:02
Do they have older than nine year olds? Yep. Okay. Okay.
Megan 35:07
The oldest one her daughter's 28. And the other one hers is 20.
Scott Benner 35:14
Do you guys ever consider doing trial net for the kids?
Unknown Speaker 35:18
No, no,
Scott Benner 35:19
we haven't you want to know?
Megan 35:22
I don't know.
Scott Benner 35:24
It's a hard question.
Megan 35:25
I would, right? Yeah, I would psych myself out so many different times, if I'm probably if I knew there was a chance, rather than just trying to live our lives and, you know, be able to enjoy them. And then if it comes up, it comes up. I know how to deal with it. I knew, you know, I know how to live with being the type one and so I could teach them which. Honestly, it will be very different to being the mother of one, rather than being myself. I will probably, I would cry a lot more than I do just for myself,
Scott Benner 36:08
probably beginning to cry about diabetes stuff. Get overwhelming? No, not really anymore. had in the past?
Megan 36:20
Um, yeah, it used to, like I said, when I was in college, it's, it's not like I was a party anymore. I've never had alcohol or drugs ever in my entire life. So it's not like I just got off on, you know, drugs and alcohol and college and my blood sugar went crazy. But I guess it was just late nights and things like that, that would make my blood sugar kind of go a little, little different than they are now. And so then it would, it would be aggravating just that I was always having to do something different to take care of it. Yeah. When the same things weren't working.
Scott Benner 37:00
But no break. Like you didn't have any, like real breakdowns where it just know kind of crushed? No,
Megan 37:05
not really.
Scott Benner 37:09
My question just flew out of my head, that since I've been thinking of this question for 10 minutes, how is it possible that now that I needed, it's not there. It's very disappointing, Meghan. Alright. So while I find my question, can you tell me a little bit about what you've taken out of the podcast, it's been valuable for you.
Megan 37:28
I think the number one thing really is changing your high alert to the 120. Because obviously, it makes so much sense. Now, when you you know, when I heard you say it, you know, change it, change it to 120, because it's going to take you less time, and lessons learned to get it back to where you want it to be, rather than when it alerts you at 150 or 180. And when you said that, I really just wanted to hit myself in the head and be like, go, Hello. Why didn't you think of that?
Scott Benner 38:04
Yeah, that's so cool. That it's such a simple idea, right? But if you don't get high, you won't get high. So just Yeah, rapid before it.
Megan 38:12
Doesn't You're right. And I really think that helped a lot in my pregnancy. Was that it? And one time? I know, my answer, I guess had messed up in the middle of the night. And I didn't wake up to it. I didn't wake up feeling tired or whatever. And when I did wake up, I think my budget was 250. And that, okay, I lied, I bawled my eyes out, like freaked out, because my blood sugar was 250 for, you know, six hours or whatever. And I never took care of it to take care of my baby. And I just instantly knew something was gonna be wrong with them. And I was like, I had high blood sugar. Oh, my goodness. So I talked to my mom, my sisters, and they're like, calm down. It's fine. If your blood sugar wasn't that, you know, it wasn't above 600 for six months, it was it was only a short time, it's not gonna affect anything. Just get it back down and everything will be pretty fine, you know? But at that moment, my husband was working out of town. So I was home alone with our oldest one and it just it was like I was a failure as a mom at that moment because I didn't check in make sure that my blood sugar was not high in the middle of the night while sleeping.
Scott Benner 39:41
Any any. Do you think that might be some like pregnancy hormones to like the reaction?
Megan 39:46
Yeah, probably. Yeah. I cried a lot when I was pregnant and my husband, he's like, what's wrong away? I'm so happy. It doesn't feel like that. Oh, yes, I am. And he's like, okay,
Scott Benner 40:00
If he wants to 10 more times, does he? So I, you know, it's funny, I said, Can you tell me about this? And you were three words into it. And I instantly thought of what I wanted to ask you. And I was like, That's amazing, my stupid brain. But my question I've been dying to know, the whole time is, you kept such an amazing agency during the pregnancy. How has it been afterwards?
Megan 40:24
Um, it was, I think five one went a couple of weeks ago, when I went to my Endo. And then after my other son, it never went above six, I think it was 5.2. Maybe one up to 5.7. Between having the two of them. They're only two years apart. So not even two years apart.
Scott Benner 40:51
You've got a system now like, you know what you're doing.
Megan 40:54
I feel like it's, I've got it down pretty good. But then the way type one is you get I mean, you're like, you're like, I've got it figured out. And then boom, there.
Scott Benner 41:07
Something could change in your body, physiologically, or you know about your exercise routine or stuff like that, but you can still adjust to that. I'm saying I know you don't want to jinx it, but you're doing really well. Like it's Yeah, I feel like it yes, no kidding.
Megan 41:21
I'm proud of it. And my husband, he will take all the credit. Before we I mean, we've been together for seven years. And before we got together, you know, there was just like, oh, yeah, my blood sugar is fine. It's fine. Oh, you're eating a pancake. Oh, good. I'll have a few bites. It's fine. You know, whatever. And he and I used to love pop tarts. That's probably terrible. But I loved Pop Tarts, fried Pop Tarts.
Scott Benner 41:51
Firstly, hold on just a second. You took me by surprise. You said a lot of things that I'm not like accustomed to like with rodeo and stuff like that. But you fry a pop tart.
Megan 42:01
I actually got it at a big rodeo in Canada. in Calgary. Yes, it is a it's a pop tart fried and pancake batter, which is probably the worst thing a diabetic could ever have. Wait, wait,
Scott Benner 42:15
wait, wait. So wait. So I take the pop tart. I dip it in pancake batter, and then I put it in the hot grease? Yes. So it's like a pancake with a pop tart center?
Megan 42:28
Yes, it is absolutely delicious. Yes, it was. Like I said probably the worst thing for diabetic because pop tarts are a bajillion carbs, and sugar.
Scott Benner 42:43
And they hit really hard. They're not even committed to their carb count. They're really tough the Bolus for
Megan 42:48
Yes, yes, they are. And so when he got I guess brave enough to be like, Look, we will have to make some changes here. That's probably when I first started like paying attention a little bit more. Okay, is when he started talking about it.
Scott Benner 43:06
He talked about like, more healthy eating. Yes, he was like,
Megan 43:10
no Pop Tarts. Absolutely not. You cannot have those anymore. And I have not had a pop tart. And I couldn't tell you. I see him at the grocery store. And they look phenomenal.
Scott Benner 43:22
Mega we got a guy just walked by. Yeah, that's good. So two things. A list and Pop Tarts aren't good for anybody. Let's just say that. You know, it just they they make diabetes difficult if you're using insulin for certain, or I guess if you were type two as well, but um, but is he like a better eater? Like has he seemed more healthy? Like it was? Like, are you eating Pop Tarts while he's having brussel sprouts and a piece of chicken or like,
Megan 43:50
did he do he was really a huge fan of honey buns. Um, but he doesn't really, he really doesn't like sweets. He is actually the cook in the family who loves to cook and he cooks really? Well. We try not to tell him because his head gets really big. But he does cook really well. And we're from the South and in Louisiana so we eat rice with like, pretty much every meal. So it's not like he's a healthy either, but I guess he doesn't like sweets for one and then he realized that those are really really bad for me. Like hey, maybe you shouldn't have those. And then he would just like in a loving way want my blood sugar to be the best just so that I would feel better and all this stuff. And so yeah, I do. I do not usually give him the credit but he deserves some of it.
Scott Benner 44:51
Well, I don't want to push you down a road but what's your favorite pop tart?
Megan 44:55
Strawberry,
Unknown Speaker 44:56
strawberry. hotter. That's
Megan 44:57
the one all right
Scott Benner 45:00
Oh, crunchy. So
Megan 45:02
once they fried, so the one I actually had, it gets worse and worse. It was the fried Pop Tart. And then they put like whipped cream on top with Fruity Pebbles. And so it Yeah, it was terrible Canadian. Yes. It's like the festival you know like the huge you have on the rads and all this stuff the Calgary Stampede. And so they had the fried oreos fried ice cream fried butter, and all that fun stuff.
Scott Benner 45:37
Where you butter? Yeah, it's
Megan 45:40
it's weird and ice cream. I don't understand how they do it. I have never tasted either. So um,
Scott Benner 45:46
how would you like the butter hits the it's got to be frozen, right? You put frozen butter into the how the hell do you fry butter? Isn't butter, just grease that hasn't been melted yet?
Megan 45:57
Yeah. It's confusing, but people do it.
Scott Benner 46:00
Probably a wizard living in Canada that figure that out. I have to be honest, I've never had any of the things you've just said. As you're saying them. I don't want them. But I don't like greasy stuff to begin with. Like anything deep, deep fried is not really my speed. But that's, that's really interesting. Okay, so. So you're not having trouble managing your blood sugar's after the pregnancy. Like sometimes people come on and talk about like, I was able to take care of it during pregnancy. But after the baby came, I got so busy and like I kind of forgot about myself. But you're you're staying on top of it.
Megan 46:38
Yes. So this one, um, the first, my first one, my blood sugar would drop and crazy amount. breastfeeding him. So I could it could be 120 When I start feeding him. And by the end of his feed. It's like 60. And so when I went back to my Endo, after I had him or had my second one, we kind of tweak some things. And it hasn't been like that now, the past few days. If it's, you know, my budget or some, you know, fat over Bolus because I'm actually working at a rodeo right now. And so it's there's a lot going on. But if I over Bolus and I'm working and don't finish my food and enough time before the Bolus hits, and it starts going down like one little one little baby piece of chocolate to try to get it up and level out. It just shooting it straight up. So that's something that I need to work on. I don't know what I don't know what could cause that or what settings I need to change because it doesn't make sense. But for the most part, it has been pretty easy for me to to take care of and stay on track. I guess just because I'd still just want to make sure I take care of myself for them. Ya know that they don't deserve me to not take care of myself or to not pay enough attention to be able to take care of myself. So
Scott Benner 48:17
you're a good mom.
Megan 48:19
Thank you. Yeah. And the oldest one Mike said he's, he's rambunctious Hogan, he loves to be on the move. And like Buck Buck with pillows and watch tractors go around in circles for hours. And
Scott Benner 48:34
you don't just release them in the wild. If you have them. Right. You keep them in the house.
Megan 48:38
Yeah, for the most part. He's released a lot.
Scott Benner 48:44
Because I was like, maybe she's just like putting them out in that pasture. And then they're not. Yeah, but
Megan 48:47
yeah, they can take care of themselves. You you refer
Scott Benner 48:51
to the end of breastfeeding is like the end of feeding time. And that was hilarious. I didn't laugh because you were being so genuine when you're talking about that was between tending diabetes and referring to the kids like cattle like for feeding. Like this is how I love this. I love Well,
Megan 49:07
I will tell you, my husband says. So my breastfeeding journey ended at four months with my first one and he says, this one's gonna be better because I was fattened up a little bit more before I had this one. And then you always they always produce milk better on their second one. So when, you know, when they're a heifer and they're pregnant, the milks not that good. But their second one, they produce more milk. So your husband refers to all of us as cattle.
Scott Benner 49:39
You're all just cattle in his mind, just so he took what he knew about how cattle produce milk and explained did that your breastfeeding is gonna go differently because of this.
Megan 49:48
Yes, yes. It's gonna be way better than some. So we'll see.
Scott Benner 49:53
I want to make sure I understand. The first time you were a heifer. Yes. What is the hell? What's the designation for half What does that mean?
Megan 50:01
A heifer is a female calf that has not had a cow yet. Haven't has not had a calf yet. Okay. And so once they have a calf than they are now a cow.
Scott Benner 50:12
Okay. Right. So So you're a heifer if you've never had a baby and your cow once you have had one. Yes. Interest, so your account now so since you're a cow, your milk is gonna be better.
Megan 50:26
Yep. Now as a little fatter, you gotta fattened up before,
Scott Benner 50:31
you gotta make sure he doesn't throw you on a milking machine and try to make money off do you fall asleep? You wake up here and click, click, click Like you're like, Whoa, whoa, hold on. Hold on. What's happening? Yeah, that's a loving thing. Right? For people up north who hear this? Like he's not commenting on your weight. It's literally just
Megan 50:49
No, no, no, as genuine and loving as he can be.
Scott Benner 50:54
That's excellent. If you have more than one calf, you just always a cow. Yes. How do you think it would go? If I referred to my wife as a cow today? Without explaining this conversation? We're not? Well, not Well,
Megan 51:07
I would advise against that.
Scott Benner 51:10
Yeah, I'm not going to do that. I was just wondering what you thought like, what level of lamp do you think would come at my head? If I was like, talking to Megan day, and her husband says you're a cow. Yeah, without context, I think it gets ugly. Yeah, I would definitely die in that conversation. Yeah. Well, does your have your three siblings who have diabetes? Would you call your your management the tightest, or no? Yes. Did they ever ask you about it? Because they can see your CGM? Yes. What do they want to know? Yeah.
Megan 51:46
I'm just on like the changes that need to be made on their settings. You know, like, Hey, can you look and see if my, you know if my correction needs to be changed, or if it's actually my carb ratio that needs to be changed. And so we'll go through stuff like that, and kind of work on figuring figuring it out. Before, we have to call our endo and get his opinion on it.
Scott Benner 52:16
What? Do they listen to the bar? Guest?
Megan 52:21
I think they do some but not as much as I do.
Scott Benner 52:24
Has that ever been your answer? Have you ever been like you should just listen to this? Yes.
Megan 52:29
I've told him multiple times. I'm always
Scott Benner 52:31
trying to understand. By the way, I have to get this thought out of my head before I go down this road. Do you think I could get away with calling the episode Megan as a cow? I couldn't, right? There'd be backlash from many different feminine groups and things like that. I would know probably
Megan 52:45
would I get? Yeah. Okay. So we're not gonna either do that. Or fried.
Scott Benner 52:49
Fried Pop Tarts? Yeah, that's a pretty good one, too. That's a really good one. You might have just done it. Okay. So I'm trying to understand not about your sister specifically. But in general, I was just having this conversation. Actually, before I got on with you, I was having a conversation with one of the people who facilitates one of the ads that I have on the podcast. And I was talking about a thing that I wanted to do to help people and I was looking for funding for it. And we were having a bigger conversation. And during that conversation, I said, it's hard to get, it's hard to do a good thing for people like you, you have to talk them into it sometimes. And they're right. I said to her, I was like, there are times I want to just like grab people and go, Listen, I'm going to do this thing for you. Now. It's going to help you like just accept it. You know what I mean? Like, because sometimes it just, it's not that easy. Like making the information available, isn't enough, sometimes making it accessible and easy to listen to? is not enough. Sometimes Sometimes people I've had people tell me, I don't have time to listen to the podcast. And I'm like, why don't understand you're wasting, in my opinion, so much of your life fighting with diabetes, like just make a few hours here and there. And then you don't have to have that fight anymore when it's over. But it's not that easy to get through to people. And I don't know why. I mean, I haven't given up on trying to figure it out. But it's frustrating.
Megan 54:11
Yeah, I could imagine it is true. Just to give them the information, like you said readily available doesn't always work. It's not enough pushing them to, to try and listen to it. I forever just think harder. Yeah, I
Scott Benner 54:26
forever. Just think of one person who responded to me. I said, Look, you know, I've put a lot of my life and time and effort into creating these episodes here. I think if you just listen through them, your answers are in there plus, way more, you'll just it'll be easier for you and she's like, can't you just explain it to me? Like, well, I mean,
Megan 54:46
I did in all of these episodes.
Scott Benner 54:49
I did already Yeah, it's there. Like just go listen, but too much. And so right. You know, I don't know. Like, I don't want to think that some people are beyond Hold on. Second, I'm sorry. That's a time of year. I don't want to think that people are beyond help, because I think everybody could figure it out. And I do think the information would reach most people. I just I don't know. Like, I mean, it can't be my job to chase people around one at a time. But do you ever feel responsible for your sisters? Do you ever feel that you know something? And why won't they just do it? Or listen? Or does that ever come up to you?
Megan 55:30
Yes, I've actually, for them. And for my OB, I actually, I guess, before I knew you had a list of all the defining diabetes episodes and things like that. And the Pro Tip series, I went through and made a list of them. I was like, Look, you don't have to listen to, you know, like this, like, just, this is about my life. I'm not really gonna teach anyone about anything right here,
Scott Benner 55:57
I think. But okay.
Megan 55:59
But, you know, I'm like, if you at least listen to these. They're teaching you a lot of things that will affect your diabetes and how you manage it and all this stuff. So like, if you're only going to listen to some, then listen to these. Yeah, I agree with that. Which, you know, I don't like said I don't really know how many they have listened to. They, they do have better control of it. Within the last couple of years. I'm not saying that's because I decided that I needed better control over mine. Or what really pushed him to, to understand think about it more. But yeah, nowadays.
Scott Benner 56:43
It's excellent. I am. I agree with you to like, I think the podcast is entertaining. I enjoy it. Like I'm I'm really enjoying talking to you. I think people would really enjoy listening to this. But everybody doesn't want this conversational stuff. Some people really do just want the management stuff, and they want to be gone. And I understand. I think there's a lot to be learned from the conversations. But if you just want to do the management stuff, I get why you would feel that way. But I mean, it's out there it and it's the guy stand behind it that those pro tip episodes that defining diabetes, even like the new variables, that kind of stuff is you're not going to get that kind of information from a doctor. Right? It's just very helpful. So excuse me. I want to make sure is there anything that we haven't talked about that you wanted to I don't want to get through an hour and have missed something? No, why did you want to come up?
Megan 57:41
I feel like now I made my husband sound like a jerk. But he really is he really
Scott Benner 57:47
worried about? Yes, I
Megan 57:49
after I said that. I was like man, people are gonna think why is she married as someone who talks to her about like, she's a cow, but
Scott Benner 57:58
talk to you like you're a cow. He's using colloquialisms? Yeah, they're part of the Yeah,
Megan 58:02
that's what I mean. He does is explaining to me as something that he already knows about. Sounds like me. And maybe I should have said that. But he really is very loving.
Scott Benner 58:14
How I took it. I actually took it like maybe breastfeeding the first time was difficult. And that he was trying to comfort you and tell you that it was probably going to be better this time. Yeah. That was that was it in his own way. Exactly. I thought it was terrific. I took it as loving. And I took it as I mean, I took it as an insight into your life. I didn't take it as like he's some bad guy running around calling you a cow. And I mean, like,
Megan 58:43
why is she still with him?
Scott Benner 58:45
Well, obviously, because you still have to have 10 more of his babies. You can't leave. Yeah. I do think he's wrong about that, by the way.
Megan 58:54
Yeah, yeah, I don't. We're just gonna let him think what he wants to think for now.
Scott Benner 59:02
I think if you get keep that thought in his head, you're gonna start keeping a stick next to the bed that you're going to hit. Like, no, no, no. Like, I'm not having 12 babies.
Unknown Speaker 59:14
Exactly. Babies.
Scott Benner 59:16
I wouldn't want. I wouldn't want to be responsible for 12 oranges. I would be afraid they'd go bad before I could eat them. Yeah. How did your mom now that you guys are older? Do you ever talk to your mom about your diabetes? Does she still worry about it?
Megan 59:34
Yes, yes. Especially since she can see all of our ducks calms. She still does worry about it a lot. I sometimes turn mine off. Because I have a husband that lives in the house with me. So as my blood sugar's go low in the middle of the night, and I don't wake up on my own. He's going to wake me up. Yeah, you know, and so sometimes I don't want my mom to have to know about it, I guess Sure. Because I'm like, I can take care of it. Now, when I'm home alone, then I'll you know, turn it back on for just in case I don't wake up. And they wake up and call me and say, hey, you know, maybe you should check that out. But she still does worry about it a lot. And my dad even he'll wake up in the morning and say, Okay, who was the culprit last night? Who was it? Was it? Yes. He's like, who was it last night that made all this noise.
Scott Benner 1:00:40
But they want to know that it's so Parliament's for safety, but part of it is because it's just ingrained in them right, like worrying about you guys. And, and, and staying on top of it. Yeah, I think I get that. I also understand you wanting to have privacy from it, too. But do you think she understands it at all? Like, does your mom get the whole CGM thing? Is she following along still?
Megan 1:01:07
Yes, yeah, she, when we first got them, you know, we kind of explained a lot of things to her. And just like stuff on your podcast, when I tell her I'm like, oh, you know, this is what I learned. And she does kind of like me just like, oh, well, yeah, that makes a lot of sense to do. You know, to do it that way to catch this or whatever. So she still wants to learn about it. And wants to help us in any way that she can.
Scott Benner 1:01:38
Sweet. That's really nice. Yeah, makes me feel good. She's.
Unknown Speaker 1:01:42
She's a good lady.
Scott Benner 1:01:44
She's not bothered by it either. It just seems no. Yeah. It's really excellent. Well, you seem like a good mom. It seems like you had a good mom. So make sense, right?
Megan 1:01:55
Yeah. I hope I can be half the mom she is. Well,
Scott Benner 1:01:58
I'm sure you will be I'm sure you'll do much better. I'm sure you'll take what you learned from her and, and build on top of it. I'll try to Are you worried that you won't be a good mom?
Megan 1:02:10
Ah, no, not really. I just know how much my mom has done for us. And anytime I have any questions or need anything at all that show for sure. Be there and I plan to be the exact same way for my boys. So I don't I don't think I will be a bad mom. I just want I just have a lot of big shoes to fill.
Scott Benner 1:02:35
You have such high regard for your mom. You think it's it's a you might have difficulty living up to what she's done? Yes. I bet you won't. But that's really sweet. That's excellent. I like you, Megan. This is fun. I think you were wrong about the Strawberry Pop Tarts. But I think otherwise, it's
Megan 1:02:56
like what popular decent person?
Scott Benner 1:02:59
No, I just mean picking strawberry first. I think I would have chosen like what Pop Tart would I go to right now if I was having a pop tart? Brown sugar.
Megan 1:03:11
I mean, when I was younger, it was a hot fudge sundae when I didn't even now. Yeah, now I'm just straight shrub right now. My oldest one, he loves the little NutriGrain bars with the strawberry. So it's basically like a pop tart. It's just a lot better for him than an actual
Scott Benner 1:03:36
healthier pop out. Yes,
Megan 1:03:38
they do. They do have some kind of like, sugar free pop tart. I don't know if it's good or not. And I've thought about ordering it a couple of times. I haven't. But I feel like the NutriGrain bars. Those are pretty. They're still pretty good. And I feel like they're not as terrible for us. So what he does, and we pretend like they're Pop Tarts.
Scott Benner 1:04:06
You guys should basically be eating lettuce at home because when you go to the rodeo, you're going to eat something horrible. You need to bounce. Yes. I think one of the most shocking things you told me is that Canadians are peddling terrible food to people. That's why it's cat is Canada's a big the roadies are big in Canada, right. Yeah. Yeah. I wonder why that is.
Megan 1:04:32
Their big. A lot of places that people don't say they think if you rodeo you're definitely from Texas. Which you know, they honestly that's where most most people in America. They think that's it. You rodeo you're from Texas. They don't understand. I mean like Florida when you think of Florida What do you think of beaches, Disney World? Florida has more horses and cattle and More than any other state. Yeah, people don't understand that. They just don't know
Scott Benner 1:05:05
Florida is a southern state like at its core for sure. Like it's just yeah, it has it just happens to be on a sunny. Just have sunny. Yeah, that's that's 100% certain I think of Florida's like Texas with a beach.
Megan 1:05:21
Yep, that's pretty much it. Yeah.
Scott Benner 1:05:23
Okay. All right. Hey, I just have a last question for you. I'll let you go. What do you do in the rodeo?
Megan 1:05:31
I don't compete anymore. I used to rope. So on a horse, chasing the calf, and rope it, and then my rope breaks off in the calf runs away. Like because he's having a great time.
Scott Benner 1:05:46
Were you any good at it?
Megan 1:05:48
I'm not gonna say I was very good. No, no, my brothers are. My brothers are great. Did
Scott Benner 1:05:53
you enjoy it?
Megan 1:05:55
Yes, I did. Yeah. But now I so now like I said, I'm working on radio right now. Now I work for photographer. So he takes pictures of the rodeo events. And then I go in and take the pictures off of the card that he has put them on. And then I move them into different folders for each person. So that when they come up to look at their pictures, all they have to do is tell us their name. And they can look at every picture we've taken of them the whole time. And so we do this. We come to Perry, Georgia, twice a year, and then we go to just we go to Oklahoma, we go to Texas, Louisiana. We just go all over and do that. So that's that's what we're doing right now.
Scott Benner 1:06:45
Your husband rodeo. Yep, he used
Megan 1:06:47
to ride bulls.
Scott Benner 1:06:48
No kidding. That seems like a crazy thing to me.
Megan 1:06:52
It's pretty crazy. Yes. This whole right side is titanium. And then his bottom left half is titanium all so
Scott Benner 1:07:01
he's got a couple of plates and screws and things going on? Oh, yeah. He's got a lot. Yeah. Yeah, that that sounds like you just said to me, like he climbed on the back of a bear. And then held on to it. Like I just Yeah. But that's, that's fun. It's fun to watch. I'll tell you that much.
Megan 1:07:18
Yep. It's, it's exciting and also terrifying at the same time.
Scott Benner 1:07:23
Yeah, no kidding. All right. Well, I, I really appreciate you coming on and doing this. Thank you very much. Thank you have a good time.
Megan 1:07:32
Yes, did you I was nervous. pretty nervous at first, but then I was just like, oh, well, this is it. This is me. And did you know if it works, it works.
Scott Benner 1:07:45
What? What would you? And I've never asked anybody this before? Do you ever have? Did you have a concern that other people with diabetes wouldn't like your answers about diabetes? Or you didn't think of that?
Megan 1:07:56
Yes. Um, you know that. But I'm a warrior. And I want to please everyone. And so I do. I mean, obviously, I freaked out that I said, my husband talks about me like, he talks about a cow. So that made me think doubt was like, oh, man, I shouldn't say that. So yes, I do worry that people were like, Oh, why she, you know, why is she doing it that way? That's not the right way. She's supposed to do it this way, which, in actuality, we all have our different ways of tending, sorry, tending to it. Sorry.
Scott Benner 1:08:38
You're getting you'll miss attending to diabetes. Again, I would have loved that. Meghan, come on.
Megan 1:08:44
Yes. You know, we all have our different ways to attend to the issues that come up with our disease. And just because the way I tend to mine is not the way that challenge tends to the IRS does not mean that I'm right, or they're right. It just, is what works for us. And
Scott Benner 1:09:04
imagine, imagine if I would have thought that if I would have said no, I don't want to say what I do, because I'd be afraid that people would disagree with it, then none of this would exist.
Megan 1:09:14
Right? I wouldn't have had so much success from now, you know, almost changing the way that I viewed the disease, I guess and took care of it. And I want to have a four point on a one. See when I was pregnant.
Scott Benner 1:09:30
Yeah. Did you name the kid after me?
Megan 1:09:33
I did it. It was one. It was a top runner, but we'll make the
Scott Benner 1:09:40
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Megan 1:10:21
Yep. Well, I
Scott Benner 1:10:22
thought you did a great job. And I give everything that you shared, I want to be clear that I think if people wouldn't come on and share how they really feel that the podcast would be valueless. So it's not important for people to agree with each other. It's important to hear different ideas. And then you can either say no, I'm good with what I'm doing. Or Wow, she made a good point about that. And no, I, that thing you talked about about setting 120 alarm for your CGM. I believe that in my heart, but I can't say it every day. You know what I mean? Are the podcasts repetitive or boring? Yeah. So you brought it up. So I'm thrilled that you did. Truth is, you set a high alarm at a lower level, you can respond sooner before your blood sugar gets higher, and use a smaller amount of insulin to stop the rise, which makes you less likely to have a low later, that sentence is really important. And I'm glad you brought it up today. So thank you very much.
Megan 1:11:18
Yeah, thank you for teaching it to me.
Scott Benner 1:11:21
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#682 Charlotte Drury
Yea, that Charlotte Drury. The one who got type 1 diabetes a month before her Olympic trials.
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Scott Benner 0:00
Hello friends, and welcome to episode 682 of the Juicebox Podcast
I think we can all agree that there's never a great time to be diagnosed with diabetes, but one month before the Olympic trials, that's really bad timing. And that's exactly what happened to today's guest, Charlotte Drewery. I know you think I'm gonna have her on here and talk about all her Olympic hopes and trampoline and everything. And sure we'll get all that but I actually invited Charlotte on because of something I saw her going through on Instagram. While you're listening today, please remember that nothing you hear on the Juicebox Podcast should be considered advice, medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making any changes to your health care plan, or becoming bold with insulin. A if you're a US resident Charlotte or with the Olympics us you know us if you're a US resident who has type one diabetes, or is the caregiver of someone with type one, please go to T one D exchange.org. Ford slash juice box right now and take the survey. When you do you'll be helping people with type one diabetes and supporting the Juicebox Podcast. I have to tell you, I thought Charlotte and I got along famously, I actually think we're friends now.
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Charlotte Drury 2:10
I am Charlotte. I obviously have type one diabetes, and I'm here today to just chat.
Scott Benner 2:16
Cool. Well, it's not that obvious. I talked to a lot of people who don't have diabetes, they end up being caregivers but I take your point. Let me tell you about how I spent the five minutes before you came on. I'm your name breaks my brain the way Charlotte is spelled versus I agree how I hear it my head. And I had never considered it before sitting down. I was like, her name is Charlotte, Charlotte lot. And then I got Lou and
Charlotte Drury 2:46
every Starbucks barista has had that exact same revelation.
Scott Benner 2:49
Well, then I got lost in it. And then I was looking at your last name. And I'm like, Oh my God, our last name is weird, too. So now I'm just sitting here, staring at the screen going Charlotte Drewery Drewery, Charlotte, and I was like, oh my god, I sounds like
Charlotte Drury 3:06
if you put my name and did Google Translate and you got like the exact pronunciation of each phonetic letter.
Scott Benner 3:12
Exactly. That's exactly right. Because when I think of it, your name Charlotte. And I don't consider how Drewery is, is spelled. And then the more I said Drewery I started saying it wrong. And then I freaked myself out. I stopped thinking about it. So
Charlotte Drury 3:29
then the entire word itself lost its meaning and then you question the meaning of life and yeah,
Scott Benner 3:34
where do you I fell down that sort of like bizarre psychedelic rabbit hole. I was like, her name doesn't make sense. But anyway, great. Marry a guy named Smith one day or something. I think you could really straight this whole problem out. Perfect. How old are you, Charlotte?
Charlotte Drury 3:52
I am 25. But I'll be 26 in two weeks. Oh, happy
Scott Benner 3:56
birthday. Thanks. And then you're gonna see me writing. I don't usually do video with most people. So now Charlotte's watching me to make the podcast and I'm suddenly aware of myself,
Charlotte Drury 4:05
making them very nervous. And in fact, that actually brought a magnifying glass. So I will be holding that up the whole time. I know you guys are listening. You can't tell but I'm just worried. I have I have this unlocked.
Scott Benner 4:15
I'm just thrilled. You don't know where my hairline used to be? You have nothing. You have no perspective. So you're 26 How old were you? 26 and two weeks. How old were you when you were diagnosed?
Charlotte Drury 4:28
I was 24. But it was about almost exactly a year ago.
Scott Benner 4:32
Okay, so you've only had diabetes for about a year. diagnosed. All right. Interesting. So when you first started thinking something was wrong, what were your symptoms?
Charlotte Drury 4:45
Um, well, I've been an athlete my whole life. And I was just kind of used to a certain level of performance. And over like the last or not the last year I guess starting two years ago, I kind of started noticing a decline in training and it was just So sudden and really hard to keep up and, you know, chalk it up to the pandemic and just stress in general. And then after about a year of that, noticing that I just felt couch lock fatigue, moody, unhappy. I didn't notice that like dry mouth having to go to the bathroom all the time, until looking back on it, because I just assumed that I was working out so much that I was really dehydrated. But yeah, those were really my main symptoms, and it was really just falling behind in sport.
Scott Benner 5:32
Okay. I guess when you perform at a higher level, was it obvious sooner than you think if it was just you, like, you know, not able to walk your 30 minutes on the treadmill, like after work like most of us attempt to do, but you know,
Charlotte Drury 5:47
I do. And I don't, I think it's kind of a double edged sword of, because I was working out so much and performing at such a high level, my body kind of kept this level of fitness, throughout the physical decline that diabetes was getting or untreated diabetes was causing. And then the other side of that is that I think I might have not noticed at all. Or notice the physical decline if I wasn't trying to push myself so hard. So it was like maybe I just was able to push myself harder for longer.
Scott Benner 6:18
Do you think your body was at a level where even though the decline was significant? You were able to kind of power past it? Yeah, and definitely. And that's the
Charlotte Drury 6:27
mentality of elite sport. I think it's like, Oh, you don't feel good. Try harder.
Scott Benner 6:33
Yeah, I know my son wants. He plays baseball in college. He wants twisted his ankle, it was purple, and twice the size it should be. And he says to me, I think if I wrap this I can play.
Charlotte Drury 6:44
Oh, yeah. I totally hear that. I broke my ankle. And I still tried to compete.
Scott Benner 6:50
Like I say, I said, I don't think we're going to do that as the one we're gonna we get this fixed up first. But it's yeah, it's also tough, because you spend so much time I think people probably think about it much. But you know, the performance of your sport, or the, you know, or the game, whatever it ends up being is such a small percentage of the actual time you spend working towards it. And, you know, it's hard to it's hard to give that away, when you've put nine months or a year into this idea that you're going to play in a nine inning baseball game. 50 Oh, my
Charlotte Drury 7:24
God. Yeah. Preaching to the choir. Like, my routines. So for trampoline, because I'm a trampoline. It's my routines are 20 seconds. And I trained from when I was three years old in gymnastics to make it to an Olympic Games, where you compete for 20 seconds,
Scott Benner 7:40
right? Did you ever think about it cognitively as it was coming up? Like what am I doing? Oh, yeah. Like, because if we put this in other context, you would not do this?
Charlotte Drury 7:53
Literally not? Absolutely not. Are you like, I mean, I have to like, look at myself in the mirror and be like, You're crazy. What what are you thinking?
Scott Benner 8:05
I'm going to ask you later about because I am interested in what drives you to make a decision like that and to stick with it. But okay, so you have this this. This kind of left down of your physical performance? Do you end up going to a doctor? Do you tell a parent a coach, how do you proceed?
Charlotte Drury 8:20
Yeah, I went to my doctor because we, I had attended a national team training camp. And it was like our first camp back since pandemic, it was supposed to like kick off the year leading into the Olympics. And I just was getting my ass kicked I junior athletes that were doing better than me and couldn't get through teams that could do anything. I was absolutely miserable. And on the way home, I was like this is beyond just being mentally burned out. This is beyond just falling behind and getting older and really hard sport. Something's wrong with me. Like I fully had that penny drop moment of something is wrong. I don't know what it is, but something's wrong. So as soon as I got home, I landed, I called my doctor. She ordered some bloodwork got it done right away. And then she called me that evening, and was like, surprised. Do you have diabetes?
Scott Benner 9:14
No, I don't. Because Wilford Brimley has diabetes, and I'm not like him at all. And I don't understand this unless you have it in your family.
Charlotte Drury 9:22
No, nobody, not a single person. My little sister does have celiac. So that is the autoimmune kind of similar, or like,
Scott Benner 9:31
yeah, no, I was gonna ask you in a second if there's any autoimmune in your family. So trust me. Yeah, that's the really the only thing Okay, no, thyroid, anywhere. Nope. Here's one. I liked it.
Charlotte Drury 9:42
Like, I think maybe like a cousin has a thyroid thing.
Scott Benner 9:47
That counts. Okay, cool. It counts. Yes. There's like an aunt like after Christmas dinner runs to the bathroom for like a half hour stomach gets upset anything like that? I don't think so. A lot of times, it's still There's people have celiac, they just don't know they do. Really? Yeah. And it's just they think they say things like, Ah, my stomach doesn't like me like, Okay, does that
Charlotte Drury 10:09
also doesn't like me, but that could have been the bagel and ice cream and pizza.
Scott Benner 10:14
Yeah. It's interesting. You said about getting older when you're young because you're you're 24. At that point, you're like, maybe I'm just getting older. Again, my son said to me, this spring is a spring training was getting going. He's the senior. I said, How's it going? He goes, I feel old. And I was like, yeah, he goes, he's like, like, the rust is breaking off, and I'll be okay. But he all he did was lift through the offseason and hit, you know, inside. And he just said, he's like, I just, I see some of these younger kids rolling around. And they just, they don't show up, like creaky the next day, like I do. And it took them a couple of weeks. And he sprung back. But he's like, I feel old. It was weird to hear a person say that to me.
Charlotte Drury 10:54
I mean, that was like, fully my mentality in that year of training, undiagnosed, was, Oh, I'm just past my peak. Oh, bummer. I'm just not that good anymore. And given a little bit more time being healthy, I think I totally would have gotten back to 100% been, like back to fighting for him. But by the time I was diagnosed, it was only a couple of weeks until Olympic trials and a couple of months until the Olympics, so it really wasn't enough time to kind of start up and build all that strength back that I had lost in the last year. It did my best, but definitely a lot of it came back, but not all of it, which is kind of a bummer. But
Scott Benner 11:38
I hear you. Yeah, listen, I just, it's hard. I just had to have knee surgery because I woke up one day and my knee hurts. So don't complain. I wasn't bouncing on anything. So you, you get this news from the doctor? Are you training somewhere alone? Are you living at home? Or are you near family or friends?
Charlotte Drury 11:58
No, I was actually just living with my partner. And my parents had left and moved out of state like two days before I was diagnosed. So it was really just me and my partner. And then obviously, my support system in the gym, which is my coach and teammates and stuff. But through the pandemic. I mean, I was training by myself. So it was just my coach and I. So my circle was really small.
Scott Benner 12:20
So what does your I mean, how do you know what your blood sugar was when that bloodwork went back?
Charlotte Drury 12:26
My agency was 14.6. I don't know exactly what my blood sugar was in that moment. But I do remember pricking my finger like right after I was diagnosed like a couple of times, and it being in the six hundreds.
Scott Benner 12:38
Yeah, that's crazy. You mentioned that it's possible that it was going on for longer than you knew. Looking back, what do you think was going on?
Charlotte Drury 12:47
So I had suffered a couple of injuries in the late months of 2019. And they were nothing major major. I mean, I guess one of them was pretty major had a really, really bad concussion that, you know, took me out of school to get a training. And that took a super long time to heal. The same thing is like I had a tear in one of the ligaments on the top of my foot. And it just was not healing, it was an injury that should have taken, you know, a month to kind of clear up. And it took three, four or five months before I felt like it was like anywhere near normal again. So I was healing really slow, which looking back. That was before I was even having a like tangible decline in performance and sport performance. But my body was just struggling, I think.
Scott Benner 13:39
Yeah, no, it's completely. I mean, there are people who, I mean, some people have Lada, you know, type one and a half, and it takes years and years and years of like this slow, slow decline. And, you know, it's not, it's not crazy. I mean, still a quick onset with type one is common, right? And quick, could be a couple of months or, you know, etc. But I hear you it happens so slow, and you don't see it happening, you know, what was the Yeah, and
Charlotte Drury 14:04
you just explain it away. You know, you just, you just come up with all the reasons of why you're fine. Like, it takes a lot to get to that tipping point to think oh, you know, maybe something's wrong.
Scott Benner 14:19
Well, my daughter was two and she was diagnosed. And she had just switched from bottles. So when she would have these incredibly heavy diapers, we'd be like, Wow, because because she's drinking so much with our cups, like we were, we were proud of her. Right. And thinking, oh God, where we like where she dehydrated before because look how much she's drinking now and you just, you're just not Yeah, exactly. You explain it away. Yeah. Because surely they think it would be a long unhappy life. If everything that happened your brain ran to you know, I probably have diabetes, or oh my god, right. You know what, this probably is arm cancer. You know, like, it's like, you know, like so like, I think it's a it's a protective measure. In some ways. It just ends up in this scenario becomes dangerous if you don't pay attention to it. What? What if any technology do you leave the diagnosis with?
Charlotte Drury 15:10
So I walked out of the doctor's office with a long acting insulin. That was it. Oh, no Anna and a finger prick her finger meter. I call it my finger picker. I don't think that's actually what
Scott Benner 15:21
it's called. Call whatever you want. I don't care. So you're just left with like a Basal insulin? Do they give you nice syringes?
Charlotte Drury 15:30
Or a pen? They gave me a pen and a sample of four needle heads.
Scott Benner 15:36
Okay. And let's just call it your picker. And but a meter, you gotta meter and test strips got a meter? And yeah, and a way to make a hole on your finger. Yep, actually got three things. You got test strips. That's the picker part is a picker, which I think is called a lance. Yeah,
Charlotte Drury 15:53
I agree. Since I was learning so much at the time.
Scott Benner 15:57
Charlotte agrees I've made it it's called Lance. Why thank you. How benevolent
Charlotte Drury 16:03
petition to change it to prickers. I just there was so much to remember at that time. And I think whenever I needed my picker, it was I was either low or really high, my brain wasn't working. And I would just point and be like, I mean, I need I need the pricking thing.
Scott Benner 16:28
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it stuck well also, I mean, I guess not for nothing, not the diabetes doesn't invade everyone's life and put your real life on hold for a minute, but your real life was you thought you were going to be in the Olympics, right? Yeah. So it wasn't like you couldn't go to English. And you were like, Yeah, let's make that up next semester. So you have like, your big time constraint, lifelong pursuits. That somebody's like, hey, guess what? Those 20 seconds you've been praying for me? Yeah, maybe not. And so maybe not. Yeah. And that's in your head, too. Did you then what did they do give you you have to make an appoint with an endo. Because, I mean, you're just doing Basal. You weren't Bolus. Yeah, it
Charlotte Drury 21:06
was honestly like a disaster at the start, like so because I'd seen like, I saw my primary care and she's fantastic. I've seen her my like whole life. And she was like, You need to come into the office first thing in the morning. There's like an endos office connected to my primary care office. So I went into there, but the endo was like, you know, booked out for months, and you can't get an appointment. She literally just walked me into the office and the nurse educator or nurse practitioner or some somebody in the office was just like, oh, okay, like, well, here's some insulin, take 10 units prick your finger. By
Scott Benner 21:44
you've had it for a year. Now you realize that's plenty of information. You're fine. Yeah, no, I'm fine. I'm doing good. See what happens and listen, if you faint. Get your printer and get your progress your blood? How long? How long did you live like that?
Charlotte Drury 22:01
It was only it was a week. So I think that was maybe like a Monday. And then the office? And like, Go, Dr. PERIES. My primary care. She was like, No, you're gonna get her in this week. You are going to get her in. Yeah. And the office was like, well, we'll try. We'll try. And she. I was literally in the doctor's office that morning. Sobbing and then they brought her in because I was so emotionally distraught. And she was like, You're gonna be okay, it's gonna be fine. And she looks at the nurse in the room. And she goes, you're gonna get her in and just like death stares her. And then it's like, well, we'll try it. And she goes, No, you're gone. Get her
Scott Benner 22:42
to kill her on your side once. And I was like just just shriveled up in a corner. Like, yeah, yeah, no.
Charlotte Drury 22:54
I think I was like, snuck in on like, a Friday. So it was maybe like five days of me just try not to eat a carb, and learn as much as I can and reach out to anybody in the world that I know that has type one. Yeah. And yeah, I mean, that first week, those first two weeks and even after seeing the endo for the first time, he just upped my basil and actually still didn't prescribe me a fast second insulin. And it wasn't until I think the following week that I was doing like virtual appointments with the nurse educator in the office where they teach you everything. And she was like, you really need a fast acting insulin. I was like, I don't know a lot. But I know you're right. I heard that. So she called the doctor. And then then he prescribed it. And then I got it. And then I got started on it. And that's when I really started to feel better and
Scott Benner 23:41
get directions from them about how to use it, or were you figuring it out online? Or?
Charlotte Drury 23:46
Um, she did give me some directions, but I was so confused. Again, horrible, really horrible. Oh, my God, she doesn't
Scott Benner 23:57
know let's get better at your job. Have some pride
Charlotte Drury 24:01
honestly do better. Um, no, I was like, trying to figure it out online. But again, all those words are new, and everything's just so new. I really just needed somebody to very simply break it down for me. And she was the nurse educator was really cautious and telling me this or that or this or that? Because diabetes is so personal, which it absolutely is, once you have it figured out. But there are some like baseline rules. You just kind of need to know,
Scott Benner 24:32
Charlotte, I have a series that must be over 40s It's got to be over 40 episodes long. Now. There's basically five to 10 minute episodes that are called defining diabetes. It's every term that you hear. And it's not. It's not read to you like out of a definition. You know, like here it is from the it's Look, here's Bolus. This is what Bolus means. Here's what it means. Technically, here's what it's gonna mean in your life every day. It's a fun, you know, I pride myself on making the Very listenable diabetes content. And so it's a fun conversation where when you end it you go I know what Basal means now. I know what yeah, you know, the K means now like, because to your point people are yelling a bunch of words that you know, context for them whatsoever that and you're scared. Yeah. And your blood sugar's probably still vacillating all over the place, and your life is changed irreparably. And you're worried about your 20 seconds. And you know, like, like, every other thing that happens, I, if it makes you feel better when my daughter, my daughter was diagnosed, a nurse came in the room, fourth day, I think, and said that they were going to teach us how to count carbs. And then she started adding fractions, and I just, I just started crying. Like, like, just like crying, and my wife goes, you're gonna need to come back and she left the room and one of the only times Charlotte, your youngster, but one of the only times my wife's been nice to me, like the last 30 years, and she turned to me, she goes, you're okay, you know how to add fractions. And I said, I'm gonna kill her. That's what's gonna win. And I didn't mean the nurse. I met my daughter. I meant I'm gonna mess this math up. I'm gonna kill her. I know I am. That's what it felt like, in the moment. Yeah, I lost the ability to add fractions because of the pressure. And in some ways, this podcast exists because I don't count carbs. And I don't do things the way other people do. And, you know, inside of this podcast is how we my daughter's a one C is, you really don't know this podcast. I know. My daughter is a once he has been from five, two to six, two for eight years. Wow. Any diet restrictions. I know how to use insulin, and I know how to talk about it. I just don't know how to count carbs and add fractions when you need.
Charlotte Drury 26:49
Tough. I remember that day in fourth grade vividly. Yeah,
Scott Benner 26:52
was terrible. And Mr. Chabot? Let me be honest with you. While we're calling people out. Mr. Cicala, my fourth grade teacher was a horror, okay. He hated me. I know he did. I know you're allowed to hate children. You just don't talk about it. This man did not like me whatsoever. Thought I was sarcastic. I was probably a little fat kid, which, you know, in this in the seven days, and I kind of get any respect there. There's no like personal choice. But I've done. It's not like that's the body's comfortable in there like Scott, stop eating, you know, a shame the four year old for certain, right? And so every Friday, he'd give a math test. And it was 100 quick questions, where he you'd take a piece of paper was one to 100, a little pencil, and he'd go two times three, and you had to write six and move to line two, because he was already saying five times eight. And they were simple.
Charlotte Drury 27:40
I would get this is when you discovered what anxiety was,
Scott Benner 27:43
I would get most of them wrong. And then what would happen is you had to write each 110 times over the weekend. So my entire weekend was spent writing out 1000s of multiplication things over and over again, while my parents yelled at me. Like, how could you not understand three times five is like, well, I know it now that you're saying it, you know, and like and so I think he enjoyed torturing me. I don't even remember why we're talking about that anymore. But
Charlotte Drury 28:10
I would agree with that. We're unpacking childhood trauma. We're here we're here for at all
Scott Benner 28:14
can I tell you? He's probably dead. And I'm okay with it.
Unknown Speaker 28:20
C'est la vie.
Scott Benner 28:21
Were there were people who loved them. But he was very mean to me and I don't have any I have no remorse.
Charlotte Drury 28:26
You know what? He wronged you? And that's okay. You can you can feel what you feel
Scott Benner 28:30
sure you have no idea how bad I am with names. That I know that man's odd last name still means he really? He tortured me? Yeah,
Charlotte Drury 28:38
you're gonna remember it for the rest of your life.
Scott Benner 28:39
So anyway, so sorry, let us just segue away from that. Because you're on the podcast. I don't imagine you know why you're on the podcast. I know why you're on. And it's not because just to let people know to talk about me again in fourth grade when you all send me emails a year ago, you should get Charlotte Drury on the podcast. She just got diabetes. She's trying to be in the Olympics. You make me not want to do it when you do that. I don't like doing what everybody else is doing. It makes me uncomfortable. Because all I can think I everyone's going to interview this Charlotte girl. And I don't want to just be like it'll get lost in the mix. I'm like, No. So you weren't on a year ago because of the people who wrote me to ask to have you on. I know it's backwards. You're on today. I'll get a list of their names. Yeah, you will you should exact your retribution to as I've done just now with Mr. Cipolla. There's a strong possibility you're episode's going to be called Mr. Scola, by the way,
Charlotte Drury 29:36
support that through and through. In fact, I think we should trademark his name and started.
Scott Benner 29:42
Yeah, I want to make money off his ass. That's a good idea.
Charlotte Drury 29:46
So in your trauma dollars,
Scott Benner 29:48
the reason I reached out to you is because somebody tagged me in something on Instagram, and I got to watch you have a difficult moment in public. And I saw you You like every other person with diabetes and not like a bouncy girl? Or like, I don't mean to be like derivative. You know what I mean? I'm sure what you do is really cool. I do I do. But I wanted to talk to you about that. That's why I asked you on why it took me 25 minutes to get to it. There's no way to know because we took the witness a long road, we've been chatting, and I have not even asked you yet about what you think of those kids on tick tock, who bounce hundreds of feet in the air in their backyard trampolines. As I walk in and go, That kid's gonna die. That kid's gonna die. like maniacs they're gonna die, right? Yeah. Yeah, let's get away from that. Seriously, if no one's seen those videos, you have to find them. But that's not what I'm talking about. Like they literally I mean, am I wrong? Are they going 50 100 feet in the air?
Charlotte Drury 30:48
easily, easily. They're insane.
Scott Benner 30:51
And there's other spinning the entire time. Yeah, they do more
Charlotte Drury 30:55
flips and like one bounce than I do. And like for sometimes,
Scott Benner 30:59
I don't even understand how they're not dead when they just hit the trampoline. Because I
Charlotte Drury 31:04
also agree with that. I genuinely am baffled by those kids. They are maniacs. I think they were born with rubber bones. I and like, God bless them the day their prefrontal cortex fully develops, and they realize what they've been doing for the last 15 years has been insane.
Scott Benner 31:20
I blame the drugs, Charlotte, I don't know. I don't know how you would do. I mean, I'm being honest. Okay, so can you tell me a little bit about like, I think you did. I'm not the social media maven that maybe I should be. But I feel like you were just asking questions of people and having conversations through Instagram. But what led you to that that moment?
Charlotte Drury 31:46
Yeah, I think. So I actually did talk about this a lot with some people that are really close in my life, and then with a bunch of people on social media have. I've been diagnosed for a year now. And in my head, that kind of feels like a long time. But with diabetes, you know, you're looking at the rest of your life. The year is such a, it's a fraction of the rest of your life. And it was really hitting me that I was having all of these like identity changes of oh my god, I've always classified myself as a healthy person. Am I a healthy person? Am I an able bodied person? Am I capable person? Am I an independent person, all these things that I valued. And for like a solid week, I just slowly started having this unraveling this like slow brewing meltdown. And then one night, it was like, maybe 10 o'clock at night, and I'm in bed, and I'm just like sobbing, and having this meltdown. And it all being diabetes related and diabetes focused, and not knowing who to talk to you about it. And then I was like, well, there's actually like, 1000s of people that I can talk to about it right now. And selfishly, I really need support. So I posted it on my story. And I was just asking for support. I said I was struggling, what helps you when you guys are struggling, and it was just a q&a. And I got 1000s of messages in reply that were so kind and thoughtful and helpful. And I felt seen, I felt validated. I had new ways of thinking and people were shifting my perspective. And because they were so insightful, and a couple of people in those questions had asked if I could also share them because they were also struggling. So I was like, what a great opportunity to now share these answers with everybody else that's also here in this community. And so I did and it was like a really cathartic experience. It took me a good 24 hours to be able to go through and read all the questions without just crying the whole time. Because again, I was really fragile in the moment. And they were really helpful. They were hitting the nerves that were raw. And it was nice, and I was everybody always talks about, you know, you need your community and you need the diabetes community to kind of prop you up when you're feeling a little weak or a little shaky. And they were right. I mean, I felt really not better. I felt better, not fixed. Obviously not completely through that like slump, I'm still definitely in it, but a lot better. And I think after that day, I started to kind of get out of that burnout, depressive, not depression, because it's not depression right now. But the depressive slip like slope.
Scott Benner 34:30
So I mean, it caught my attention because I mean, surely I don't have diabetes. I should knock on wood because I'm probably gonna die. I mean, it's gonna be iron. It's gonna have to follow me at some point, right? I'm gonna have to climb on here one day be like, okay, it happened. But for the moment I don't. I make this podcast because my daughter is who's 18 In a couple of weeks, has had it since she was two. I started writing a blog before blogs were a thing. It helped people and I liked that it help people. At some point, I recognize that it was all raw nerve blogging, I was just like something would happen. And I would write about it, and people would come in and go, that happens to me too. And then it would make them feel better that it happens to someone else. I saw the value in it. But there was just one day where I thought, like, my conscious thought was, it's nice to know you're not alone at 2am, right? Even though you're alone in your home, even though you're alone in your home, somewhere, countless people are up going, Oh, my blood sugar's low, and they're drinking a juice or they're worried or they're eating their kitchen or whatever, there's comfort in that. And I started thinking, it's not enough to just offer comfort, like, what if we could stop them from being low at 2am? Like, how would that be? And so I started to focus the blog more about that. It's how it kind of ended up translating into the podcast. But as much as I could see the value in it through the blog, the podcast is by magnitudes, much bigger than than the pot than the blog ever was. And now I'm actually speaking to people. And it always strikes me because in my heart, the podcast is about management. But it's, it's not really. And it's got these facets that some of them I'm less aware of, because I don't have diabetes. But when people start coming on and tell these great stories, and they're sharing their lives, and at some point, I kind of ham fisted ly go. So how does the podcast help you? Because you know, I need my moment. You understand? Yeah, I mean, after you land on the trampoline, you stand there for a second because you're like, Yeah, someone ought to clap right now. And but anyway, but seriously, I try to what I really am trying to do is connect their stories to how the podcast helped them. So hopefully, it'll help somebody else. But, but the Joking aside, so many people say that it's the community aspect of the podcast, that's the most valuable part for them coming on every day and listening to someone else tell a story about their life. And I always knew it was important. I never could connect it completely. And so you had this opportunity. I assume your Instagram following grew mightily when you got to type one. Yeah, truly, now there's crazy community around type one diabetes that almost doesn't exist and other disease states. And so do you think? Do you think you'd still be in that space? If you didn't have those people to talk to?
Charlotte Drury 37:26
That's a really good question. Um, no. However, that's only because I have been through a lot in my life in sport, and with this diagnosis, and I have been forced to figure things out on my own before. And I am confident in my ability to figure things out and to get through things. However, did I arrive there a lot quicker and a lot more comforted and comfortable, because of the community. Absolutely. But I thoroughly believe that every single one of us as individuals, because we have to, can figure it out. However, we don't have to do it alone. We don't have to. And the fact that we have community makes it so much easier. And because all those people reached out and shared their their tidbits of information and what they've learned when they've been in these tough spots, probably by themselves as well. It just made it that much easier. They just showed me the way out.
Scott Benner 38:35
My Week is lining up so strangely. So you're 26. Last night, I interviewed a 26 year old girl who talked about how she had a very has an had a very tough life, and was not raised to find her way out of it. And she's doing it anyway. Right? She's finding these tools. And she's not just she's not just saying this is hard. Somebody helped me. She's figuring out how to help herself. And then she's dragging herself forward. And then looking ahead and figuring out the next thing and dragging yourself forward again. And I just had Sorry, I was just having this conversation like 16 hours ago with her about this thing. And then you said the same thing in a completely different way. Like we all have the capacity somehow and I think I'm looping in her story, which will come out much later than your so people won't have a lot of context. So I don't know what you want from me, but I just want to just hold it to you now. So it because it would be easy to look at you and go Oh, sure. The Olympic girl can do it. But I'm not that. Like I I think that sometimes like there's no reason I don't have a ton of famous people, as many as I could. Athletes, as many as I could, because they look like Superman sometimes. And you're like Oh yeah, sure. Superman dedic Great, what am I gonna do, you don't even like I can't jump up in the air. So like and, and at the same time, I think there's an amazing value in hearing that you a person who knows how to work really hard for something over extended amounts of time, which is a real skill. And a person who doesn't have nearly any of your conveniences, like, like coming up, how you both came to the same conclusion, you're gonna you're gonna get there differently with different ideas. But, I mean, it's just a very human idea. Like, we all can do something you don't I mean, and then wait and see what happens next, there's more, and there's more, and you could just kind of keep going. It's, you know, I mean, I don't know, I don't think of life as like a work to get to a party, I think of it is. Do my best today. So I'm gonna do my best tomorrow, you know, kind of thing? Yeah. Can you talk a little bit about what some of those people said that you found helpful in the moment?
Charlotte Drury 40:57
A lot of it that has stuck with me, especially even today of like, reframing how you think about what you're grateful for. Because everybody's always like, oh, make your gratitude list, you know, list five things that you're grateful for. And it's like, well, yeah, I'm grateful for five things, but I'm also really ungrateful for a lot of other things.
Scott Benner 41:18
My Netflix, being free is not overpowering the diabetes thing.
Charlotte Drury 41:24
Spring is not fixing the fact that my pancreas is broken, right? But it was reframe what it is you're grateful for. So you can hate this disease, but you can be grateful for life. Okay, I can do that. I am grateful for like, I am grateful for living, and I hate this disease. Another person wrote, whenever I start to really resent my broken pancreas, I start making a list out loud. And I list all the body parts that are working, and are doing their jobs, and that allow me to live my life. And so I also started doing that. And I say, thank you skin from for protecting me from the sun today. Thank you brain for helping me read this book today. Thank you eyes for working so well. Thank you nose for not being stuffy today. Like we should really think our noses more often for not being stuffy when they're not stuffy. And like, that was really impactful advice for me and putting gratitude in a lens that I felt like I could reach it in that moment.
Scott Benner 42:26
Can I ask you before you move on before you move on? Yeah, I don't want you to lose your place. But did you grow up in such a way where things worked out for you? No, no, the things work? Can you take take training out of it for a second? Did things just work out? Like the sofa was clean? The house was nice. Like that kind of stuff? Yeah. Right. Yeah. Expect and then you grew up. I know, this sounds crazy. I am really old when I say this. But the internet and cell phones change people's expectations of getting what they want when they want it. Like that idea. Like I think the example I used the other day talking to somebody is when you watch a TV show and you like I don't know who that is in the background. You just pause it, you look it up and like, oh, it's Joe Montana. Joe Montana is a character actor. And you and you know all about Joe Montana, his life at that point. Yeah, that happened to me when I was 26. I'd have to go to work and be like, Hey, have any of you ever seen this TV show? No. It's on Tuesdays at eight. If you could watch it, I just want to know who they like, there's no, like, I'm used to not getting the answers to my questions. And I grew up incredibly broke. I was used to things not going well. And I do wonder sometimes how that how that informs how I feel and what I do next, when things go wrong, because I almost expect things to go wrong. You know, and so when I do, I'm like, Okay, well, now we'll take care of this, you know, and anyway, but you also see you have this duality, where you grew up reasonably well. And at the same time, put yourself into something incredibly difficult. That was probably constantly knocking you down. Yes, yeah. Okay, so these both at the
Charlotte Drury 44:03
end of the day, I did have, you know, a safe, clean, happy home to always return to, right. Granted, I was there at night and sleeping, the majority of my day was in the gym, and the majority of my identities in the gym, but I always had a soft place to land. Right? So there's, there's that and that has definitely been formative to me in kind of giving me that like, underlying assumption that I'm always going to be okay. I will always figure it out. But I'm not scared that you know, I'm going to be on the streets or I'm not scared that my family is not going to be there for me one day, you know, like, I have that sense of strength and stability in my life that I'm so grateful for. But when it comes to sport, like oh my God, not a single thing, everyone right and this has been a therapy topic.
Scott Benner 45:00
Hey, you know, you just named your autobiography. Unless it's unless it's a like a colloquialism that people use that I've never heard before you just named your autobiography,
Charlotte Drury 45:09
a soft land, a soft place to land,
Scott Benner 45:13
see how it works? plane and then life? And I mean, I'm just saying it's a metaphor. It's all right. Honestly, yeah, I'm not even. I'm not even taking that for the title. Because that's for you. Although I would like to thank you at the end of the book, that's all
Charlotte Drury 45:29
you can be in the dedication.
Scott Benner 45:30
Yeah, that would be nice. Tell me about that, about putting yourself in terribly difficult situations on purpose. And then those situations torturing you. And you could just look at them and go, Hey, you know what, I'm not doing this anymore. But instead, you show back up every day and let it punch in the face again, what what's, what's wrong with you? Let's talk about what's wrong inside of your brain that you would put yourself through?
Charlotte Drury 45:56
I don't really have a good answer for that. Because I'm also like, Why did I do that? When I looked in the mirror in the morning, I was like, I am miserable. I hate this. This is horrible. Let's go to it. I think I think it was so ingrained in my identity of this is who I am. I am somebody who shows up. I am somebody who does the sport. I am somebody who does hard things. I said I was going to do this, and I'm going to see it through. Because I am somebody that sees things through. However, I have recently learned the value of quitting. And I have taken away the negative connotation that quitting has. And I think everybody should quit something in their life. And it's only just started to kind of unravel a little bit so that I can live a little bit of a softer, kinder, not so intense life. Yeah, I don't know. If you have an answer for me of where that came from, that would probably save you $1,000 in therapy. Well,
Scott Benner 46:57
listen, I don't know your parents, but that's where I would start and the let's skip past them for a minute. Are you incredibly competitive? I was yeah, I totally was more with yourself, or with the thing you were doing? Did you care more about the score? Or about doing it? Right?
Charlotte Drury 47:14
Doing it? Right? Yeah, my son. The thing is, is if I didn't write the score was good.
Scott Benner 47:18
So my son can leave a game that they lose nine to nothing, and have three good at bats and make a catch. And he'll be like I was I did perfect today. Like, you know, and he's more competitive with himself than he is. I think there's a world where my son could lose every baseball game he's ever been in, and still be somewhat fulfilled by it, although it would become a drudgery at some point. Right. But I'm always interested in that if people are like they do they want to win, or do they want to be good?
Charlotte Drury 47:49
Yeah, so I. So I think it's only slightly different because this is an individual sport, and the success or failure hinges solely on me and what I do
Scott Benner 48:02
same thing, so
Charlotte Drury 48:04
yeah, if I. Yeah. Yeah. So there's been times where I would have you know, won a competition but been a little bit disappointed that one thing didn't go right. And I would get hung up on that one thing. So I do think that it's definitely me being my biggest competitor.
Scott Benner 48:25
Are you a completionist? In other places? Do you start? Yeah. Do you start a movie that you don't like and watch the rest of it anyway?
Charlotte Drury 48:33
Do you know I don't like movies. That's a weird fact about me.
Scott Benner 48:36
That's okay. Pick something different puzzle book.
Charlotte Drury 48:40
Yes, I'll finish a book I don't like okay.
Scott Benner 48:43
All right. Well, here's the tough question. How old were you when you realize you didn't like is it tumbling? I'm sorry. This is the this is the thing. Everyone's gonna like the people who listen are not going to be surprised by this. But I told you right when we started, I'm gonna say something to you. You might find shocking. I don't know what sport you do.
Charlotte Drury 49:00
That's fair. I think that's refreshing. Also, it's trampling nobody knows what sport I'm doing.
Scott Benner 49:06
I figured it out as you were talking, but the first time you said it, I went Oh, okay. Cool. So we call trampoline trampoline. It's not trampolining.
Charlotte Drury 49:16
Correct. Correct. Trampoline is both a noun and a verb.
Scott Benner 49:19
Okay. And so let me ask you then How old were you the first time you realize you were better at it than other people your age?
Charlotte Drury 49:28
I'm on it. Honestly, like it took a really long time. I so I did artistic gymnastics from three till 13 Quit artistic gymnastics nursery thinks they're so burned out and realized that I wasn't gonna go to the Olympics for it. And I was like, that's not worth it. If I'm going to be working out five to eight hours a day to not go to the Olympics, that doesn't sound Sure. So quit that and then started trampling for fun, like, solely because they needed something to do I always think I carried that kind of like chip on my shoulder from artistic gymnastics of I'm not actually that good. I'm just kind of doing it. I'm not the best. I've never been the best. And so even when I was like, winning senior league nationals, and I was like, Oh, well, I'm just not, I'm not the best. Like, I am not the best. Maybe I won this competition, but I am not the best. So it took me like a really long time to even knowledge, the fact that I was really good at the sport.
Scott Benner 50:30
That's what keeps you going. That's why people who are good at things are good at them, though. Because they don't they don't sit back and rest. They don't they don't say, Oh, look how good I am. This is as good as I need to be at this is always something else. And something more and a fine tune here. Or you get to somewhere where it feels like a pinnacle. And you go, it's Pentacles not high enough. I'm going to tear this down. I'm going to tear it down and rebuild it again and start over and better the next time. I've watched my son tried to hit a baseball since he was three years old. I know what you're talking about. So it's exhausting. Yeah. And it's actually funny, because right now he's talking about going to grad school to keep playing. And I'm trying to find the words to say, Are you sure you want to do that? Before before? And I don't want to dissuade him if he really does want to do it, but and I but I it's a weird position to be in, right? Because I don't want to be the person that steps in and says, Hey, Charlotte, stop bouncing up and down on that thing. You got other things you could write, right? Because then you might stop and three years from now by like, this guy knew. Yeah, yeah, me stop doing this. And so I don't want to do that to my son. And at the same time, I don't want him to wake up five years from now and be in your position where you're like, Why the hell was I doing that for so long? You know, and especially when the when the payoff at the end? Is so unlikely to begin with. And but you were on it, like you were you were you really weren't right, you were headed to it? Is that right? Yeah. Do you think? So? Tell me that. So let's go back for a second you get diabetes? How far off are the Olympics at that moment?
Charlotte Drury 52:07
timewise. They're three months away three months
Scott Benner 52:09
away? Have you qualified? Are you trying to qualify?
Charlotte Drury 52:13
We still had all of the qualifiers to go through. So we had country qualification. So we still needed to compete at a World Cup to get the US spot. There were still that uncertainty. And then I still had three Olympic trials to compete at.
Scott Benner 52:27
Do you have any confidence that it would have gone your way?
Charlotte Drury 52:31
Had I not had diabetes? Yeah. Yes.
Scott Benner 52:34
Yeah, absolutely. Thank you, it would have worked out.
Charlotte Drury 52:37
Totally. And I mean, I do have like, you know, the evidence to support that as well. Because in 2020, before pandemic, and that season started in end of January, I think it was in February competed a World Cup. And I competed at a at the first Olympic trial of 2020. And knock those both out of the water, like I was in fighting for him. And I felt really good. And I for as tumultuous as my entire elite career has been, that was the first time where I was kind of having that thought, again, in a very long time of, I think this might work out, I think I can do this, it, it's right there. And I really didn't believe that I was going to get to that point again. Because also, my God, there's so much I mean, this Olympic cycle was really hard. The last Olympic cycle was worse. It was It destroyed me as a human being, I mean, just wrecked me, I was training for the 2016 Olympics. And I ended up breaking my foot the day before the last Olympic trial. So I had made it all the way up until that point training from three years old, to I was 20. And I survived a lifetime of training, just to literally break my foot the day before I was going to reach my goal. And I also kind of came in with a younger mentality, you know, I was 20 years old. And all I knew was this. So losing that, you know, my life is over. Not only is that I just lose the Olympics, I definitely lost my entire identity. So coming into this Olympics and getting diabetes, and seeing that decline and thinking that my grasp on the Olympics is going to be loosening and slowing down and I guess I'm losing it again. I wasn't as distraught by it, because I came in with a lot of a different mentality than I did in 2016. Because I saw how bad that destroyed me not making it and I wasn't really gonna let myself get back to that point.
Scott Benner 54:44
Have you made Have you met Kate Hall yet? No. Do you know who she is? No. Okay. So Kate is a long jumper. Who has type one? Who if I'm not mistake and blew up something in her leg right before the Olympics last time.
Charlotte Drury 55:05
The club no one wants to be in. Yeah.
Scott Benner 55:07
Kate Hall 2043 on Instagram. Okay, you guys might look her up, you might have a lot in common.
Unknown Speaker 55:15
That'd be the most depressing dinner party.
Scott Benner 55:18
Hey, Kate. Remember when the sadness washed over you? I do Charlotte. I remember the sadness. Should we get wine? Probably. How do you Bolus for wine? I don't know. If I want to jump off a bridge? Sure. So
Charlotte Drury 55:35
it'd be a soft place to land? Probably.
Scott Benner 55:40
Maybe, right. I mean, you you're, you probably there's probably a trampoline. Do you still? Do you work out at this point? Like just for personal fitness? Or how do you? How do you go backwards that far.
Charlotte Drury 55:55
It's only recently that I've started to even incorporate like physical activity into my life again. I definitely after I mean after 2016 as well. And after this past games, do that, like full pendulum rebound of working out all day long to absolutely doing nothing. And refusing to step in a gym and I don't think I'll ever stepped foot in a gym. Gym, not a gymnastics gym. I would love to go back and play around on a trampoline because I do love trampoline. I love bouncing. But will I go lift weights again? Probably not. But I do like to like, go out for walks. Maybe I'll jog for a little bit of it. Maybe I'll rent a little bit. Love bike riding. I love the like, lifestyle. Fitness, like the ways that I can incorporate activity and movement into just my life. Instead of having to carve out hours of my day to work out.
Scott Benner 56:54
If you haven't felt like this. Don't let me lead you there. But do you ever feel like a pawn in someone else's game? Like your college? Right? And I'm assuming they probably paid for a lot of it because you were you know, an athlete for them? Do you ever stop and look back and think nobody cares about my education? I'm just here because I can do trampoline. And because they can take pictures of me and put it on their social media and bring other kids in and go look bouncy girl, she's gonna go to the Olympics. Don't you want to get an English degree from us? Like like that? Does that? Does that? Did that happen? Did you think about that?
Charlotte Drury 57:28
I, I felt like that in a slightly different way. Because I did go to college. But it had nothing to do with trampoline, there was no trampoline program in college. So I was going to school and doing trampoline for the national team completely as two separate things. So, you know, college was something that I chose to do outside of sport. But I did I do feel like a pawn or I really felt like a soldier for gymnastics, where I was doing the hardest job in the organization. But was told that I was replaceable and told that I wasn't important and that it's not about me. It's about what I can do. And and yeah, it feels I do remember having that like specific lightbulb moment. I could tell you exactly where I was standing when I was like, hang on. This is really backwards. This is really wrong. Like did you ever watch the good place? Yeah,
Scott Benner 58:25
I love that show.
Charlotte Drury 58:25
You know, when that moment where she's like, Oh my god, this is the bad place? Yeah, like I've had that moment of like, oh my god, this isn't right. This is not how human beings should be treated. Athletes should be treated. This is not how I want to be valued. This is not how I want my life to be built. I don't like feeling like this. I don't like feeling like I'm replaceable and not poor. And yeah, only as good as what my score is tell me I am.
Scott Benner 58:54
It's like somebody takes the the culmination of your life's work and a major part of your identity. And they've built another thing that's based on you doing that. And you realize that in this moment, while you're competing, you have all of these desires and focuses and the person maybe even coaching you doesn't really care about you. They care about coaching, something that wins with the person that pays them is happy and they keep their job and it's almost it becomes not about the sport anymore. It becomes about everybody sustaining each other's entity. And I've just I've had those feelings. I've looked over at some of my son's coaches, and I thought he does not even know my kid. He just knows he catches that ball. I keep this job. That's that's how it feels sometimes.
Charlotte Drury 59:45
Yeah, and I think at a certain level, it's totally like that. intrinsics of course, but the reason I was able to survive 2021 was because my coach cared about me as a person. 40 cared about me as an athlete. That's excellent. He absolutely was my number one supporter of me as Charlotte as the person. That second I told him that I got this diagnosis. He didn't ask me about coming to the gym. He didn't ask me when I was coming back what my plan was what I wanted to do. He said, Take all the time you need, I'm here to meet me. Like, that's good. He's my number one.
Scott Benner 1:00:25
And also, I'm going to be honest with you, I had an ulterior motive for asking the question, I wasn't sure where you're gonna come back, because I've had this other thought that I've wondered about, and you seem just honest enough to answer this question. So let's see it feel like when suddenly a bunch of diabetes media outlets approach you, because you're one person that got diabetes today, but you look like you're going to the Olympics. And now suddenly, you're in the middle of, um, you described it earlier, right? You're completely confused. You don't know what's going on. Your health is all over the place. You're worried about your life, everything seems like it's gone. And then someone's like, Hey, I just got the funniest text. I'm gonna tell you about a second. I did some. And they're like, Hey, we know who you are. You're wearing something that says USA on the front of it, and you got diabetes, we want to interview you. Now. You're just upon again, right? But now for a different situation. But you You did it. So like, I'm not taking it, I would have done it too. I'm just asking, like, are you aware while it's happening? Or no.
Charlotte Drury 1:01:28
I think looking back, I have a lot more clarity. Now that the dust has settled on this last year. Because again, everything happened so fast. And there is one thing that not bothers me, but something that that I am really aware of. And it's I don't know how to really put this in words, it's like, I guess I feel like an imposter. I feel like I'm not really the person. That should be, you know, the diabetes poster child for diabetics, sport. Like, I did have diabetes for the year, before leading into the games. And I was diagnosed three months before the games. But I didn't know what I was doing. Like, I was just trying to survive. I was relying on all of the training that I had my whole life. Just to get through these three months, and doing these interviews now and having this attention and being in people being so excited, and being so inspired by it. And I was done propelled forward by that support. But I also like, God, the people that are diagnosed at two years old, the people that are diagnosed at 6789 10. Like, you guys are truly something else. You guys are truly like, I don't think I could have done that. Like
Scott Benner 1:02:49
somebody in those people. Right? Yeah. So
Charlotte Drury 1:02:52
So earlier, I'm a platform because they're the real superstars of this. Yeah.
Scott Benner 1:02:56
So earlier, I joked, I was half joking and half not joking about not reaching out to you at first, because people told me that I don't like to be told what to do, which is my own problem, right. But the other part of it that I didn't mention was, I don't like it when that happens for you. I don't know you, I have no reason to feel protective of you. But when people were like, ask this girl, I was like, Can she just leave this girl alone? Like, she just got diabetes, like her whole life looks like it's falling apart, and you're making her like, stand up and smile and go, I have type one, and I'm okay. And I'm like, I mean, I know it's inspirational for people. But you could be just as inspirational a year later. It doesn't need to be right now. So there's something about that click Beatty nature of content. And I don't buy into it. Like if you go back and look at the I mean, this podcast might have almost 700 episodes at this point. Wow. And the way you finish things I'd like for you to start at the beginning because I feel like I could get 700 Good downloads out of you, but but she's like, I'm not giving up now. He was terrible in season three. No, I wasn't. But, but I like just talking to regular people. They don't hide things. They're not practiced. They don't think oh, I can't say that. or I shouldn't say this. They just tell their story. And and I think just what you think put them out front, I mean, some of the biggest names in this space. Some of these people I really like. And I know a number of them. I don't want them on the podcast. They're just gonna say the same thing. They say all the time when somebody asks them a question. Again, it's not their fault. They're their dogs almost like
Charlotte Drury 1:04:33
they're just like, they're so scared of saying something that will alienate anybody. And I get it. I have been there. I mean, I've been Yeah, like, you know, the Little Miss Perfect gymnast, like doing interviews and saying great things about everybody all the time. Like it's only like recently that I really wanted to be a lot more honest because that's what connects with people and selfishly That's how people connect with me. And I need that connection.
Scott Benner 1:05:03
Everyone needs a trial it it's the it's the obvious elephant in the room that everyone ignores. They would rather say, Hey, today we're going to interview this person whose name you might have heard who also has diabetes, instead of saying, I don't know, I could pull up a list of 1000 names, right? Instead of saying, Look, this is an and had some kids, one of them got sick. Here's what happened. You know what I mean? And that's because we're all in. And we're all Charlotte. We're not all Olympians. And I listen, I've come out and say it. I've had people on the show before who were famous. And I tried to ask them about their diabetes. They don't know the first thing about, like, you know, and you're just and then people listen to the show. And they're like, Hey, I've been waiting for so long for this person. And they came on, and they were not valuable. And I'm like, yeah. Welcome to the life of someone who has a trainer, you know what I mean? Or who's somebody who's a meal ticket for somebody and no one's gonna let their blood sugar get out of control? Because they know how to catch a ball or do a thing. Make money for other people? Yeah,
Charlotte Drury 1:06:08
it's just a different life. And that might be really relatable for a very small demographic of people who are also in that in that circle. You know, the majority, it's probably
Scott Benner 1:06:18
not, you know, I once had on Mark Andrews Mom, he's the tight end for the the Baltimore Ravens, it'd be so much for telling me that it would be. It would be cool if he was on, but it's way cooler to talk to his mom. Like she raised them with diabetes, you know, like, it's just I'm not saying he wouldn't. I mean, maybe I don't know the guy probably come on here be terrific. And shut me right up. But but you know, like, it's, I just want to talk smack about it. He's like, I heard you thought I wasn't gonna be interesting. Let's learn, I'm gonna be interesting. So by the way, if Mark Andrews hears this, of course, you can come on. That's not the point. The point is that is that real people's stories, not that Mark Andrews isn't a real person or that you're not a real person. It's just that you're not that real people aren't practiced. And they're not worried about saying something. And as you and I were talking, I started feeling like this person, you, you're in the middle of a metamorphosis right now, like you are really shifting, you know what I mean? And feels like you want to be whoever you think you're supposed to be. And not the person you spent a lot of time being. Am I right about that?
Charlotte Drury 1:07:27
I think if you'd asked me six months ago, I'd be like, yeah, absolutely. That's exactly what is happening. I'd also probably be crying. If you actually recognize,
Scott Benner 1:07:35
if you want to cry, Charlotte, that'd be terrific. It really helps the podcast.
Charlotte Drury 1:07:39
ratings go sky.
Scott Benner 1:07:41
Love it when you're crying. No, I'm just kidding.
Charlotte Drury 1:07:44
But no, I do agree. I think I think I have gone through a lot in the last year. I feel like I've got a lot gone through a lot in the last eight years, I am only recently finding peace and what I've been through. And I really feel like the common theme that has now woven through the last couple of months is peace is that I found that I can be where my feet are, and that I can be happy with that. And that I don't have to pretend that I'm doing okay. And I don't have to pretend that everything's great and easy and wonderful, because that's the story that everybody wants to hear. Yeah, like I get to be a little bit more honest. And this is this community is very receiving I don't really feel like I have to perform on social media whatsoever I do. Fully just like to be me on it. It's not a friend or anything like that. But my therapist also said something. She was like you're we're are kind of caught between paradoxes right now, like your whole life is a little bit of a paradox because you are simultaneously so grateful to be out of sport. But I also really want to be back in it. Like there's a part of me that craves to be there again. And I'm, how is that possible? And I'm also simultaneously the happiest that I've ever been, but struggling with this really big thing. And so it's really confusing. I'm confused all the time.
Scott Benner 1:09:09
I'm always worried about performers. And if you're an art if you're a sports person, or an artist or something, you're a performer, like I have to some degree with this, like, what happens when your thing goes away? Where do you get your jolt? Where do you get your Jolt from? The the name that I always fall on recently is a former New York met and Philadelphia Philly Lenny Dykstra who slife just complete like prison drugs like tech something like I mean, a lot, a lot of you like, and I always looked at him and I felt bad, because I was like, That guy is just looking for that jolt that he felt when he hit that baseball or when he ran a ball down in a corner and 60,000 people scream like where do you get that from every day? You know what I mean? Like, yeah, so you've got this unnatural level of feedback, and then suddenly it's gone and listen I mean, I talked to a lot of people, I don't know one of them, really. But I can tell you that a lot of people are going to hear the conversation you and I are having. And if you suddenly told me, I didn't have an outlet for my thoughts anymore, I don't know that I wouldn't feel like you feel right now. You know, like, because this is a thing I do that I enjoy. And if you just took it from me right away, it would be hard to transfer to I think the transition? I really do. Absolutely, yeah. So I mean,
Charlotte Drury 1:10:29
as much as it is, as we all want to be human beings, no matter what, we are going to be a little bit of human doings. Like, who what we do, greatly influences who we are, that is inescapable, there's no way to get around that. But I have recently found a balance, and I don't want to be like preaching this. But the balance of finding things that you can do that are consistent, that won't be taken away from me. So the things that truly make me happy, it's really traveling, it's been in nature, it's connecting with people, those are things that I'm always going to be able to do. And whether or not it's, you know, trampoline and the success and the daily wins, or the daily losses that I get from that, that drives me forward. Like that. That always translatable to something else. But kind of, I guess I've stacked my identity with so many things now. But if you take any one thing out, towers not gonna fall.
Scott Benner 1:11:28
That's excellent. I am, I'm older than you by a lot. And recently, my wife and I are just trying to make sure that you know, our retirement looks like it's coming together. And the person who's helping us with that said, Well, what do you want to do when you retire? And I joked my way through it, and then later told my wife and told him, he's a friend. I said, that's the worst thing anybody's asked me in two years. I said, because I just see myself as a tool. I see myself in a couple of ways. I see myself as a tool that makes money. So the people I love are okay. And I see myself as a tool who makes diabetes content, so people with diabetes can be happier and healthier. If you take those things from me and told me I'm retired, I honestly don't know what would make me happy. And yeah, and I'm really lucky because the feeling of calm, that you're doing something valuable. I get out of this podcast, like the idea that I pay a bill, help people and enjoy what I'm doing, I think is magical. Like, I don't know how I got that lucky. And I also think while you're talking, how crazy is it that most people just want a little bit of that jolt and can't find it day to day? And then the people who get it get an unnatural amount of it. Right? Yeah, you've got a middle ground. Yeah, like why couldn't like why can't Lenny Dykstra or you share your pie with 100 other people so that people aren't driving home 1000 miles an hour screaming at each other out windows and yelling at people online, just trying to find some excitement, you know what I mean, like somewhere, and meanwhile, you've got more than anybody needs in the whole world. It's just
Charlotte Drury 1:13:08
I think it's funny that also that, that's kind of the perception that people have of me. I might just be because trampling is a very obscure sport that doesn't have like this massive fan base. It's not like it's basketball, or even artistic gymnastics. Like, I really don't feel like I've ever had this much attention, or, like, you know, a stadium of people clapping for me,
Scott Benner 1:13:35
like, coming from your parents. Were they proud of you? Did you not want to let them down any of that stuff?
Charlotte Drury 1:13:45
To be honest, I really think that my head was down. And I was working so hard that I wasn't really looking. I mean, obviously, their approval and their support meant so much to me, and I'll probably unpack that in the next couple of years. Of like, how much that meant to me. But I think it was important that I was proving to myself that I was good enough. And I think that's truly what my driver was, because if we're really gonna get into it, I myself, my biggest thing is that I've never been good enough. And that's really what's driven me forward through a lot of things is, oh, I will be good enough when I reach this goal, or I will be good enough when I do this, or worthy, like whatever word you want to put in there that connects with you. It's it's, it's always that sense of incompleteness. And I just don't know that I ever received that from sport, even making an Olympic team. I don't feel any more complete than I did before making the team and I don't feel any less complete, but I feel like exactly the same person. And the things that truly fill me up. Have nothing to do with sport anymore.
Scott Benner 1:14:51
Are you having any trouble with those feelings? And then are you applying them to diabetes like are you feeling competitive about or health in an unhealthy way or anything like that.
Charlotte Drury 1:15:03
I definitely was, especially while I was still training, it was, I'm going to be the perfect diabetic, I'm going to be the best diabetic you've ever seen. Because I have three months to figure this out. And I need to was my excuse. But the truth was, I was just terrified. And I was I was just scared, I just wanted to be perfect with that management. And that's also something that's kind of unraveled in the last couple of months, and kind of led to that meltdown a couple of weeks ago, of, I can't be perfect, I'm too tired. I'm, I'm too tired dealing with this every single moment of every single day. And so I took my my glucose monitor off, and I just kind of said, Screw it, like, let's just relax for a week, I'm obviously going to still be safe and take care of myself to the best of my intuitive ability. But I can't I can't do this constant perfectionist mentality of everything needs to be perfect.
Scott Benner 1:15:55
Yeah, you need to find a way to put your head where Rhiness like, I want it to be good. And when it's not, I just move on. I don't I don't, I used to torture myself when my daughter's blood sugar got out of hand. Like I really would torture myself about it. And I just mean, like, sit there and think like, oh, you messed this up, or blah, blah. And then one day I was like, I can't like how is this sustainable? You know, like, I have to stop doing this. I thought a little bit about when my son was little. Before he went to play baseball, I would hug him because I'd been a stay at home dad for a really long time. So I'd hug him, I tell him, I love you. None of this matters. Go have fun. And then send them out. And as he got older, that changed into I love you. You're only playing baseball to get better at baseball, today's outcome is not important. Go have fun. And there was one time he was recruiting for college. And we were in a car and we were about to get out of it. I looked at him. I said, Hey, man, it actually really matters today. Like go out there. Like it really matters because I think this is this is where decisions get made today, you know? And he was like, Okay, I said, still have fun. But go for it, you know, just really go for it. And he did. And I do think today he is he is still who he is. And it applies to sport the way it does, it also applies to other things in his life. But he's not completely connected to it. And I want to hope that that is in some way from me saying this doesn't matter. grand scheme of things. You're not You're not a baseball player your call like go, you know, and? And I don't know, like, because you're gonna have to disconnect from all of that. I mean, you're wired a certain way, obviously, it is not going to be good. If you apply that to diabetes management over a lifetime, you're gonna be bad for you, right? I mean, that's the kind of thinking that leads to, I mean, eating disorders and, and all kinds of stuff, which I'm not saying you're here, I'm just saying that's not a path you want to go down, obviously.
Charlotte Drury 1:18:02
Oh, for sure. And just to kind of like, touch again on what you were saying to call of like, when that moment came of after, you know, his lifetime of training. And you said this moment does matter. And he didn't choke in that moment. And he was able to perform, and he was able to do it. Because he had a lifetime of preparation that said, I am Cole I am not baseball. And he just was able to go and have fun in the sport for a lifetime up to it. That's why he could perform in that moment. You know, when the pressure was on, he could draw on all of that experience. But if you put that pressure on a kid who's nine years old, and you said you need to win this game, or you need to win this meet, it's gonna freak out.
Scott Benner 1:18:47
I don't understand why people believe that that's the way to talk to anybody, let alone children. But like now do it now we're all gonna die. Well, you know, right there. I think we're in trouble. Because right, yeah, you're panicking the hell out of me. I think
Charlotte Drury 1:18:59
I think I remember getting told before an Olympic qualifier. And I think it was like, in good heart. But it was what you because it was just me competing at this meeting. If I didn't do well, at this beat, there was no spot for the United States and the Olympic Games. And it was like you need to perform so that everybody else for the rest of their life can say that they competed in US Olympic trials.
Scott Benner 1:19:30
Okay, I'm in charge everybody. Great. So just everybody's happiness, though. Is that all I'm in charge of right now. Yeah,
Charlotte Drury 1:19:39
exactly. I'm in charge of everybody's rest of life.
Scott Benner 1:19:42
Great. How old were you then by the way?
Charlotte Drury 1:19:45
I was 19. Yeah, it's
Scott Benner 1:19:46
perfect timing. That's a great time to be put in charge of everybody's life. You're really your finger on the pulse at that point. No, I fit but see, I think of everything that way. I mentioned recently on the podcast. If you liked the way that I talked about diabetes and it helps you it's really just the way I think about life translated to diabetes, you know, and, and I agree so much with what you just said, like when people the way it the way I think of it now is when people always say to me is my daughter's growing up? Will sure you're good at it, but how are you going to explain it to her. And I would always say, I'm not going to just explain it to her, she's going to live it. And through me, I'm going to shoulder most of it, she's going to see it happen. And she'll take from it what she needs. And one day, she's just going to know. And to your point, one day, my son's just gonna be able to walk out in front of I mean, I'm telling you 300 college coaches on a field the size of like, it was, like, massive, and everyone's holding a clipboard and looking at you, and it's baseball. So it's one at a time, your turn now, go catch the ball, you better do it better than the other kid, don't mess up Don't trip, when you get the ball in your hand, throw it to the right place. If you look bad for half a second, you actually see people look down and write and you can see lines, or you can see writing lines or writing on clipboards. And you can't be thinking about it in that moment. And I think diabetes is the same way. I think at the moment, you're thinking about it too much. And I swear to you, this is not a sales pitch. I don't listen, you and I are never gonna see each other after this. I agree. I've had a lovely time talking to you. But you know, but if shit goes sideways for you, Charlotte, what am I going to do? You don't I mean, but I could lay a list of episodes on you that I think would make your management easier. Cool. I think it would put you where you want it to be. And I think it would in a month or so's time. You would start doing things without thinking about them. And I think that's something a lot of people drive with. But you especially because I imagine that you just land on your feet on that trampling you don't. I guess when you think about it, you're in trouble. Right? Like you need to feel it. Exactly. Yeah. I think you need to feel diabetes. That's how I that's how I do it. And a lot of people listen to the show do it. Same way. I think it would work really well for you. I think I could maybe get two pages in that autobiography one day one. Yeah, well, I get one real estate. I mean, listen, I'm gonna save your life. And then the book. I deserve a little bit of a spot. You know what I mean? Like Jesus, you get really grumpy all the sudden, it's just an extra page, Charlotte, just tell them just tell the publisher, Look, I told this guy would do this. negotiable. I'm not going to charge your money for it. I just would like to see it happen. I wrote a book Charlotte and let me tell you something, it takes a lot of time. I wish they'd do it. It's just it takes so much time. And then you have to like pump it and pump it to get people to buy it. And then they buy it. And then it's it's gone. It's like an Instagram post that gets 1000s of likes. And then a week later, you look back and it has only gotten one more in six weeks. Like why just the world still not know about my amazing Instagram post. The book did this thing. It was like on fire and then it was gone. What did
Charlotte Drury 1:23:00
you here's, here's my question for you. Did you write the book to write the book? Or did you write the book to publish the book?
Scott Benner 1:23:07
Oh, that's interesting. I wrote the book. So I was offered a blurb in someone else's book. I've never told the story. Exactly, honestly, because I think it hurts somebody's feelings.
Charlotte Drury 1:23:18
That's okay. They probably will hear it. You think
Scott Benner 1:23:21
they're lovely people. And I don't mean it this way. So. So I was asked to write a blurb. I wrote a blurb. I think there's about 1000 words. Their publisher called me one day and said, Hey, do you have any ideas for books? And I said, What? And she goes, your 1000 words are probably the best 1000 words in that book. Do you want to write a book? And I was like, Yeah, because I want to write a book because I barely graduated from high school. And I was like, seriously, me? Sure. Why not? And so we're talking and she wanted it to be about diabetes. And I said, No, no, I'm not going to do that. I said, I'm not ready to talk to people about how to manage their diabetes. And for it to be somewhere forever static. I said that I am a stay at home dad, I think I have great stories about that. I could write about that. And she's like, alright, you have a week to send me an outline. So I wrote the outline in like 10 minutes. And then I sat on it for six days to make it look like I worked really hard on it. Of course, thank you. And I sent it to them, and they're like done, we'll send you this much money now. And in six months, you send us the manuscript, and we'll send you the other half. And I was like, Cool. I remember exactly my house where I called my wife while she was at work. I was like, I'm gonna write a book, it's gonna get published. And she's like, can you write a book? I swear to God, this is my wife. So again, if she's been nice to me, like four times, can you write a book? She says, and I go, I don't know. But I'm gonna find out. Yeah, exactly. That's the worst thing that happens is like giving back the advance. And I don't read a book. I'm like, I'm going to try you know. So, I will tell you that it's cool to be published. I don't look down on people who are self published, but when I see people self publish things there There's a small part of me that goes, somebody paid me to do it, but okay, and they're absolutely. So I have a little that I am very, I'm going to be honest with you. I'm incredibly competitive. Like, I love this podcast. Oh my god, I love that people love this podcast. But I love also that it's like the most popular one.
Charlotte Drury 1:25:20
Of course, nobody wants to be average at what they do.
Scott Benner 1:25:23
It does make me feel good. A little bit like I don't run around like, like, I'm not like, Listen, you know, listen,
Charlotte Drury 1:25:32
egos, Freud can go, you guys are a good thing. egos are good. To an extent. They, if you can get your ego filled in a healthy way from a certain outlet, it allows you to not have an ego in other places. It allows you to be a humble father, when you succeed at work. It allows you to be a failure of a writer or failure of a photographer, if you can succeed at something else, because you have the cushion to try because you said well, I know I can succeed at something.
Scott Benner 1:26:09
It also helps me stay motivated. Like I record this week, as an example, I recorded this podcast five times this week. So I've had probably five, six, I've probably had seven and a half hours of conversations this week. And a lot of talking Yeah. And in that time, I'm also editing the show and putting it off and supporting it online. It's a full like it's about a 75 an hour. Yeah, probably 75 hours a week, I put out a podcast. And if it was just mundane for me. I know it would it would wane but there's part of me that likes waking up in the morning and going like forget other like diabetes podcast forget health podcast. This This show is in the 96th percentile. All podcasts on Apple. Well, that I that's cool. Yeah. If I ever get tired, I think about that. I sit right down. And I'm like, so you're depressed and you have diabetes? Let's talk. You know, like, interesting. Yeah, I can I can, I can do it. Because I also listen to all that aside. I know how much it helps people. And it's amazing. You know what I mean? Like this the best the best thing I've ever done in my life, like aside on my children in my family, like making this for people's really cool. Yeah, the scopes important? Because I'm sure other people make great content that I'm unaware of. But if no one's listening to it.
Charlotte Drury 1:27:27
Listen. Yeah, exactly. You can't be a fan of something that you've never heard of.
Scott Benner 1:27:32
Right. So someone's got to see it bouncing up and down on that trampoline. Or what's the point? You know, exactly, then it's just anyway, all right.
Charlotte Drury 1:27:41
Yeah. Well, I have a question. I got one more question. Do you know your Enneagram number? Because I feel like I know your Enneagram number.
Scott Benner 1:27:47
My what number? Your Enneagram Oh, God. Two years old Charlotte, have you not just been impressed that I've kept up with this conversation and you're 26 You want me to start knowing things that younger people understand
Charlotte Drury 1:28:02
that? Okay, here's Okay, here's your homework.
Scott Benner 1:28:04
I got the internet. Go take
Charlotte Drury 1:28:05
the Enneagram test. It's not a quick thing. You can't do it right now.
Scott Benner 1:28:09
I gotta find it or I'm never gonna remember it. i My brain is not like, it's like,
Charlotte Drury 1:28:15
okay, okay. Once you do it, we'll circle back for part two. And we're going to we're going to dive into your Enneagram
Scott Benner 1:28:22
the Enneagram Institute.
Charlotte Drury 1:28:25
You can do it. The reading you take the test in a lot of different places. It's
Scott Benner 1:28:29
called a reading test. Rizzo Hudson. Enneagram. Trudy Trudy Yeah, Jesus very specific. What are we married, right? You're doing it wrong. Go to Trudy an idiot. Understand who you really are. Oh, God, this seems very scary.
Charlotte Drury 1:28:50
You're gonna love it. It's gonna be great.
Scott Benner 1:28:51
Right? You say? Yep. I have a hunch. Good.
Charlotte Drury 1:28:56
I have a hunch I should I spill it or should I'm going to hold I don't want to influence your results
Scott Benner 1:29:02
can influence my results. There's no way I'll remember I recorded like five of these a week. I just I'm getting
Charlotte Drury 1:29:09
I'm getting strong too with a one wing
Scott Benner 1:29:12
here to with a one way I won't remember that. So I'll just write it down. Okay, write it down. We'll circle back. I had a person on Tuesday who recorded a beautiful after dark episode when they about her life struggles young mom. She has type one her son cancer at a young age terrible story is one of my favorite episodes. And I asked her to come back on and she comes on we're talking for six minutes before I go oh, I know who you are. I am the worst. I don't. I know people. It's very it's very popular to say you don't prep for your content. Right because it makes you seem like all like I honestly I'm relatable. I swear to God when you started talking. I was like gymnastics. I don't know. it'll it'll come out, you know, and I really, I don't I don't know I don't prep for this at all.
Charlotte Drury 1:30:10
That's why today was so fun. It was so refreshing.
Scott Benner 1:30:13
I'm glad best best interview you've done since you have diabetes. Yeah. Oh,
Charlotte Drury 1:30:18
all right. How about anybody else that's interviewed me though?
Scott Benner 1:30:22
No. Well, those people obviously did the best for you. They obviously did the garbage. That's no reason to be upset. That's not fun at all. Just very good at this. It's not their fault. You know what I mean? So no drugs. By the way, no one has been here. What's the pressure like for that? In doing drugs? Yeah, like for enhancing drugs in the Olympics? I never tested but I mean, people gotta get away with it. Right.
Charlotte Drury 1:30:51
I feel like in other sports, it's like, the pressures way bigger, like cycling and weightlifting, when it's like, it would make a difference. But in trampoline, it really wouldn't make a difference. Like I guess maybe you could be a little bit stronger. But
Scott Benner 1:31:04
rehab faster. Still not an issue, though.
Charlotte Drury 1:31:07
I mean, I mean, I guess it's just never crossed my mind. But I don't know what can make you flip better. Or like be better. In the air.
Scott Benner 1:31:17
You know, is the flipping all, like, muscle memory practice? And then letting go? Yeah, yeah.
Charlotte Drury 1:31:24
My best routines that I've competed, I'll finish. And I'll be like, I don't remember any of that. Was it good? I wasn't there for it.
Scott Benner 1:31:34
Yeah, my you know, it's so funny. You say that, because I'll go downstairs and my wife will be like, how was it? I'll be like, great. Good. What are you talking about? Like, I don't know. What's going on? I'm like, she's like, how do you know what's going on? Like, I don't know. I feel like it went well. And there are times I walked downstairs. I'm like, I don't know if I did very well today, or I was tired or something. Yeah. And then I'll listen back or I'll get a note. People are like, I love that episode. I'm like, oh, so it doesn't always have to be the way I want it to be it you know, other people can find it differently. Charlotte, you and I get along very well. This was delightful. This it? Oh, I say delightful all the time. That you said it and I didn't the people listening now we're gonna be like, feel stolen? No, it's Mecca. People are people are like, Oh, my God, Scott made her feel delightful without telling her that I'm telling you right now there are people just fanning themselves everywhere that like it happened. Do you want to hear about that? Do you want me to say something really tell you about the text that I said, Oh my God, I'll tell you about this. I do. I do. I do. So someone's gonna judge my daughter over this, but just let it go. My daughter and I are in the car the other day. And she's you know, she's getting ready to graduate from high school. And she's like, you know, we had such a calm year at school. She's like, there haven't been any big fights. There's no teen pregnancies. Like it's just been such a boring year. I got a text while you and I were talking. It says My wish came true. We got a teen pregnancy in school.
Charlotte Drury 1:33:01
Oh, this is like the equivalent of like reality TV in our society. Yeah,
Scott Benner 1:33:04
she like has my personality, but she's in like a smaller female person who's younger.
Charlotte Drury 1:33:09
So that's funny, though. That's funny. She should have a podcast.
Scott Benner 1:33:13
She trusts me. She was on one episode of this. And I get notes pretty much daily. Can Arden come back on the podcast? She's like, she's like, she's like, I don't care about all this, like, people I had sent questions for. And she's like, I don't I don't want to know I don't like she's like, this is your thing. I don't. Because I told her one day I was listening. I was like, the podcast is really popular. It's like you sure you don't want to come on at once in a while, maybe take it over when I get older. And she's like, No, like, Alright, fine. I felt like girl. I felt like I was a plumber. And I said to my son like, I can teach you how to better take over the family business. Yeah. And he was like, I want to go to college. I'm like, but we got trucks in the shop and everything. Who am I gonna give it to? You know? Anyway. You were really terrific. And I would say delightful. But you beat me to it. I stole it. Hey, do you know 1234567 It looks like you and I said seven. Well now eight times. But that's okay. I have a clean shows I just edited out they'll be like this little blip. I don't want to lose the show. Believe it or not. I can't run the show in India if I curse on it, and a couple of other places. Yeah, and it's popular.
Charlotte Drury 1:34:27
How much of an international audience do you get information on your demographics? Do they give you that?
Scott Benner 1:34:31
Do you want to do this right now? Do you think people care like we can stop recording but I can tell you
Charlotte Drury 1:34:36
they could they could duck out whenever they want. Yeah, I'll
Scott Benner 1:34:38
tell you what nerd out first again. Yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna do is thank the sponsors that the guys so I mean, I really do need the sponsors. Like you're not getting this podcast about the sponsor, unless you all want to start paying for the show. And I'm pretty sure no one wants that. So just just you know, get a Jif of hypo pen or whatever today's thing just Same Yeah, yeah. Do you
Charlotte Drury 1:35:01
can you tell when people do like to fast forward 15 seconds through the sponsored
Scott Benner 1:35:07
more people? Yes. I mean, some people do jump through the ads, but I try very hard to make the ad something you want to listen to. Ah, okay. And sometimes I do that by recording them very late at night. So that I'm a little like loopy.
Charlotte Drury 1:35:24
So that your like actual, like excellent content in the ads.
Scott Benner 1:35:29
The ads feel like content anyway. Like I can't get some of these people are gonna end up making a better podcast and like keep giving away all my secrets. Are here's the top like, Alright, here's the top countries, US first than Canada. The show is huge in Australia, United Kingdom, Ireland, Germany, Sweden, the United Arab Emirates, New Zealand and Saudi Arabia.
Charlotte Drury 1:35:52
Hey, what what percentage of your people are from Arab Emirates?
Scott Benner 1:35:57
It's it's I don't have it as a percentage. The smaller number there on the list. Yeah. And I'm only looking at Cool. Yeah, I'm only looking at the last month. But from there, Israel, South Africa, France, Switzerland, Norway, Japan, Hong Kong, India, the Netherlands, Spain, Kuwait, Puerto Rico. Denmark, Egypt, Ukraine, Bahamas, Mexico. Singapore, Thailand. Panama, Finland. Cayman Islands. I'm huge in the Cayman Islands. I'm not kidding. Qatar, Taiwan, Slovakia, Chile, China, Italy, Romania, Belgium. These are all places in the last 30 days. Virgin Islands. While there's a place I don't know. Hold on. We'll come back to that. Poland. Austria. No. Say you have to say it out with your brain. Philippines. Portugal. Are you ready? Yeah. Libby, Libyan Libyan Arab. jamaa Haria.
Charlotte Drury 1:36:55
Okay, no, also have never heard of that. Now. I was an international studies major. I'm not sure that place exists. According to my knowledge. Oh, wait a minute.
Scott Benner 1:37:06
I'm googling. Yeah, that's a good place.
Charlotte Drury 1:37:09
It's earlier in the conversation. We can do that now.
Scott Benner 1:37:12
Oh, yeah. The internet's right here. It's in Libya. I guess history of
Charlotte Drury 1:37:18
lives like an independent territory inside of Libya,
Scott Benner 1:37:21
the Libyan Arab Juma the Libby Alright, hold on. Libyan Arab Gemma harissa is a country in Northern Africa that is slightly larger than the state of Alaska and shares borders with Tanzania, Algeria. Niger. It's a place and people
Charlotte Drury 1:37:43
haven't seen it the UN is it like I've never heard of this country.
Scott Benner 1:37:47
Right. Let's see United Nations. This is what you want to know about. Do they have a seat at the Yeah,
Charlotte Drury 1:37:52
I think I think that people are gonna agree with me. This is curious stuff.
Scott Benner 1:37:57
All right. Hold on. I got a un thing here from 2016. Libya political deal not open for renegotiation Libyan Arab Jim, I don't know the recent political chord paving the way for unity government. Libya is not open. It sounds like it's a split off thing around Libya. Best I can guess.
Charlotte Drury 1:38:19
You I just know that the rest of my day is going to be researching this.
Scott Benner 1:38:22
Well. I hope you do. Oh, here we go. Dominican Republic, Malaysia, Pakistan, Brazil, Czech Republic, Hungary, Russian Federation, Nepal, Malta, Nigeria. These are all places where people have listened with reasonable frequency in the list. That's really cool. Yeah, that's crazy, right? So everybody who has diabetes who speaks English at some point or another, finds out about the podcast. And it's because of the Pro Tip series, which I will tell you about as soon as we hang up here. Okay. Yeah, I knew that. That I can't believe you made me do that. Because it seems like I'm bragging. And I was
Charlotte Drury 1:38:58
I just listen, I allowed you to do that. I know you wanted to. Oh, my God.
Scott Benner 1:39:03
Are you kidding? If it was up to me, the whole podcast would just be about that. And then I'd be like, Oh, and here's bouncing it off though.
Charlotte Drury 1:39:09
You should end the podcast with I would just like to thank my listeners in and then name every single country.
Scott Benner 1:39:16
That wouldn't be too boring. Charlotte, let's say your name your your name really quick three times fast and see if we get lost. Ready?
Charlotte Drury 1:39:25
I have a lifetime of experience everything. My whole name do it. Charlie Gray, Charlotte Gray, Charlotte gray.
Scott Benner 1:39:30
It just falls apart. They're not even letters and sounds anymore.
Charlotte Drury 1:39:34
It's like saying word overnight or real name. That's all. That's it's in fact, it's it's quite a real name. And I like it.
Scott Benner 1:39:44
I do too. Is there anything we didn't talk about that we should have?
Charlotte Drury 1:39:49
I don't know. I can't remember what we talked about.
Scott Benner 1:39:51
Perfect way to end Hold on one second.
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